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Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 02:02 AM Dec 2012

I think I need to start wearing suits to work much more often.

My boss always does, except certain Fridays. I almost never do. Mainly dress pants and shirts with a sweater or vest. He's not at all fussy, after my abdominal hernia surgery I wore loose track pants to keep pressure off the site. And I often wear black athletic shoes like Sketchers.

I think I need to upgrade my image. I work across the street from a Macy's, Nordstrom, and there are various other men's shops close by.

Upgrade or comfort?



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CaliforniaPeggy

(149,702 posts)
1. It depends on the dress code (if any) where you work, my dear Denninmi!
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 02:05 AM
Dec 2012

Perhaps you could mix comfort with a slightly more dressy image?

Your boss sounds like a cool guy, with a good fashion sense.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
3. Office of three people total. No dress code.
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 02:10 AM
Dec 2012

My boss is so easy going I could probably show up in shorts and a T-shirt and he wouldn't say anything.

I think I need to do this "for me" -self esteem reasons.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,702 posts)
4. You can dress up a little and still be comfortable...
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 02:13 AM
Dec 2012

Go for whatever look you want! It will be good for your self-esteem, no question on that.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
2. i will go with comfort every time
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 02:10 AM
Dec 2012

i wear jeans, goofy tshirts and chuck taylors to work just about every day. sometimes i wear my pinstripe slacks, but i still have a tshirt and sneakers on.

i can clean up if corporate is in town, but that happens maybe twice a year.

Wounded Bear

(58,709 posts)
5. I'll be wishy-washy on this one....
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 02:23 AM
Dec 2012

I'd say it depends on whether or not you deal with outsiders....customers and such.

If so, you could still go comfy on days when no customer visits are scheduled and then dress up when they do.

It sounds like you do OK, though. These days, "office casual" is pretty common.

Did you ever consider asking your boss what he thought?

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
6. Yes, I deal with clients regularly.
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 02:36 AM
Dec 2012

Most of them are never dressed up, although that isn't relevant.

When I started I was wearing suits, after about a week he said I should just be comfortable, he didn't care.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
7. My BIL was president of a fair-sized ad agency in Manhattan. One Christmas Eve...
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 02:41 AM
Dec 2012

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... when I was visiting, he and my sister threw a "dessert & champagne" party for their longterm
friends who had been in the same MBA program as my BIL. Their most interesting friend had been
'the hippy" of their group (and that was a very relative term). He told me that he often thought the
biggest mistake he had made in his career path was selling his drum kit so that he could complete
his MBA (this was a man who, at that point, was making a fairly healthy 6-figure salary). He once
drummed on Chuck Berry's tour (never met Chuck, who would just show up at the actual gig).
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His first job interview (post-degree), he wore his only suit and his best (say only) nice dress shirt --
which had Porky Pig and Daffy Duck embroidered quite boldly on his lapels.
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The interview actually spoke to him for a coupla minutes, but stopped abruptly and said, "You
know, due to your attire, I've been assuming you were here for a CREATIVE job. The suit's OK,
but before you go to another interview, invest in an actual dress shirt."
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Years later, he had been passed over for a VP slot several times. One of the senior VP's took
him aside and told him to look around at all the senior execs. "What color are their suits?"
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"Navy-blue or gray, both colors pin-striped."
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"What color are YOUR suits?"
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"Green or brown."
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For the second time in his career, he was told to invest in his wardrobe.
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He doesn't think it was the ONLY nor maybe even the MAIN reason, but that year he was
given a VP position with his agency.
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So, it depends on your circumstances. If it weren't a factor, I wouldn't be averse to wearing
Bermuda shorts and a propellor beanie.
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Scuba

(53,475 posts)
9. One adage I recall was to "dress for the job you want, not the one you have".
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 06:38 AM
Dec 2012

There is, of course, no single correct answer.

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
10. I'd wear a suit everyday if it were more socially permissable.
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 09:57 AM
Dec 2012

I don't mean to say it's not, but people tend to look at you and ask "So...big date? Job interview? Funeral?" On that last one, I find myself asking "Do you really think I'd wear a gray suit with a magenta dress shirt and a gray flannel tie to a funeral?"

I love dressing up, it's when I am most comfortable. The key is, unfortunately because it's not cheap, bespoke; don't dress off the rack, by being cut to fit "everyman" they fit no man well. Alternately, spend days and weeks looking for the suit designer whose suits fit you off the rack.

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