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Aristus

(71,798 posts)
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 09:44 PM Yesterday

I've never needed a drink more than I do right now.

Having a smoky Martini. Gin, single malt Scotch, and a dash of dry vermouth.

Mrs. Aristus is here, so I’m not going to go all-out, full-bore, balls to the wall drunk. But I sure want to.

I don’t know how much longer I can go on with things being this way.

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I've never needed a drink more than I do right now. (Original Post) Aristus Yesterday OP
I hear you. I am surprised I haven't started day drinking yet. yellow dahlia Yesterday #1
I took all of Election Week 2020 off from work. Aristus Yesterday #3
I hear you. yellow dahlia Yesterday #7
For people with empathy, it's a dark, dark time. LuckyCharms Yesterday #2
Indeed. Aristus Yesterday #5
So true. yellow dahlia Yesterday #8
I share your feelings brother. Cheers🍷 surfered Yesterday #4
I cried that night. Aristus Yesterday #9
I haven't had a drink in over 40 years. rzemanfl Yesterday #6
You're a stronger man than I am 👍 surfered Yesterday #10
13 years for me and I feel like slamming a pint of Tullamore Dew. LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #11
Stay strong!!! My battle was with cigarettes. 19 cents a pack at the PX and free in C rations surfered 23 hrs ago #14
Had the same battle... LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #15
In treatment I was told to rzemanfl 23 hrs ago #20
😁🙏 surfered 23 hrs ago #24
I was never a problem drinker. murielm99 21 hrs ago #36
My feelings involve weapons rzemanfl 23 hrs ago #18
It's exhausting. I'm exhausted. CrispyQ 23 hrs ago #12
Me too. Aristus 23 hrs ago #13
Trump will soon be dead, hopefully before me. The collaborators will be jailed, out of work and eternally shamed. surfered 23 hrs ago #16
There is no God. Aristus 23 hrs ago #17
I did say "if." surfered 23 hrs ago #23
25 years, one month, 14 days. 12 December 2000, when 5 corrupt, niyad 21 hrs ago #32
I haven't had a drink since May of 2024. I had 34 reasons to drink that day. rsdsharp 23 hrs ago #19
I just want to piss on his grave. rzemanfl 23 hrs ago #21
Me too. Aristus 23 hrs ago #22
I think days of it rzemanfl 23 hrs ago #25
A couple of us actually developed a business model of guided tours to the gravesite to piss on it surfered 23 hrs ago #26
If they charge a quarter per piss they can pay off the national debt. rsdsharp 22 hrs ago #28
Same here. I'm at a loss for words. GP6971 23 hrs ago #27
11 years sober here orangecrush 21 hrs ago #29
Dry January since November 2024 BidenRocks 21 hrs ago #30
29 years clean and sober. Iggo 21 hrs ago #31
43 months sober RainCaster 21 hrs ago #33
My Prim Care doctor actually recommended I drink booze BigmanPigman 21 hrs ago #34
I don't cry but I've been crying all day. sillywabbit 21 hrs ago #35
Mezcal does sound good right about now. Aristus 12 hrs ago #37

yellow dahlia

(4,990 posts)
1. I hear you. I am surprised I haven't started day drinking yet.
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 09:47 PM
Yesterday

Again, a Dark & Stormy seemed apropos.

Here's to us getting through this. Here's to Democracy getting through this.

Aristus

(71,798 posts)
3. I took all of Election Week 2020 off from work.
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 09:52 PM
Yesterday

Did a lot of day drinking then. It ended well, even if it was only temporary.

We’re going to need a lot more than community to get through it this time. We need a miracle. And I don’t believe in those.

yellow dahlia

(4,990 posts)
7. I hear you.
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 09:54 PM
Yesterday

WE THE PEOPLE is what we've got. We're strong, but it is a REALLY heavy lift.

surfered

(12,051 posts)
4. I share your feelings brother. Cheers🍷
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 09:52 PM
Yesterday

I haven’t felt this way since the night W announced we were going into Iraq. Because of the Viet Nam experience, I could it see it was wrong and I could see the death, the wounds, and the scars coming, but I couldn’t do anything about it.

