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debm55

(53,428 posts)
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 10:12 AM Nov 18

What food side dish will not be on your plate this Thanksgiving? Mine is that jello mold with fruit cocktail in it. How

about you?

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What food side dish will not be on your plate this Thanksgiving? Mine is that jello mold with fruit cocktail in it. How (Original Post) debm55 Nov 18 OP
Turnips and I agree with that jello fruit salad mess TommieMommy Nov 18 #1
Thank you very much, TommieMommy , I agree. I don't think I have ever eaten a turnip nor do I want to. debm55 Nov 18 #3
No, no, 🫜 turnips are good and so are rutabagas and kohlrabi. Polly Hennessey Nov 18 #7
Thank you, Polly Hennessey. I have eaten kohlrabi , which I liked. But never turnips. Never had creamed onions. debm55 Nov 18 #11
Polly Hennessey. I set up a thread for you on your 22 anniversary. I don;t want to answer the posts as It is not my debm55 Nov 18 #15
Thanks! 😊 It was a happy day twenty-two years sgo when I discovered DU. Polly Hennessey Nov 18 #29
There's a turnip cake dim sum. Often has little bits of ham in it. Tasty! electric_blue68 Nov 19 #60
Green bean and onion casserole displacedvermoter Nov 18 #2
Thank you very much, displacedadvermoter, for sharing. However I do like the breaded onions on top. debm55 Nov 18 #4
Idk if they'll have it this year, but Trader Joe's has had a containe of dried fried onions around Holiday time. Yummy! electric_blue68 Nov 19 #63
Thank you electric_blue68, I enjoy eating them debm55 Nov 19 #65
Agreed RainCaster Nov 18 #5
None of it, since I won't be going to a TD dinner. Ocelot II Nov 18 #6
HAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAH, I agree. Thank you very much, Ocelot II debm55 Nov 18 #9
A person after my own heart MustLoveBeagles Nov 18 #25
One the rare occasion of having it I've scooped out the marshmallow parts! 😄 electric_blue68 Nov 19 #61
mom always had oyster dressing, baked macaroni and the green bean casserole rampartd Nov 18 #8
HAHAHAHAHH. Thank you very much, rampartd. debm55 Nov 18 #10
If I provide the oysters EYESORE 9001 Nov 18 #12
not his year rampartd Nov 18 #13
Green bean casserole SheltieLover Nov 18 #14
Thank you very much, SheltieLover. But the fried onions on top are good. debm55 Nov 18 #16
Oh I'd eat fried onions & love green beans, too, but not in mush soup. SheltieLover Nov 18 #17
Thank you , SheltieLover, Yes, the Cream of Mushroom soup is a nasty. debm55 Nov 18 #18
In my humble opinion, Green Bean Casserole rocks, but... dwp6577 Nov 18 #27
Thank you very much dwp6577, I will go to the link you gave. debm55 Nov 18 #31
Use cream of celery. Much better Freddie Nov 18 #34
Thank you very much, Freddie. I will switch to Cream of Celery. debm55 Nov 18 #37
My daughter and son in law hosting. They are food snobs in a good way. CTyankee Nov 18 #19
Thank you very much, CTyankee. I hope you are enjoying your new home. debm55 Nov 18 #20
Turkey ProfessorGAC Nov 18 #21
We're doing salmon this year MustLoveBeagles Nov 18 #23
If We Lived Somewhere... ProfessorGAC Nov 18 #36
Wow, that sounds terrific. Thank you very much, MustLoveBeagles. debm55 Nov 18 #38
WOW , that sounds great, ProfessorGAC. I was waiting to see what you were going to make. debm55 Nov 18 #32
Thanks ProfessorGAC Nov 18 #49
Excellent. debm55 Nov 18 #50
Sweet potatos MustLoveBeagles Nov 18 #22
I hear you, Thank you very much MustLoveBeagles. debm55 Nov 18 #39
By the time I load my plate with turkey, dressing, taters, and gravy, there won't be room for anything else. Dorothy V Nov 18 #24
HAHAHAHAHAHHA. Thank you very much, Dorothy V. I am so glad to be reading your posts again. debm55 Nov 18 #40
OH GEE, FEEL like fruit! elleng Nov 18 #26
Thank you very much, elleng. debm55 Nov 18 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author wcmagumba Nov 18 #28
