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JMCKUSICK

(4,735 posts)
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:35 PM Friday

Rory has passed away.

I am so overwhelmed with gratitude that you all gave me the opportunity to go and say thank you, to share how important he was in my life, to be able to hold his hand, to hug him, and to say Good bye while he could hear me.
That you gave me the opportunity to create truly magical, final memories has me weeping in gratitude, to be given the opportunity to pay homage to my best friend to do everything in my very best capacity, personally, not some guilt ridden long distance wish i could've been there thing.
You helped me be there for him when he needed and wanted it most, you helped me see his easy smile, one of his last laughs, to see him at his very best, instead of at his worst.
You are God, You are Miracles, You offer such Grace, You offer such Empathy, You give such Love.
On behalf of all of us that You bless so selflessly every day DU,
Thank You.
Love, John

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Rory has passed away. (Original Post) JMCKUSICK Friday OP
I am so glad you had such a dear friend & that you had such a meaningful visit together SheltieLover Friday #1
Thank you SheltieLover, I appreciate that. JMCKUSICK Friday #5
Ty, John. I appreciate you, too. SheltieLover Friday #8
I am sad for you over your loss of Rory. You brought him great joy in his final days. May he RIP. Nanuke Friday #2
Thank you Nanuke, JMCKUSICK Friday #6
I'm So Sorry Deep State Witch Friday #3
Hear hear, JMCKUSICK Friday #18
So sorry on the loss samplegirl Yesterday #47
My condolences. Dear_Prudence Friday #4
Thank you Dear_Prudence JMCKUSICK Friday #19
I am so sorry JM Diamond_Dog Friday #7
Thank you Diamond_Dog JMCKUSICK Friday #20
I am so sorry, John. May the memories of Rory forever be a blessing to you, debm55 Friday #9
Thank you Debbie you e been so sweet. JMCKUSICK Friday #21
So very sorry for your loss, John Grim Chieftain Friday #10
They are very special Grim Chieftain, and I treasure them all. JMCKUSICK Friday #22
My condolences on the loss of your friend. sinkingfeeling Friday #11
I have no words. I am so sorry. Scrivener7 Friday #12
Thank you Scrivener7, JMCKUSICK Friday #23
I'm sorry for your loss JM. Rory... Clouds Passing Friday #13
Thank you Clouds Passing, JMCKUSICK Friday #24
I'm so sorry JM sdfernando Friday #14
Very true and yes, every moment was cherished. JMCKUSICK Friday #27
I'm so sorry for your loss Danmel Friday #15
Thank you Danmel, they surely will. JMCKUSICK Friday #32
May his memory be a blessing to you. Ziggysmom Friday #16
Thank you Ziggysmom JMCKUSICK Friday #33
I'm so sorry for your loss cate94 Friday #17
It really has helped with closure, thank you Cate94 JMCKUSICK Friday #34
Rory was lucky to have you; and you he. Thank you for your expression of gratitude Maraya1969 Friday #25
You all were such a big part of his "Last Miracle". JMCKUSICK Friday #35
My Condolences Dorothy V Friday #26
Thank you Dorothy V, JMCKUSICK Friday #36
Rest in Paradise, Rory Niagara Friday #28
He surely deserves to Niagara. Thank you. JMCKUSICK Friday #37
Wishing you peace, John. biophile Friday #29
Thank you Biophile JMCKUSICK Friday #38
I'm holding you in my heart tonight. lapucelle Friday #30
Thank you Lapucelle 😭 JMCKUSICK Friday #39
Oh, no. I am so sorry. He will live on in your heart and now in ours. I feel as if we knew him LoisB Friday #31
Thank you LoisB JMCKUSICK Friday #40
You and Rory were so blessed to have each other and to love with such infinite kindness and strength. wordstroken Friday #41
Thank you so much for your important words Wordstroken, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #45
May he be at peace. Holding you in love and light. niyad Friday #42
Thank you so much Niyad JMCKUSICK Friday #43
I'm sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles Friday #44
Thank you MustLoveBeagles, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #56
Hugs malaise Yesterday #46
Thank you Malaise. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #57
Condolences,JMCKUSICK gademocrat7 Yesterday #48
Thank you Gademocrat47 JMCKUSICK Yesterday #58
deepest condolences onethatcares Yesterday #49
They are, thank you so much Onethatcares. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #61
💧❤️ littlemissmartypants Yesterday #50
My sympathies on your loss. CrispyQ Yesterday #51
(((💐))) Deuxcents Yesterday #52
Rory has returned IbogaProject Yesterday #53
So sad. I am sorry for your loss. pandr32 Yesterday #54
My dear JMCKUSICK--I am so sorry to hear your sad news today. CaliforniaPeggy Yesterday #55
Memories are blessings, too. marble falls Yesterday #59
I agree and I have plenty, including our last visit. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #62
🫂 mwmisses4289 Yesterday #60

