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LuckyCharms

(23,336 posts)
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:05 PM 5 hrs ago

Oh Christ, car is bought. Now, the dog can't walk...

Emergency vet visit. Wife is calling now.

She's in tears.

He's 15. if we have to put him down, I'm not going to be able to bear it.

Please spare a thought for him. Thank you.

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Oh Christ, car is bought. Now, the dog can't walk... (Original Post) LuckyCharms 5 hrs ago OP
Hoping for good news. 3catwoman3 5 hrs ago #1
I know all too well how this feels. imaginary girl 5 hrs ago #2
Weirdly going through this exact thing today JBTaurus83 5 hrs ago #3
I'm thinking of you. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #35
It is terrible to make these decisions for our beloved pets. brer cat 5 hrs ago #4
Have had him in my prayers Marthe48 5 hrs ago #5
Gentle 🫂 to you. mwmisses4289 4 hrs ago #6
Praying for your beloved dog. Lucky. debm55 4 hrs ago #7
Sparing a thought berksdem 4 hrs ago #8
Sending you all healing thoughts during this unfortunate time Niagara 4 hrs ago #9
the only way i could get through it when my lil ol man passed... cremate/save. ShepKat 4 hrs ago #10
Our is in a box under the bed and my pillow. Bradley was such a good boy. I think about him everyday ... marble falls 3 hrs ago #29
Sending good vibes. Figarosmom 4 hrs ago #11
Hurting heart here BaronChocula 3 hrs ago #12
Praying for healing for you and your family, Tanuki 3 hrs ago #13
Hang in there Lucky Coolgoober 3 hrs ago #14
Lucky, you know the inevitable is coming. Prairie_Seagull 3 hrs ago #15
All you can do is your best when they are alive and put them to rest when it is time. twodogsbarking 3 hrs ago #16
💔 I'm so sorry. That's 3 now, you should get a break. 1WorldHope 3 hrs ago #17
Sending kind wishes to all three of you. JMCKUSICK 3 hrs ago #18
Sending good vibes KT2000 3 hrs ago #19
I'm hoping for the best, LuckyCharms. In my mind, the only downside to dogs is that they have a tendency generalbetrayus 3 hrs ago #20
I sure hope he's ok. I am so sorry. LoisB 3 hrs ago #21
Talking to my 14 yo Havanese...with leg problems... MiHale 3 hrs ago #22
Hoping for and wishing you the best, Lucky... slightlv 3 hrs ago #23
I understand completely, Lucky.... some_of_us_are_sane 3 hrs ago #24
There is a special place in our hearts that only animals know. SupportSanity 3 hrs ago #25
I hope, Lucky, stage left 3 hrs ago #26
I'm so sorry - have been through that TBF 3 hrs ago #27
I get what you are going through: if anything happens to our cat, I admit it: I will be in deepest mourning. ... marble falls 3 hrs ago #28
I'm so sorry you're going through this. StarryNite 3 hrs ago #30
Sending lots of love. bamagal62 2 hrs ago #31
I hope he will be all right, Lucky. Sending health karma your way. Diamond_Dog 1 hr ago #32
*keepings fingers crossed* a kennedy 1 hr ago #33
HE'S HOME NOW. LuckyCharms 1 hr ago #34
YEAH!!!!! irisblue 1 hr ago #36
Good IbogaProject 1 hr ago #37
What a relief! 3catwoman3 1 hr ago #38
So glad to hear this! TBF 40 min ago #39
Thank goodness Niagara 11 min ago #41
Wonderful , Than you so much for the great news. Lucky. debm55 28 min ago #40

imaginary girl

(1,046 posts)
2. I know all too well how this feels.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:10 PM
5 hrs ago

I'm sorry you're going through this, and my thoughts are with your family.

JBTaurus83

(1,743 posts)
3. Weirdly going through this exact thing today
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:13 PM
5 hrs ago

I have a 16 year old Maltese, and he had some type of seizure or stroke. He can’t move his back legs and I’m sitting at the animal hospital. I hope your pup recovers! My hope is to have mine pass at home when the time comes.

brer cat

(27,735 posts)
4. It is terrible to make these decisions for our beloved pets.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:15 PM
5 hrs ago

I'm sorry that you and your family are going through this.

Niagara

(12,338 posts)
9. Sending you all healing thoughts during this unfortunate time
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:45 PM
4 hrs ago

Last edited Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:31 PM - Edit history (1)



ShepKat

(562 posts)
10. the only way i could get through it when my lil ol man passed... cremate/save.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 12:48 PM
4 hrs ago

Back in 2012... We are their stewards and take the responsibility seriously.
We are the alpha and make decisions for their sake- not ours. It's the honorable loving thing to do.
My angel still sits on the upper shelf overlooking all the goings on and I feel him with me still when i look up
there at his beautiful wooden box on the alter. He was in my arms as he crossed over.
I simply could not part from him and had him cremated/saved. Dam it was hard.
I was the only person he listened to. He went with me everywhere in the car after that.

marble falls

(73,016 posts)
29. Our is in a box under the bed and my pillow. Bradley was such a good boy. I think about him everyday ...
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:18 PM
3 hrs ago

... it'll be eleven years this month.

