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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsJust got a call from the surgeon that my wife of 37 years did well with hip replacement surgery..
Sharing that with you guys because:
A. We can use all the good news we can get;
and
B, I'm sitting here by myself in the hospital cafe eating Cheetos by myself.
Hope she's good for another 37 years; I'll check the warranty.

Scrivener7
(56,110 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)Scrivener7
(56,110 posts)MIButterfly
(651 posts)That is good news. Here's to a swift recovery. I wish your wife all the best. Keep us posted.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)SheltieLover
(70,414 posts)Healing vibes on the way to her!
Permanut
(7,187 posts)Karadeniz
(24,520 posts)Permanut
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LoisB
(10,845 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)riversedge
(76,171 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)The physical therapist had her up and walking a couple of steps.
Tanuki
(15,917 posts)Best wishes for her full and speedy recovery, and many more blessed and joyous years together!
🥰🌷
Permanut
(7,187 posts)The whole thing is amazing to me.
NewLarry
(92 posts)All the best to both of y'all, and hopes for a speedy and complete recovery.
Tell her to put on her dancing shoes, and take her out!
Permanut
(7,187 posts)She should be ready in a few months, say August.
Figarosmom
(6,397 posts)My sister broke her hip and had a replacement. She limped for a while but didn't even have to take therapy.
walkingman
(9,425 posts)Figarosmom
(6,397 posts)My daughter is a physical therapist and she says hip replacements are not as bad as knee replacements. Use a cane or walker until you are comfortable walking without. Be mindful of every step and where you are placing your foot as you walk.
soldierant
(8,654 posts)replacement. I was told that by a PA at the orthopedic clinic which serves the Olympic Training Center when I was diagnosed with osteoarthritis in the left knee.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)walkingman
(9,425 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)Delightful to see her up already
3catwoman3
(26,923 posts)2 night hospital stay the first time. Home same afternoon and walking up the stairs unassisted with the second one - yikes!
Wishing your sweetheart an uneventful recovery.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)Sounds like you're on the way to being the Bionic Woman!
iluvtennis
(21,275 posts)
senseandsensibility
(22,607 posts)I wish her a speedy recovery!
Permanut
(7,187 posts)She just said "Hip, hip hooray!"
senseandsensibility
(22,607 posts)and that will serve her well during her recovery.
jrthin
(5,160 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)You're right, I wasn't breathing right while I was waiting.
rubbersole
(9,952 posts)But instead of Cheetos try Funyums. It speeds up the recovery. 😜
Permanut
(7,187 posts)Might take several doses.
leftieNanner
(15,985 posts)That means that you are her recovery coach. I did that for my husband twice. Be fierce with the exercises and she will get strong and able quickly.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)She wants to live life at a hundred miles an hour. I may have to put in some speed bumps.
Phoenix61
(18,399 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)surfered
(7,460 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)I'm retired, and so is she, so there's no escape!
wordstroken
(1,195 posts)You are not alone. Your DU familiar is right there beside you cheering you on.
Sending love and hugs to you both.
🦋 wordstroken
Permanut
(7,187 posts)Amaryllis
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(7,187 posts)Srkdqltr
(8,540 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)She'll be glad to hear your experience. Okay, just told her. Very reassuring, Srkdqltr.
Fla Dem
(26,829 posts)Last edited Wed Apr 23, 2025, 07:55 AM - Edit history (1)

Permanut
(7,187 posts)gademocrat7
(11,528 posts)Wishing you ur wife a good recovery. Take care🤗
Permanut
(7,187 posts)Tetrachloride
(8,800 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)Now that's a great warranty!
joanbarnes
(2,010 posts)Two years ago, pain is 100% gone. Best wishes to your wife.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)But it hasn't been even 24 hours yet. She will be very glad to hear your experience.
TommieMommy
(2,104 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)malaise
(285,646 posts)Heal quickly wifey😀
Permanut
(7,187 posts)OldSWODog
(103 posts)P, greetings. You're correct: good news (even from others) is enjoyed. I trust the rehab goes well; your bride will likely consider the PTs to be Torquemada understudies but, once completed, may she enjoy a newly functional joint. Cheers, OSD
Permanut
(7,187 posts)I'll be cheering from the sidelines.
HeartsCanHope
(1,090 posts)
Permanut
(7,187 posts)Andy Canuck
(310 posts)I hope shes up and running soon.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)I'm blown away by your response and all the good wishes on this thread. You have truly helped with her healing.
Nasruddin
(1,036 posts)Her career as a paratrooper, though, might be over
Permanut
(7,187 posts)And skydiving and bungee jumping may be out too.
aggiesal
(10,124 posts)Just teasing.
Again, good to hear.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)I'm just the muscle. I'm not gonna mess with that
NCgayguy
(181 posts)May You Both Be Healthy, Safe and Happy!
Permanut
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ShazzieB
(20,973 posts)Happy to hear it! I hope your wife has a fast and smooth recovery!
I've been nudging my husband to look into having a hip replaced. Not sure it would be the right choice for his situation, but I'm trying to get him to at least see an orthopedist to find out. Wish us luck, lol.
niyad
(124,590 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)niyad
(124,590 posts)niyad
(124,590 posts)for both of you. Your DU family is here for you, lean as hard as you neeed.
