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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsHooray, I'm out of the hospital! Damned stroke almost got me.
Thanks to Aristis for the good advice!
elleng
(131,457 posts)Just take it easy, dont push it hard. Had mine last August. A . Great and patient therapy team at Kelowna Gen Hosp. And a great and patient wife, making damn sure I behave.
orleans
(34,105 posts)... and "making damn sure" you behaved !!
flying_wahini
(6,720 posts)niyad
(113,995 posts)UpInArms
(51,296 posts)Recover well, dear panader0
debm55
(25,785 posts)panader0
(25,816 posts)orleans
(34,105 posts)take good care -- as best you can.
brer cat
(24,671 posts)Fla Dem
(23,898 posts)👏👍😄
barbtries
(28,824 posts)happy for you, stay well
irisblue
(33,065 posts)panader0
(25,816 posts)Karadeniz
(22,607 posts)chillfactor
(7,595 posts)Take good care of yourself and follow dr's orders!
panader0
(25,816 posts)tears in my eyes.
electric_blue68
(15,034 posts)highplainsdem
(49,138 posts)BumRushDaShow
(130,124 posts)GREAT NEWS!!!!!!!
That will make all the difference as you get back up and running.
vlyons
(10,252 posts)there's no place like home! Glad you are on the mend.
TeamProg
(6,375 posts)Keep
panader0
(25,816 posts)TeamProg
(6,375 posts)is/was always a lifestyle for me, but man, probably too much cheese still!
Stay alive!
duhneece
(4,128 posts)Im doing my best to keep my health
.
Please get better soon, my friend.
democrank
(11,115 posts)Sending a hug
LoisB
(7,256 posts)babylonsister
(171,112 posts)no idea! A stroke is nothing to fool with; the fact you're home bodes well. Stay healthy!
Iggo
(47,603 posts)msongs
(67,509 posts)Scrivener7
(51,093 posts)Take care of yourself.
kimbutgar
(21,289 posts)WheelWalker
(8,960 posts)MLAA
(17,376 posts)angrychair
(8,759 posts)Glad you're ok
calimary
(81,612 posts)Thanks for the good news! Itll buoy us all up.
Duncanpup
(12,960 posts)Solly Mack
(90,803 posts)NJCher
(35,842 posts)how do I find out about the advice from Aristus? Will somebody give me a link?
Deuxcents
(16,456 posts)panader0
(25,816 posts)2naSalit
(86,997 posts)Welcome home!
NoMoreRepugs
(9,528 posts)sheshe2
(84,100 posts)Now take care of yourself.
mnhtnbb
(31,420 posts)Best wishes to you for your continued recovery at home!
Glad to hear youre ok!
Goddessartist
(1,892 posts)twodogsbarking
(9,970 posts)Stay welll.
flying_wahini
(6,720 posts)panader0
(25,816 posts)I was trying to get a referral for a neurologist. I didn't have slurred speech or sagging face etc, but tests revealed a
sustantial stroke and evidence of small previous and unnoticed strokes. I'm not as tough as I thought I was.
BobTheSubgenius
(11,580 posts)Be sure to follow doctors' instructions - strokes are not at all trivial.
True Dough
(17,395 posts)wishing you well, panader0!
pandr32
(11,646 posts)Healthier shenanigans going forward.
DFW
(54,527 posts)Ive lost people to strokes (Mom, first of all), and had friends who were near-misses. One is now again out and about, though he needs a cane to walk. The othera doctor, of all thingsis mentally there, but a physical wreckespecially cruel, since he knows what is going on with himself and hates it. He used to volunteer his time with Doctors Without Borders in Kenya and Sudan, and now this. Strokes can be nasty animals. Take it VERY easy and do NOT miss a day if they give you daily blood thinners to take.
See ya round, my friend. A lot, I hope!
panader0
(25,816 posts)and all the foods I'll have to give up. I intend to stick around for a few more years. Thanks to you and all for the good wishes,
and hurry up with the next novel. The first thing I did when I got home was to pick up a guitar. I still have muscle memory.
DFW
(54,527 posts)This was 19 years ago. After the stents were sitting where they were supposed to, they asked me if my wife did most of the cooking. When I said yes, they called her for a conference at my bedside, and told her all the things I would not be allowed to eat any more. It was a very traumatic thing to hear. The cardiologists admonition is: if it tastes good, spit it out! Some of the stuff on the Verboten list has since been modified from never to only in moderation. Butter is still out, as is red meat. I never drank alcohol anyway, so when they said no red wine, I said no problem. Certain medications have to be taken daily or else. Can do. It beats the alternative, and I am, after all, still here 19 years later. Now, the docs have even said eggs, shellfish in moderation, and even the occasional ice cream is allowed. Butter is still out, but I have a pipeline to an olive farm in northeastern Spain, and I get cold-pressed 5 liter containers of virgin olive oil every three or four months or so. One gets used to it.
I could still drop dead tomorrow, of course, but even if I do, Ive had 19 years that I wouldnt have if I had ignored all warning signs and medical advice. Not only that, I got to spend them with an insanely gorgeous woman who is both very even-tempered AND a master chef. That alone was worth sticking around for.
Within a month after the stents were put in, I resumed my insane work-travel schedule of one or two or three countries a day, and have been back at it for the last 19 years. I figure Ill keep it up as long as it doesnt wear me out, and ditch it if I feel I cant handle it any more. What are they gonna do? Threaten to kill me? Kinda redundant, and they know it. One of the guys, my immediate superior, is my age and has been there longer than I have (dropped out of Harvard because it was too boring!). He is a health fanatic. He is now 71, like me, but looks 20 years younger. But hes in Dallas 24/7 and rich as all hell, so he can afford all the fancy training and diet schedules. Hes going to leave a million bucks each to his kids, five million to his wife (or whatever the tax-free limit is), and has set up a charitable foundation to help with education for local Dallas kids for the rest of his fortune. Fair enough. Hes a Democrat like we are. He just got lucky, and he knows it.
Like you, I make sure I have guitars available when the urge comes. Besides Germany, I keep at least one in Langley and a couple (six string and twelve string) in Dallas. Cape Cod, now, too. Certain addictions just cant be kicked, and demand more attention than others!
Evolve Dammit
(16,820 posts)CrispyQ
(36,574 posts)I had a very small stroke in November. I thought I was fine but my husband noticed something wrong & called 911. I was at the hospital in less than an hour. I'm recovering nicely, but damn, it changes your perspective, doesn't it? I was in a vile mood the first few months after but am doing much better now.
Wishing you the absolute best!
diva77
(7,686 posts)...so glad Aristus reached you at the most critical time and you followed through.
Best wishes as you embark on recovery.
trof
(54,256 posts)Elessar Zappa
(14,152 posts)Moostache
(9,897 posts)First and foremost is your health and being able to partake in life's other great thing - the memories and love we create and share along the way.
Buildings and possessions crumble and fall out of fashion or operating status.
Cars and jewelry fade in luminosity and luster.
Food and drink taken alone cannot compete with an intimate dinner party for 2 or 22.
Glad to read that you're OK. Best wishes for a full recovery and many happy memories to come...
area51
(11,945 posts)UTUSN
(70,809 posts)panader0
(25,816 posts)Kali
(55,032 posts)Glad you are home and on the mend. I'm back on the hospital myself. Knee got infected again. Were you in Sierra Vista or Tucson?
panader0
(25,816 posts)had to take out my fake knee and put a temporary spacer. hopfully home tomorrow. crazy year.