Figarosmom

(14,170 posts)
11. Sending good vibes.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:22 PM
4 hrs ago

Hope it turns out to be something not serious. Maybe just constipation.

Tanuki

(16,556 posts)
13. Praying for healing for you and your family,
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:25 PM
3 hrs ago

the human and furry alike. Please God, let Lucky Charms' beloved puppy dog return home to love and be loved.
🙏🏻💕🐶

Coolgoober

(408 posts)
14. Hang in there Lucky
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:27 PM
3 hrs ago

Think of all the joy that pup has brought for you and your wife. Dog lovers are better people

Prairie_Seagull

(4,866 posts)
15. Lucky, you know the inevitable is coming.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:31 PM
3 hrs ago

My hope for you is that this will give you the time you need with him/her.

No one can tell you how to cope. I would say to take special care of yourself during this hard time.

Your dog would want that for you.

twodogsbarking

(19,588 posts)
16. All you can do is your best when they are alive and put them to rest when it is time.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:33 PM
3 hrs ago

It is so sad. Thoughts with you.

generalbetrayus

(2,034 posts)
20. I'm hoping for the best, LuckyCharms. In my mind, the only downside to dogs is that they have a tendency
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:43 PM
3 hrs ago

to die before you do.

My dad took my childhood dog, Jackie, to be put to sleep when I was in the 10th grade. He told my mom he cried when Jackie was put down. I never saw my dad cry myself. I never knew until then how much he loved that dog.

MiHale

(13,237 posts)
22. Talking to my 14 yo Havanese...with leg problems...
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 01:55 PM
3 hrs ago

Roscoe sends his best wishes…I’ll add mine too.🤞

some_of_us_are_sane

(3,801 posts)
24. I understand completely, Lucky....
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:09 PM
3 hrs ago
There is no grief as pure as the grief over a pet's passing. It's uncomplicated by nuance and strikes like an arrow.

Hugs from here.

SupportSanity

(1,601 posts)
25. There is a special place in our hearts that only animals know.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:12 PM
3 hrs ago

And the death of an animal lets others see that special place if only for a brief moment.

TBF

(37,502 posts)
27. I'm so sorry - have been through that
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:14 PM
3 hrs ago

we've had several rescues through the years. Prayers for strength.

marble falls

(73,016 posts)
28. I get what you are going through: if anything happens to our cat, I admit it: I will be in deepest mourning. ...
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:15 PM
3 hrs ago

... 15 years is not enough - I am praying for more for you pup with good health.

StarryNite

(12,180 posts)
30. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 02:20 PM
3 hrs ago

I'll be thinking of him and hoping for the best. Fifteen years of love is a beautiful gift, and it's clear how much he means to your family.

bamagal62

(4,597 posts)
31. Sending lots of love.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 03:13 PM
2 hrs ago

Hopefully, it’s not too serious. 🙏🏻❤️❤️please let us know when you find out what is wrong.

Diamond_Dog

(41,342 posts)
32. I hope he will be all right, Lucky. Sending health karma your way.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 03:41 PM
1 hr ago

It’s so hard to see them struggling with a health issue. I remember when one of our dogs had seizures in her old age. Just about tore me apart. I know how you are feeling. Please keep us updated. ❤️

LuckyCharms

(23,336 posts)
34. HE'S HOME NOW.
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 03:53 PM
1 hr ago

Thank you for all of the support.

He got suddenly depressed and glassy-eyed. then his back legs gave out and he collapsed. I put him on the bed under the ceiling fan and laid there with him while waiting to leave for the vet appointment. He looked pretty bad, I didn't think we'd be bringing him home.

He perked up a bit by the time we got to the vet. The doc gave him a good physical. It's orthopedic rather than neurologic. She doesn't think that his bladder mass has metastasized out of the bladder. His reflexes were good.

He's been on Carprofin since diagnosed with the bladder mass, and today she also put him on Methocarbamol and Gabapentin. She thinks maybe the sudden depression was due to the heat, and the collapse may have been an acute issue like a pinched nerve that resolved.

I appreciate all you people here. Thank you.

Niagara

(12,338 posts)
41. Thank goodness
Wed Jun 10, 2026, 05:11 PM
11 min ago

I messed up my well wishes upthread and I didn't even realize it. Thankfully we have edit availabe.




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