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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsSigh. Vibes for my mom? There was a fire today at her assisted living facility - everyone is fine,
but her room is just soaked and smokey -- the fire was in the hall/region of the building where her room is.
They were going to have the facility's holiday party tonight. No party.
She's at my sister's now; I hope anyone else displaced has family to go to...or maybe some extra beds at the facility can be used until their rooms are clean and dry.
Scary, but nothing awful. Just scary.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)I'm glad your mom is ok.
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)well.
I'm going to be there next week so hopefully I can help her clean up, or sort what's left...
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,632 posts)Major vibes for your mom, and you, and all the other residents. What a mess, and especially right before Christmas.
I hope they can clean it up pronto!
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)but replacing much of what was lost - bedding, tv, clothes, etc. will be a task. My sister is going to scoop up a lot of papers and photos if she can, then I'll go through everything to see what we can salvage. I'm going to take all the photos home and scan them for her... I don't think things actually burned, but they did get soaked by the sprinklers, and then got smokey.
Thanks.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,378 posts)so traumatic on top of the scare.
politicat
(9,808 posts)Freeze anything papery, interleaved with paper towels. A frost free freezer will evaporate all of the water out in a while. It can take a couple months, especially for thick books, but it does work, and photos are usually back to good in a week or so. No plastic, and I recommend flat fold, pop-up boxes of paper towel to rolls for ease of assembly.
Link with more details. http://theepicenter.com/tow05166.html
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)My sister grabbed what she could before the disaster response team came in (since it's an assisted living facility, there are teams like this in place or on retainer or whatever) and set everything outside in the garage so it could hopefully freeze... I don't know how careful she was (I'm certain no paper towels were used) but maybe in the coming days I can do some of that if it's not too late.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,378 posts)Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)She and her kitty are safely ensconced at my sister's... she's exhausted, but OK. Apparently most of the damage came from the firefighters who responded with vigor because there are so many elderly present. I'm glad they did, but for some reason they also ripped out the toilet in her bathroom. Lol.
Whatever, so long as everyone's safe.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,378 posts)Last edited Sat Dec 22, 2012, 12:27 PM - Edit history (1)
Kali
(55,014 posts)so sorry, but glad they are OK
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)she, her kitty, and everyone else there are fine!
csziggy
(34,136 posts)And her cat!
I hope you can salvage what is important.
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)And probably some other things that hopefully can dry out. The bedding, furniture, etc... all replaceable.
Thanks, csziggy.
Joe Shlabotnik
(5,604 posts)to your mom, her cat and her neighbors; it must be very stressful.
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)I appreciate it.
Stressful, but not as bad as it could have been. She had no 'renter's insurance' - she's one of those Romney-moochers who lives off Social Security and when the state's Health and Welfare is done with her assisted living and medical expenses every month, she has a whopping $90/month to spend lavishly. My sisters and I can help gradually, but we can't replace everything all at once ...
irisblue
(32,980 posts)Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)Solly Mack
(90,771 posts)and for your family.
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)and it was much better to say "Everyone is OK, but there was a fire..." rather than "There was a fire..."
LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)I hope things work out for everyone to have a good holiday.
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)It'll be good to be there -- help my sister, and comfort my mom, and get started on replacing a few things so she feels a bit more secure.
She has early Alzheimer's, and while she still pretty much has her mental shit together, stress does tend to fray her mind a bit more than normal.