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Graybeard

(6,996 posts)
Sat Feb 2, 2013, 09:46 PM Feb 2013

What did you call your parents?

Do the terms we use to reference our parents depend on ones geographical region, ethnic background, social status? What words did/do you use?


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Mom and Dad
2 (40%)
Mommy and Daddy
0 (0%)
Mom and Pop/Pops
1 (20%)
Momma and Poppa
0 (0%)
Ma and Pa
0 (0%)
Mother and Father
0 (0%)
Mater and Pater
0 (0%)
Sir and Ma'am
0 (0%)
By their first names
1 (20%)
Other
1 (20%)
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What did you call your parents? (Original Post) Graybeard Feb 2013 OP
I started calling my parents by their 1st names when I was a teenager pink-o Feb 2013 #1
TRIED calling them by their first names but Mom said annabanana Feb 2013 #3
That is exactly what I have said to my children! oregonjen Feb 2013 #12
Mommy & Daddy when I was little.. Then Mom & Dad. . .n/t annabanana Feb 2013 #2
Mom & Sir Lady Freedom Returns Feb 2013 #4
The "B" word. ONCE! Rough side of the hairbrush HURTS! /nt TheMadMonk Feb 2013 #5
Weird family dynamics pipi_k Feb 2013 #6
In my case I was forced to call my ex-dad mythology Feb 2013 #7
well.. AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #8
Mommy and dada hrmjustin Feb 2013 #9
My dad died when I was 6. As for my mom... Systematic Chaos Feb 2013 #10
I know what I should have called him... Denninmi Feb 2013 #11

pink-o

(4,056 posts)
1. I started calling my parents by their 1st names when I was a teenager
Sat Feb 2, 2013, 09:51 PM
Feb 2013

Cuz I thought it made me more sophisticated. Dumb. But they were cool, so I never modified it.

annabanana

(52,791 posts)
3. TRIED calling them by their first names but Mom said
Sat Feb 2, 2013, 10:10 PM
Feb 2013

ANYBODY can call me that. You are one of only three people on Earth who can call me Mom.

I had to admit she had a point.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
6. Weird family dynamics
Sat Feb 2, 2013, 10:37 PM
Feb 2013

I called my mother "ma" but I referred to my father as "dad".

IOW, I never actually addressed him.

We kids pretty much waited for him to speak to us first

That's how it is in a family where there's an alcoholic. You never initiate contact or conversation because you never know what sort of mood the alcoholic will be in.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
7. In my case I was forced to call my ex-dad
Sat Feb 2, 2013, 10:54 PM
Feb 2013

father. He told my mom I had to call him that, but for all he cared I could call her bitch. For some strange reason I don't call him anything any more. I fired him from a job he was supremely unqualified for i.e. being a parent. He insisted on that because he thought it imparted more respect because he was too stupid to realize that respect has to be earned, not demanded.

I've always called my mom as mom.

AsahinaKimi

(20,776 posts)
8. well..
Sat Feb 2, 2013, 10:54 PM
Feb 2013

My parents had me address them in Japanese, chichi=father haha=mother. I did occasionally call them mom or dad. Halmoni I used for my grandmother. She was Korean.

Systematic Chaos

(8,601 posts)
10. My dad died when I was 6. As for my mom...
Sat Feb 2, 2013, 11:25 PM
Feb 2013

...by my early teens, many of the things I called her behind her back would only get my post hidden.

And I'm sad to say it was all pretty much justified.

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