Cheetos??? Could you go down to the cafeteria, and at least get something more closely resembling actual food? Or have sonething delivered? Will you be staying there while?
Permanut
(7,187 posts)but the selection was nothing to brag about. Cheese pizza that looks like a doormat, you know the drill.
Thank you for your kind words, makes this challenge a little lighter.
electric_blue68
(21,930 posts)From my 2 experiences w PT
left shoulder [ripped rotators] in my late 30's (and Im a lefty)
tri-frsctured right ankle [got metal] in late 50's
If she does her PT about 96% of the time she should have excellent results. A little slack off allowed, but that's it.
Good Luck!
)))healing✨️vibes(((
Permanut
(7,187 posts)Thanks electrc_blue68!
electric_blue68
(21,930 posts)LQ_Dem
(5 posts)Had my right hip replaced four years ago. Use a walker for a few days. Then go to a cane. Then quickly toss it and start walking and ASAP bicycling. I rewarded myself by growing a beard. Don't stop...this is a long-term recovery. Hardest part was getting my golf swing back. Just didn't feel right for the longest time. I eventually changed my swing (for the better) and am now on track.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)I'm going to read your reply directly to her, it's like you know her. She's really just getting started on her recovery, but already frustrated about toddling around the house with the walker. She will be delighted with just the idea of using a cane instead.
We've spent a lot of time on the regular bikes; my brilliant idea about that is to get her an electric bike, maybe get her out on the road faster. I'm not telling her that part, her birthday is next week.
Hope22
(4,018 posts)Sending love to both of you!💗💗🙏🏼
Permanut
(7,187 posts)dai13sy
(559 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)OldBaldy1701E
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InAbLuEsTaTe
(25,253 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)calimary
(86,763 posts)Thanks for the good news! We ALL need it.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)Bluethroughu
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Permanut
(7,187 posts)She has enjoyed running just recreationally, so I'm hoping a long with you. Looks excellent, for her to get back to it
AllaN01Bear
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Permanut
(7,187 posts)Thanks AllaNO1Bear!
webhead usa
(2 posts)I had my surgery 9 years ago. No problems.
Make certain your wife does the rehab exercises.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)She's committed, and we're both retired, so no distractions, no excuses.
LetMyPeopleVote
(165,173 posts)Clouds Passing
(5,232 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)lark
(25,148 posts)Hope I do as well with my upcoming shoulder surgery.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)It's mind boggling to me as a non medical person that these joints can be replaced.
Best wishes back at ya for your upcoming surgery; let us know results! Just a side question about right or left, dominant side?
Erda
(187 posts)Here's to another 37+ years!
Permanut
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Peacetrain
(24,072 posts)My husband and I were married 37 years when I had a knee replacement.. and we did lots and lots of planning... and took those awesome trips (and are planning more) it seems like yesterday.. time flies..
Best wishes to your wife .
Permanut
(7,187 posts)We want to follow in your footsteps; number one on her bucket list is Paris, and we will be able to do that now.
femmedem
(8,516 posts)The recovery took a while, but now I feel as if there was never anything wrong. It sure feels great to be able to walk all over town again without limping.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)She will be delighted to hear your experience. She has the same question you probably had, about how long the recovery would take. Your perspective is great as someone who's been there.
femmedem
(8,516 posts)First, did the surgeon use the anterior or posterior approach? Mine used the posterior approach, partly because of a congenital hip abnormality and partly because it's what he's more experienced at. This approach slows the recovery time, but the outcome ends up being just as good.
Second, does she have any conditions that would make her recovery slower than usual?
I know one person who had the anterior approach who was walking on the beach with no walking aids within a few days. It took me over a month to ditch the cane, but again, I have an abnormality that slowed my recovery.
However long it takes, she'll be happy she had it done!
Permanut
(7,187 posts)No pre existing conditions, and health generally good.
Dorothy V
(344 posts)Make sure she goes to all her PT!
spooky3
(37,599 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)I'm gonna play this for her immediately.
FemDemERA
(517 posts)Hope her recovery goes smoothly.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)She's off to a good start. We have that kind of house where you can loop around through the kitchen, dining, living room and hall back to where you started, so she's doing laps (well, only one so far).
ailsagirl
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Duncanpup
(14,708 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)when I was a kid people had a bad hip they just had to live with it.
Ford_Prefect
(8,398 posts)
Permanut
(7,187 posts)but she'll get it back.
Vinca
(52,265 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)And she was in surgery less than two hours.
Emile
(35,306 posts)Permanut
(7,187 posts)but my wife says all men do.
IbogaProject
(4,542 posts)Sorrow shared is halved
Native saying
Permanut
(7,187 posts)dem4decades
(12,881 posts)And thanks, we here can use all the good news we can get.
Permanut
(7,187 posts)It has been recommended that my wife increase her protein intake during her recuperation.
So, even though we don't eat much beef, we decided that tonight we're going with the Applebee's $9.99 burger special.
Of course, I'm going for the bacon cheese version because, oh, reasons.