You already know the answer to this one Bluestocking Nov 18 #30
Sure do, Bluestocking. Thank you for sharing. debm55 Nov 18 #42
Cranberry sauce. MIButterfly Nov 18 #33
Thank you very much, MIButterfly, I hate the yams with the syrup and marshmallows. debm55 Nov 18 #43
That doesn't even sound good. MIButterfly Nov 18 #47
It's not. Thank you MIButterfly. debm55 Nov 18 #48
Just back from Morocco so Tagine Lemon Chicken Onthefly Nov 18 #35
Oh thank you very much, Onthefly. I have bookmarked the link. debm55 Nov 18 #44
My mom would cut up apples, leave the skin on applegrove Nov 18 #45
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA. Thank you very much, applegrove. debm55 Nov 18 #46
Ohhhh, boy! 😑😄 electric_blue68 Nov 19 #62
Turkey Hassler Nov 18 #51
Thank you very much, Hassler. debm55 Nov 18 #53
We're eating at my mother's so it's the same cuisine for the last 70 some Thankdgiving: dry turkey, sloppy spuds. marble falls Nov 18 #52
HAHAHHHAHa. Oh you. Thank you marble falls. debm55 Nov 19 #67
One that I want, being from Massachusetts JPK Nov 18 #54
My husband is from Quincy, MA His mother taught me a recipe for corn pudding. I haven't made in a while. It might be debm55 Nov 18 #55
Brussels sprouts or broccoli. boonecreek Nov 18 #56
Thank you very much, boonecreek. You are very sweet to Mrs. boonecreek debm55 Nov 19 #68
Another vote against the sweet potato-marshmallow yuck. 3catwoman3 Nov 18 #57
I agree with you, Thank you for sharing 3catwoman3. debm55 Nov 19 #66
Another vote against the sweet potato-marshmallow yuck. 3catwoman3 Nov 18 #58
Baaahahahaaaa! During a Summer extended family get togther, one of my aunt brought one of those jello-mold fruit things! electric_blue68 Nov 19 #59
On, did anyone eat some of that????Thank you electic_blue68 debm55 Nov 19 #69
Hahahaaa! I'm not sure... electric_blue68 Nov 19 #70
No to the cranberries! electric_blue68 Nov 19 #64
Thank you very much, electric_blue68 debm55 Nov 19 #71
You have to add the baby marshmallows to the fruit cocktail. Amaryllis Nov 19 #72
HAHAHAHAHAHHAH. Thank you you, Amaryllis. debm55 Nov 19 #73
I forgot Ambrosia--cool whip, diced apples, small marshmallows debm55 Nov 19 #74
Cream corn JMCKUSICK Nov 19 #75
HAHAHAHAHHHAH, Thank you, John. debm55 Nov 19 #77
Anything justaprogressive Nov 19 #76
I agree. Thank you very much, justaprogressive. debm55 Nov 19 #78
never stuffing + avoid most veg other than taters. more room for gravy. pansypoo53219 Nov 19 #79
Thank you very much, pansypoo53219, Do you make a crater in your taters for the gravy? debm55 Nov 19 #82
i usually need a extra cup of gravy to add to the overflowing gravy. uncle makes copious amounts of beef + turkey gravy. pansypoo53219 Nov 20 #83
Thank you very much, pansypoo53219 debm55 Nov 20 #86
at least they use corn starch instead of flour now. pansypoo53219 Nov 21 #91
I always hated the roughness of those pear pieces in fruit cocktail. viva la Nov 19 #80
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHA. Thank you very much, viva la. That's funny. debm55 Nov 20 #85
Great jello memories--- viva la Nov 20 #87
HAHAHAHHAH. I'll pass if you don't mind. Thank you, viva la. debm55 Nov 20 #88
Anything Jello. It's just...icky. -nt CrispyQ Nov 19 #81
Thank you CrispyQ and I agree with you. debm55 Nov 20 #84
Turkey. Not a side dish but I don't eat mammals and birds. NNadir Nov 20 #89
Thank you very much for sharing with us. NNadir. debm55 Nov 20 #90
Green bean casserole will not darken my table jmowreader Nov 22 #92
Thank you very much, jmowreader. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. debm55 Nov 22 #93

debm55

(53,428 posts)
3. Thank you very much, TommieMommy , I agree. I don't think I have ever eaten a turnip nor do I want to.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 10:17 AM
Nov 18

