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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsHi, friends.
Sorry for the drama, but I don't take kindly to being told my name belongs on a criminal database next to sex offenders and convicted felons because I happen to be bipolar and therefore have a "mental health issue" as do these psychotic shooters. NOT the same mental health issue by miles. They sit around plotting to kill people, I sit around worrying if my job performance is adequate even if my boss or a client praises me. NOTHING IN COMMON WITH THESE KILLERS.
It's hardly the same thing, my mental health issue and theirs - it's like trying to equate a brief spring thundershower to Superstorm Sandy. i have NOTHING in common whatsoever with these killers other than the fact we are all members of the same species, Homo sapiens. Like Tobin, if I don't explicitly tell someone I'm bipolar, they don't have a clue. And I don't wear a sign on my back announcing my condition. I'm pretty "normal" except that I tend to be overly sensitive to certain situations, such as hurtful remarks. Even then, I keep my reactions to myself - this summer during my crisis, I got really good at holding back the tears and anxiety until I could go somewhere completely private. No one even knew except me that there was a problem.
Frankly, the tragedies disturb me deeply, too, but please don't punish me for something I didn't do, nor am I even capable of doing.
I was REALLY touched by everyone's comments, publicly posted or via pm or email.
I would just like to be able to come out and play with my Lounge and DU friends without being called a monster by some ignorant bigot.
So, is it safe to come out now?
NRaleighLiberal
(60,015 posts)annabanana
(52,791 posts)for they are few and insignificant.
You have lots of friends here.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)In_The_Wind
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siligut
(12,272 posts)This one was warranted and as you said, timing was the culprit. Glad to have you back.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,635 posts)I'm so glad to see you, sweetie...
dawg
(10,624 posts)It's pretty safe in here. Just stay out of GD until you are feeling more thick-skinned! I can hardly stand it in there myself.
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)And if someone really becomes a problem, use caps a post for Skittles.
She knows how to kick tail. Or do the same thing, but call for me instead better yet, PM me.
Aristus
(66,386 posts)Welcome!
Baitball Blogger
(46,735 posts)GoCubsGo
(32,086 posts)Just stay away from GD and Meta, and it will be okay. It's safe here. No fanatics like in those places.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)But I can promise you I am on your side and will do whatever I can to help you if they do.
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)Love your spirit too
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Tobin S.
(10,418 posts)I was just telling someone in a private message how I wish you would start posting again. The ousting of one of those bigots who harassed you was a good victory for those of us who have suffered from mental health issues, but a greater victory is to see you back here and being yourself on the open board. You are still here, that other asshole is gone. I know it wasn't just him, but I think, because of you, we have set a precedent here that bigotry toward people with mental health issues will not be tolerated. That's a beautiful thing.
It may have caused you some distress, but you have made DU a better place. And you are back. So...Cheers!
Neoma
(10,039 posts)MiddleFingerMom
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... but that doesn't mean that YOU have anything that needs some serious wiping.
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I'm a little rusty with my metaphors. but you know what I mean.
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I'm gonna work on THAT one a little bit more.
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In the meantime, we are here with you and of you and for you and we are glad to see you whenever you show up.
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Fuck those fucking ignant idiots... just fuck 'em. They are pointless. They are meaningless.
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Denninmi
(6,581 posts)Aw, you guys! What can I say, you have kind of restored my faith in humanity.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)femmocrat
Denninmi
(6,581 posts)Shhhh! It was delicious.
Christmas cookies have negative calories! Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays, Denninmi. I'm glad you are back and feeling better.
Xyzse
(8,217 posts)rrneck
(17,671 posts)solara
(3,836 posts)Have a wonderful Holiday season.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Might as well enjoy the ride.
Denninmi
(6,581 posts)"I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the Saints.
The sinners are much more fun
Only the good die young"
Seems to me Saints outnumber sinners on DU by a wide margin, I just had to be shown that.
Saints can have fun, too.
bluesbassman
(19,374 posts)(Caddyshack reference BTW )
Denninmi
(6,581 posts)LOL - ok, might have been Squirt, pretty much the same thing.
s-cubed
(1,385 posts)Denninmi
(6,581 posts)... For his little diatribe, I am a lot less worried:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2055592
elleng
(130,972 posts)Sorry I missed this earlier, Den; went out to play (to a movie, Lincoln, left me sad.)
rurallib
(62,423 posts)hope you like it!
Denninmi
(6,581 posts)I'm pretty sure I've heard this before, when I was in high school, probably around 1980. It sounds familiar. Very moving, actually.
Thanks for "taking a chance on me"' btw.
ABBA - Take A Chance On Me
Denninmi
(6,581 posts)... Drive down to Ikea in Canton, MI and have Swedish Meatballs?