Aristus

(71,798 posts)
9. I cried that night.
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 09:55 PM
Yesterday

This was before Mrs. Aristus renounced conservative Christianity and became a liberal atheist. So she didn’t understand why I was so distraught. But she held me and comforted me anyway.

She hates Trump with the heat of a thousand white-hot suns.

LuckyCharms

(22,104 posts)
11. 13 years for me and I feel like slamming a pint of Tullamore Dew.
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 09:57 PM
23 hrs ago

And I almost never feel this way.

surfered

(12,051 posts)
14. Stay strong!!! My battle was with cigarettes. 19 cents a pack at the PX and free in C rations
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 10:07 PM
23 hrs ago

I quit those 38 years ago

LuckyCharms

(22,104 posts)
15. Had the same battle...
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 10:13 PM
23 hrs ago

I quit smoking the same day I quit drinking.

I did not have an alcohol addiction, but cigarettes were a different story.

You stay strong too!

rzemanfl

(31,211 posts)
20. In treatment I was told to
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 10:34 PM
23 hrs ago

wait two years before trying to quit smoking. I waited a lot longer than that.

murielm99

(32,767 posts)
36. I was never a problem drinker.
Sun Jan 25, 2026, 12:54 AM
21 hrs ago

I quit drinking anyway because I am not as steady on my feet as I once was. I am 77. Older people often die from falls.

I quit smoking, too. It was just time to do it. I quit cold turkey.

surfered

(12,051 posts)
16. Trump will soon be dead, hopefully before me. The collaborators will be jailed, out of work and eternally shamed.
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 10:15 PM
23 hrs ago

If there is a just God.

Aristus

(71,798 posts)
17. There is no God.
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 10:18 PM
23 hrs ago

But there is biology. I just hope you’re right about the ‘soon’ thing.

niyad

(129,973 posts)
32. 25 years, one month, 14 days. 12 December 2000, when 5 corrupt,
Sun Jan 25, 2026, 12:33 AM
21 hrs ago

REPUBLICAN- appointed scotus justices abrogated their duties to the Constitution, and anointed bush the lesser as president. Yes, we had Obama and Biden for 12 of those years, but the pukes were, and are, busy destroying everything they hate about this country.

rsdsharp

(11,835 posts)
19. I haven't had a drink since May of 2024. I had 34 reasons to drink that day.
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 10:33 PM
23 hrs ago

But I swear by God and sunny Jesus that if I’m still alive when Trump shuffles into hell I going to get knee crawling, commode hugging drunk!

surfered

(12,051 posts)
26. A couple of us actually developed a business model of guided tours to the gravesite to piss on it
Sat Jan 24, 2026, 10:49 PM
23 hrs ago

I think alcohol was involved in coming up with the idea.

BidenRocks

(2,880 posts)
30. Dry January since November 2024
Sun Jan 25, 2026, 12:24 AM
21 hrs ago

00 Stella is pretty good once in a while.

Alcohol and chump do not go together!

Iggo

(49,708 posts)
31. 29 years clean and sober.
Sun Jan 25, 2026, 12:24 AM
21 hrs ago

I shall suspend my sobriety for a single celebratory shot on the day “When It Happens.”

BigmanPigman

(54,689 posts)
34. My Prim Care doctor actually recommended I drink booze
Sun Jan 25, 2026, 12:40 AM
21 hrs ago

during my last check up 2 months ago. At first I thought he was kidding but he wasn't.

He said this since for almost two years I have lost weight (down to 83 pounds) due to tRump stress and not watching the news or reading DU for 6 months changed nothing. My mind is still active and it knows what is going on. I'm not a moron. I have always had what he calls "industrial strength insomnia" and I told him a year ago that by Xmas 2025 I will have disappeared (from weight loss). I know my mind and body pretty well at 63 and I was correct.

I can drink but the only thing I get these days is a headache so that sucks and is not an option. Fuck tRump!!!!!!!!!!!

sillywabbit

(36 posts)
35. I don't cry but I've been crying all day.
Sun Jan 25, 2026, 12:48 AM
21 hrs ago

A smoky martini sounds perfect, but I think I might use some mezcal instead.

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