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(2,560 posts)They knew no malice was involved.
Why don't you like Miss Havisham? GE is my favourite Dickens novel and I feel sorry for Miss Havisham. One of my colleagues when I was teaching was a Miss Havisham. She was at the altar and her husband-to-be just didn't turn up. She was a very bitter woman. Understandably so.
This says more about me than it does about you. It influenced my view of the Miss Havishams of this world.
I know there's no malice involved on your part.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)I also tend to hold contempt for that which I pity. Bad of me, I know.
I am working on it.
Meanwhile, you may have all of her you so desire.
She is seeking attention with negative behaviors and looking for positive reward.
Sociopaths recognize and use your pity to their advantage.
Understand, I am NOT saying that Miss Havisham is one, mind you.
Just saying.
SwissTony
(2,560 posts)One you feel sorry for, and one you really dislike.
I think the horse that kicked Estella's husband is the real hero of GE.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)SwissTony
(2,560 posts)but I've known enough horse owners to know that horses are extremely intelligent and have TONS of character. Often more than the owners.
My favourite breed is Clydedales. Beautiful, beautiful giants. I speak Glaswegian to them. They look at me as if I'm mad. "Speak English, ya bampot" they say.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)SwissTony
(2,560 posts)Or if you prefer "dowally" (pronounced "do wah-lly" or "numpty". Glaswegian has a large number of words each of which refer to idiots/fools. Some are less kind than others.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Bampot Dowally
SwissTony
(2,560 posts)called numpties and dowallies.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Humpty Dumpty and The Numpties
or
Wally and The Dowallies
SwissTony
(2,560 posts)You Sassenach!!!!!
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)me - leaving my own thread in shame --->
SwissTony
(2,560 posts)But you've learned a few words of Glaswegian.
If you ever go there, they are fantastic people. Might be difficult to understand, but they will bend over backwards to help you.
I am, of course, totally biased as I was born there and still have the accent despite leaving Glasgow in 1961.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)especially since I have all three bloodlines running through my veins plus some other stuff thrown in for good measure
SwissTony
(2,560 posts)Love both countries. Been all over both countries - Glasgow, Edinburgh, West Highland Way, London, Brissle, Cornwall, Cumbria. For some reason, which is not clear to me, I've never visited Ireland. My great-great-grandfather was Irish. I have very dim memories of him.
I want to take a narrow boat cruise up the Shannon River. I want the music and the crac.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)that would be quite a trip, no?
SwissTony
(2,560 posts)How can you "see" a country like Scotland or England or Ireland? Never mind all three. Just too much to see. Even if you have lots of time and lots of money.
And how do you "see" USA/Australia/Canada/Russia/China/add other big countries? You can't. You can hopefully get a taste of a country, but not much more.
But you can enjoy your travels.