Polly Hennessey

(8,405 posts)
7. No, no, 🫜 turnips are good and so are rutabagas and kohlrabi.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 10:42 AM
Nov 18

Jello mold takes me back to Thanksgivings past. Also, remember creamed onions.

debm55

(53,428 posts)
11. Thank you, Polly Hennessey. I have eaten kohlrabi , which I liked. But never turnips. Never had creamed onions.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 11:04 AM
Nov 18

debm55

(53,428 posts)
15. Polly Hennessey. I set up a thread for you on your 22 anniversary. I don;t want to answer the posts as It is not my
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 12:21 PM
Nov 18

anniversary,

electric_blue68

(25,181 posts)
60. There's a turnip cake dim sum. Often has little bits of ham in it. Tasty!
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 12:13 AM
Nov 19

Last edited Fri Nov 21, 2025, 01:10 PM - Edit history (1)

debm55

(53,428 posts)
4. Thank you very much, displacedadvermoter, for sharing. However I do like the breaded onions on top.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 10:19 AM
Nov 18

electric_blue68

(25,181 posts)
63. Idk if they'll have it this year, but Trader Joe's has had a containe of dried fried onions around Holiday time. Yummy!
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 12:21 AM
Nov 19

Ocelot II

(128,497 posts)
6. None of it, since I won't be going to a TD dinner.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 10:41 AM
Nov 18

But the dish I wouldn't eat if I were at a dinner and it were offered to me is that God-awful sweet potato and marshmallow mess.

rampartd

(3,216 posts)
8. mom always had oyster dressing, baked macaroni and the green bean casserole
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 10:54 AM
Nov 18

the wife has tried oyster dressing every year for decades and still not got it right. last year $60 in oysters so i have put my foot down. stovetop dressing and cornish hen is good enough for 2.

EYESORE 9001

(29,351 posts)
12. If I provide the oysters
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 11:32 AM
Nov 18

will you invite me to dinner? 🥺
Nobody likes oyster dressing in the extended family.

rampartd

(3,216 posts)
13. not his year
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 11:55 AM
Nov 18

i do like oyster dressing, but we're doing the empty nest minimum this year. stovetop dressing.

CTyankee

(67,658 posts)
19. My daughter and son in law hosting. They are food snobs in a good way.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 01:19 PM
Nov 18

They wouldn't have a jello mold anywhere in their house. They love to get in the kitchen together to make dishes. Everything is the best and the freshest.

It makes me tired just thinking about their effort.

ProfessorGAC

(75,441 posts)
21. Turkey
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 03:19 PM
Nov 18

I'm making prime rib, a saffron potato puree, a green veggie (not sure which) & a tomato/mozzarella salad.
My wife is handling desert.
But, no turkey for us. It's a boring meat.

ProfessorGAC

(75,441 posts)
36. If We Lived Somewhere...
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 05:38 PM
Nov 18

...where I could get that stuff fresh, I'd probably make something like that.

ProfessorGAC

(75,441 posts)
49. Thanks
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 07:33 PM
Nov 18

I ordered a pretty small prime rib, so we'll have leftover beef.
I already plan to make beef barley soup with what's left.

Dorothy V

(424 posts)
24. By the time I load my plate with turkey, dressing, taters, and gravy, there won't be room for anything else.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 04:42 PM
Nov 18

debm55

(53,428 posts)
40. HAHAHAHAHAHHA. Thank you very much, Dorothy V. I am so glad to be reading your posts again.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 05:46 PM
Nov 18

elleng

(141,757 posts)
26. OH GEE, FEEL like fruit!
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 04:46 PM
Nov 18

May have another pear later!!!

Consulting with family, about options.

Response to debm55 (Original post)

MIButterfly

(1,749 posts)
33. Cranberry sauce.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 05:07 PM
Nov 18

Never did like cranberries.

I've never had green bean casserole in my life, so I don't know if I'd like it or not.