SheltieLover

(75,441 posts)
1. I am so glad you had such a dear friend & that you had such a meaningful visit together
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:43 PM
Friday

I am here for you if you need to chat.

Nanuke

(887 posts)
2. I am sad for you over your loss of Rory. You brought him great joy in his final days. May he RIP.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:44 PM
Friday

Diamond_Dog

(39,345 posts)
7. I am so sorry JM
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 01:46 PM
Friday

As was stated above, I am glad you were able to be with him in his last hours and say goodbye.

Wishing you Peace and Strength.

sdfernando

(5,980 posts)
14. I'm so sorry JM
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 02:31 PM
Friday

I know you will cherish those final memories. It was a gift to both of you that you could be there!

Peace to both of you

Danmel

(5,650 posts)
15. I'm so sorry for your loss
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 03:17 PM
Friday

May sweet memories of your beloved friend bring you comfort and peace.

Dorothy V

(424 posts)
26. My Condolences
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 04:54 PM
Friday

Rory and you were so blessed to have each other. Those blessings continue and will touch you every day for the rest of your life.
Love never ends.

JMCKUSICK

(4,735 posts)
38. Thank you Biophile
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 07:09 PM
Friday

I have mountains of treasured memories that will walk with me my remaining days.

LoisB

(12,115 posts)
31. Oh, no. I am so sorry. He will live on in your heart and now in ours. I feel as if we knew him
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 06:29 PM
Friday

too. May The Universe welcome him with open arms and may Rory have eternal peace.

wordstroken

(1,400 posts)
41. You and Rory were so blessed to have each other and to love with such infinite kindness and strength.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 09:23 PM
Friday

Now, as you build a strong foundation of new love and caring among our DU family, Rory will forever stay in your memory and in your heart.

And thank goodness you have Petunia and Cuddles to give you their special kind of up-close-and-personal comfort and warmth and love that only animals can give.
💕 💖

Love you, John

🦋 wordstroken

JMCKUSICK

(4,735 posts)
45. Thank you so much for your important words Wordstroken,
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 06:48 AM
Yesterday

To be reminded of the continuity of not just life, but the energies, the fulfillment of one promise creating new ones, etc...
Thank you and we love you too.

IbogaProject

(5,475 posts)
53. Rory has returned
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 10:42 AM
Yesterday

That is how my Korean friend says they speak of this transition. And that their memorial style is to have an upbeat party in joyous celebration that the person would enjoy.

pandr32

(13,669 posts)
54. So sad. I am sorry for your loss.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 11:27 AM
Yesterday

May you have wonderful memories enough to lift your spirits and lots of hugs from us all.

CaliforniaPeggy

(155,851 posts)
55. My dear JMCKUSICK--I am so sorry to hear your sad news today.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 11:30 AM
Yesterday

How wonderful that you were there, that you had the chance to say goodbye, to laugh, to weep, to show your deep love. Please take care of yourself as you pass through this deep grief.

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