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Related: Culture Forums, Support Forumsjust looked at my profile. I have one member ignoring me...WTF
I have not done anything offensive that I know of?
How does one find out who has me on ignore?
RZM
(8,556 posts)Now it's back down to 6. I'm guessing that was a tombstone situation.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,699 posts)I have 8 ignoring me...
I wish I knew who they are too...
The Admins know who they are. I don't think they would tell us...
I try to not think about it.
It's a fact that there are folks out there who just don't like us. They might not have any really good reasons. They just might find us annoying...
I'm sorry.
Really, it's their loss!
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)If any of those 8 who ignore California Peggy are reading this, just go ahead and put me on ignore too.
I don't believe we can have an accord.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,699 posts)That means quite a lot...
dana_b
(11,546 posts)those 8 would not see your post because you responded to California Peggy. Sounds weird but once I put a person on ignore, I could not see any of the responses that other people posted to this person. That is new and different from DU2.
GoCubsGo
(32,093 posts)If you aren't logged in, you are technically just a lurker, and everything should show up, even the postings of Ignored.
dimbear
(6,271 posts)And not just because we live in California, either. Well, that might be it.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,699 posts)I've been very lucky in my life, and I know some folks just can't stand it...
kentauros
(29,414 posts)What with all those $20 forks you like to buy at the expense of the destitute and all
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,699 posts)This is for you:
undeterred
(34,658 posts)Damn, I only have 2. I am gonna have to work on that!
Kali
(55,019 posts)that actually almost makes me respect them just a little if they are some of the gang I suspect they are
if they are ignoring you then they can't get all bent out of shape over their insane misconceptions of every thing you say
good for them
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,699 posts)The same thought had briefly occurred to me as well...
mucifer
(23,565 posts)I don't think I get noticed enough to be ignored . Maybe that's redundant.
Suich
(10,642 posts)then click "Show me my Transparency Page."
quakerboy
(13,921 posts)Clearly you just have to post an OP that every single Du'r will respond too, and then whoever doesn't respond, that's your guy/gal.
I have one ignoring me as well, at last check. But I feel certain I know who mine is. Its a shame, but there are some who will be offended by what you say, what you do not say, what they hear, or what they assume.
siligut
(12,272 posts)I am sure that is how I got my new ignorer. Oh and FUCK RON PAUL, I think that should be my new sig line.
LeftishBrit
(41,210 posts)Now I have none. It could be that someone's taken me off iggy, but just as likely that someone who had me on iggy got MIRTed (not for that, obviously)!
I think there will always be people who respond to any disagreement by putting people on ignore.
Maine-ah
(9,902 posts)both are also blocking IM's....no clue why. The last somewhat controversial subject I posted on was about fluoride being added to our water, which I don't think is safe, nor should we be medicated against our will...I'll probably get a few more ignores for that opinion.
on edit...it could have been the walking on water cartoon too...meh.
Shadowflash
(1,536 posts)I have one person ignoring me and one blocking my IMs even though I don't think I've ever IMed anybody the whole time I've been a member. They must really, really hate me. I wonder what it's like to hate a person that much.
Oh, well. Their loss.
mythology
(9,527 posts)I put people on ignore if they reach a certain level of annoying me. I don't have enough time to do everything I want to during the day. So I try to cut out those things and people that aren't likely to lead to anything productive or useful. And it's the same number of clicks to put them on full ignore as it is to put their posts on ignore.
Ptah
(33,037 posts)From: xxxxxxxxxx
Date: Dec-25-11 08:41 PM
I read what you said after I logged out on DU3. You really are a piece of shit.
Goodbye. Enjoy yourself there.
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meh.
siligut
(12,272 posts)How important do some people think they are? Sorry you have idiots ignoring you, oh wait, I take that back.
Ptah
(33,037 posts)that I am not worthy.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,699 posts)You and I have met, and I know your character very well...
I feel lucky to know you!
Whoever sent you that awful PM is way out in left field...
You are a terrific guy!
Ptah
(33,037 posts)I thought it was a cowardly thing for that DUer to do.
Shadowflash
(1,536 posts)Ptah
(33,037 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)what a lovely gift
really classy of them.
Ptah
(33,037 posts)Kali
(55,019 posts)bet I know who it was
Ptah
(33,037 posts)I refer to that poster as a D--B-----
MiddleFingerMom
(25,163 posts)Ptah
(33,037 posts)graywarrior
(59,440 posts)Lasher
(27,638 posts)I can't read the message though. I'd better report this as a bug.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I thought this was an empty thread until you showed up!
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)kentauros
(29,414 posts)graywarrior
(59,440 posts)I have no one on my ignore list. But I'm proud to report someone is ignoring me!
Hi ignorer!
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I feel left out. No one has me on ignore...