Edited to add: I won't be having yams on my plate, either.

applegrove

(129,451 posts)
45. My mom would cut up apples, leave the skin on
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 06:18 PM
Nov 18

and add it to jello as a dessert. Not good.

marble falls

(69,895 posts)
52. We're eating at my mother's so it's the same cuisine for the last 70 some Thankdgiving: dry turkey, sloppy spuds.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 09:36 PM
Nov 18

JPK

(906 posts)
54. One that I want, being from Massachusetts
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 09:51 PM
Nov 18

That is Indian Pudding. I had never heard of that when I was a kid among all the "Indian" labeled things I recall when I was a kid. I had never heard of it when I was a kid. It was a Colonial desert based on Maize. It sounds perfect for a Thanksgiving meal addition.

debm55

(53,428 posts)
55. My husband is from Quincy, MA His mother taught me a recipe for corn pudding. I haven't made in a while. It might be
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 09:59 PM
Nov 18

online, I don't know how to do links. It was delicious and called Corn Pudding.

3catwoman3

(28,320 posts)
57. Another vote against the sweet potato-marshmallow yuck.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 11:36 PM
Nov 18

The only way I like sweet potatoes is sweet potato fries. When they are mashed, it's a texture thing for me.

3catwoman3

(28,320 posts)
58. Another vote against the sweet potato-marshmallow yuck.
Tue Nov 18, 2025, 11:36 PM
Nov 18

The only way I like sweet potatoes is sweet potato fries. When they are mashed, it's a texture thing for me.

electric_blue68

(25,181 posts)
59. Baaahahahaaaa! During a Summer extended family get togther, one of my aunt brought one of those jello-mold fruit things!
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 12:11 AM
Nov 19

👎👎😄

electric_blue68

(25,181 posts)
70. Hahahaaa! I'm not sure...
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 12:17 PM
Nov 19

I might have taken a bit, and nibbled an even tinier bit (😄 , or didn't take any at all.

electric_blue68

(25,181 posts)
64. No to the cranberries!
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 12:25 AM
Nov 19

And as mentioned I will scoop out the marshmallow part of the sweet potato dish.

pansypoo53219

(22,785 posts)
83. i usually need a extra cup of gravy to add to the overflowing gravy. uncle makes copious amounts of beef + turkey gravy.
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 05:26 AM
Nov 20

usually get leftovers. i have to fix the gravy to eliminate sage + improve the beef gravy.

viva la

(4,435 posts)
80. I always hated the roughness of those pear pieces in fruit cocktail.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 08:25 PM
Nov 19

My gran was a jello queen. She had all those copper molds, like the one shaped like a crab.

viva la

(4,435 posts)
87. Great jello memories---
Thu Nov 20, 2025, 02:51 PM
Nov 20

There was one she called "stained glass parfait," which was cubes of different color jellos in a parfait glass, mixed with mayo and walnuts.

I know we're all going to rush out and try that recipe!

jmowreader

(52,806 posts)
92. Green bean casserole will not darken my table
Sat Nov 22, 2025, 04:31 PM
Nov 22

Oh lord, let me tell you the disaster that Thanksgiving is already turning out to be.

A couple weeks ago my niece sent me a text, "would you be willing to host Thanksgiving dinner at your house this year? Mom and dad will be out of town." (She normally eats Thanksgiving dinner at her parents' but they're unavailable this year. Please don't ask why to protect their privacy.) So I said that wouldn't be a problem. My house is pretty much designed to do this - I have two refrigerators, a 36-inch induction range and a Traeger grill. She lives in an old mobile home that's way too small for company.

On Thursday I got a text from her: "We're having Thanksgiving dinner at my house. My house is really small but we'll make it work. Please come." This came in AFTER I had already bought the turkey.

I worked days Friday building Thanksgiving packages (a newspaper section with inserts in it - this makes life much easier for us because one person can feed the equivalent of six heads) and after work went out to her house. "Uhh...I thought I was hosting Thanksgiving. We agreed to that a couple weeks ago." "We did?" "Uhh...yeah." I pulled out my phone and showed her the text thread. "Oh." So, now it's at my house again.

Anyway, I'm gonna do smoked turkey, smoked stuffing, mashed potatoes, vegetables, rolls, jello salad, three kinds of olives (black, green and some damn thing I bought at the store last week) and a couple kinds of pie for dessert.

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