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NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:14 PM Dec 2012

Is it morbid of me to have a working playlist for my own funeral?

Sure, it changes from time to time with additions and subtractions but it stays pretty much the same. It has lots of Grateful Dead, Jerry Garcia, Leonard Cohen, half of Warren Zevon's catalog...

Is it morbid of me to also to have a playlist for my final few moments (should I be given notice), so that I could pop my headphones in and go out in peace?

Is it morbid of me to put my funeral playlist in a place where others can find it so that it's played as per my wished?

I'm not too sick or dying or anything, but I do have a few problems- hey dont we all.


Does anybody else have a funeral playlist?

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Is it morbid of me to have a working playlist for my own funeral? (Original Post) NightWatcher Dec 2012 OP
DO you have.... whistler162 Dec 2012 #1
I attended a lovely funeral this morning. In_The_Wind Dec 2012 #2
I've never seen myself as a funeral kind of guy NightWatcher Dec 2012 #4
My husband's mom & dad bought a family plot. In_The_Wind Dec 2012 #6
Is it morbid to make a will? Downwinder Dec 2012 #3
I was reminded of this old classic last night. TheMadMonk Dec 2012 #5
Throw in a little Gov't Mule and you're good to go. Lochloosa Dec 2012 #7
I don't think it is, Lars39 Dec 2012 #8
Awww In_The_Wind Dec 2012 #9
Thanks, In_The_Wind. Lars39 Dec 2012 #13
Who doesn't? Of course mine changes according to mood. nolabear Dec 2012 #10
I do. kalli007 Dec 2012 #11
Don't know about a list Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Dec 2012 #12
I'm having more trouble working on the guest list...... cliffordu Dec 2012 #14
No. elleng Dec 2012 #15
No "Wind Beneath My Wings"???? WTF, dude? (nt) Nye Bevan Dec 2012 #16

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
2. I attended a lovely funeral this morning.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:23 PM
Dec 2012

Nothing resembling your list was sung.
But you should plan ahead.

We were discussing what should be done for each of us but we didn't get as far as a play-list.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
4. I've never seen myself as a funeral kind of guy
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:29 PM
Dec 2012

I dont go to church, nor would I want something held at a funeral home (those funerals in the tiny front rooms at the mortuary are creepy). I dont even have a plot picked out. My brother and sister in law are 31 and had their plots picked and paid for by their first anniversary a few years ago.

I'd rather people gather at a pub and get sloshed while telling stories about me and listening to this music. I dont care about what becomes of the body, nor do I want a marker in some graveyard.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
6. My husband's mom & dad bought a family plot.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:39 PM
Dec 2012

I won't be buried there - religious reasons.
That leaves the question of what is to be done with me. I'd like my ashes to be spread about as there is no one (other than my husband) who would visit my grave.

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
10. Who doesn't? Of course mine changes according to mood.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:30 PM
Dec 2012

Sometimes it's "Hallelujah" and sometimes it's "F**k You!"

And always this.

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
14. I'm having more trouble working on the guest list......
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:52 PM
Dec 2012

so many people I have on my ignore list in real life........

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