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)kentauros
(29,414 posts)I almost made a friend put me on ignore earlier today.
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)you really should become a member. Here's an idea, go to GD and say you support Obama OR that you are not voting for him in 2012.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I'd repost my "Texas and DU" thread from last year in GD
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)kentauros
(29,414 posts)But it seems the archives are offline. That's really too bad, because it had over 250 posts and that's a record for me! Plus, it managed to change the minds of a few DUers and that's quite the accomplishment, too
I'll PM you the text of my OP if you like
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)WolverineDG
(22,298 posts)I'd ignore you, just so's you could be in the club, but then I wouldn't get to read your posts.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)I guess some of us have to be the good guys around here
undeterred
(34,658 posts)but if we're just doing it to increase our numbers its kind of silly...
demtenjeep
(31,997 posts)Iggo
(47,565 posts)I stared at it for a couple of minutes, making repeated explosive exhaling noises (think Farmer Ted in "Sixteen Candles" , spent the next couple of days going back to my Transparency page to see if they'd had a change of heart, eventually found acceptance, then moved on.
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)I can deal with that.
Fire Walk With Me
(38,893 posts)and there are probably some there as well.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)undeterred
(34,658 posts)I'm not ignoring you.
Seriously, don't worry about it.
Edit: I just looked and I have 2 star members ignoring me. Actually I feel kind of honored. Somebody actually reads my posts!
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)We should strive to get as many ignores as we can!
Neoma
(10,039 posts)trueblue2007
(17,238 posts)backtoblue
(11,345 posts)Oh, well. At first I was like "oh hell no!", but I'm over it now.
No worries.
GoCubsGo
(32,093 posts)I sometimes wonder if it's some software glitch.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)And since Dana_b pointed out my previous post probably won't be seen by people ignoring California Peggy I'll just repeat it here:
If you (the following is all addressed to the anonymous 8 ignorers of CP, not you GCG. have California Peggy on ignore, ignore me too.
And I don't mean I think I'm some kind of hot shit. I sure haven't been here long enough to build much of a reputation at all (except to whoever that 1 is lol) and in the grand scheme of things, ignoring me or not won't make much difference to Peggy or me or you anonymous ignorers. But what I am saying is in the short time I've been here, CP has shown herself time and again to be a lovely, wonderful person with a giant heart and a couple thousand bucketloads of compassion for all kinds of people. So if I get a choice of who I get to hang out with - people like California Peggy or people who ignore California Peggy - I'll pick California Peggy people all day erry day.
Furthermore, even if you ultimately ignore me I won't ignore you. One: because I won't know who you are and, Two: Because I still feel like I can learn. Even from people who don't like me. Maybe you have a damn good reason to not like me but if I ignore you I might not ever know what it is and I will have no chance to examine my behavior. Or maybe I can learn other things from you...maybe you will write a post one day that explains perfectly why a certain political position is preferable to one I currently hold. I would hate to miss out on a chance to grow. Or maybe you will post a neat recipe for what will become my new favorite dish. Or maybe that cartoon you post will absolutely make my day when I've been having a rough week at work. You might mention a book or TV show or movie or music or artist that I had never considered before and i find out I love them.
It's a shame we won't get to have a conversation regarding whatever I learned from you but that's the way it goes I reckon. That's OK. I still learned. And I bet California Peggy will join me in being happy about whatever that thing may be.
GoCubsGo
(32,093 posts)I still can't believe anyone is ignoring California Peggy, let alone 8 people. And, I share your sentiments about her and those like her. here. AFAIC, anyone who is ignoring people is losing out.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,699 posts)Wow. I am so glad I decided to read down in this thread, to see what was new...
It's people like you who really help me when the haters turn their attention onto me. They don't do it as much anymore here on DU3, and I'm grateful.
Still, it happens.
I'll tell you a story. I did have someone on my ignore list here, someone who had been rude and vile to me before. One day a thread of mine had another post in it, but I could not find it.
I could not believe it, but that person had actually posted in my thread, and had said something nice besides. That was the end of ignore...
I did learn something. And you just helped me realize it...
Thank you.
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)pacalo
(24,721 posts)barbtries
(28,811 posts)i don't see it.
backtoblue
(11,345 posts)and click on transparency. then click on view transparency page (or something close to that).
It doesn't tell you who is ignoring you, just how many.
barbtries
(28,811 posts)but it was on My Profile not My Account. i thought i'd searched everywhere yesterday.
appreciate it.
no one ignoring me yet.
Still Blue in PDX
(1,999 posts)My posts don't usually get responses, so I know people ignore me, but I didn't know anyone IGNORED me.
I think I was happier not knowing.
siligut
(12,272 posts)People aren't ignoring you at all, it is just how things are. If you want responses, ask questions or say something incorrect.