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Today is my 44th wedding anniversary. (Original Post) GentryDixon Jul 2013 OP
We do that at 10 years. Paulie Jul 2013 #1
Hi Paulie. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author GentryDixon Jul 2013 #2
Congrats! rug Jul 2013 #3
Thanks so much rug. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #7
Lor-dee! I remember when Afros were 'in'. And those sideburns! trof Jul 2013 #16
Congrats on your anniversary! Callalily Jul 2013 #5
Thank you Callalily. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #9
Happy Anniversary! LeftofObama Jul 2013 #6
Thanks. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #11
Same here in 'Bama. State Stores. Luckily I'm 20 miles from Florida. trof Jul 2013 #19
Wonderful! Congratulations! bluesbassman Jul 2013 #8
Thank you bluesbassman. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #13
We also celebrated 44 years together in April. trof Jul 2013 #10
Congrats to you. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #14
Depp is his genertion's Hunter S. Thompson. trof Jul 2013 #20
happy anniversary! fizzgig Jul 2013 #12
I do as well. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #15
i saw star trek on opening day fizzgig Jul 2013 #18
Do you just lose interest, or what? trof Jul 2013 #21
It is medical. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author fizzgig Jul 2013 #17
Congratulations, GentryDixon! femmocrat Jul 2013 #23
Thank you femmocrat. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #24
Congrats! ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #25
Exactly. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #28
Keep watching - not settled in yet ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #37
Congrats GentryDixon. BarbaRosa Jul 2013 #26
Congrats to you GentryDixon Jul 2013 #29
Congratulations to you! n/t PoliticAverse Jul 2013 #27
Thanks Politic. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #30
Happy Anniversary! snacker Jul 2013 #31
Thank you snacker. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #34
Happy Anniversary! The key to long marriages may be the ability mnhtnbb Jul 2013 #32
Thank you mnhtnbb. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #35
Congradulations ! olddots Jul 2013 #33
Thanks olddots. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #36
It's ours as well. :^) Happy anniversary! GreenPartyVoter Jul 2013 #38
Party Time. GentryDixon Jul 2013 #39
Congratulations to you both SwissTony Jul 2013 #40
Thanks Swiss. Congrats on your GentryDixon Jul 2013 #43
Thank you, GD SwissTony Jul 2013 #44
My hubby & I were GentryDixon Jul 2013 #45
congrats! AsahinaKimi Jul 2013 #41
Thanks Kimi.... GentryDixon Jul 2013 #42
44 years--WOW!!!!! DFW Jul 2013 #46
If I had a marriage like yours I'd probably still be married lunatica Jul 2013 #47
congrats Kali Jul 2013 #48

Response to GentryDixon (Original post)

GentryDixon

(2,955 posts)
7. Thanks so much rug.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:04 PM
Jul 2013

This is our marriage. I guess that is why we have lasted so long.

We were just talking yesterday about how Ed Sullivan was the one who always had the entertainment on. We were listening to Sirius Radio Elvis channel & Ed introduced one of his early hits.

Callalily

(14,891 posts)
5. Congrats on your anniversary!
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:02 PM
Jul 2013

It's obvious why the two of you lasted so long...you resect each other's differences!

Wishing you many more!

GentryDixon

(2,955 posts)
11. Thanks.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:10 PM
Jul 2013

The good news is he is stopping by the liquor store on his way to get me some wine. Here in Utah, you cannot buy it anywhere but a state sanctioned store. The one in town closes at 7:00, and is closed tomorrow. If you forget your booze in this state on a holiday, you are out of luck.

trof

(54,256 posts)
19. Same here in 'Bama. State Stores. Luckily I'm 20 miles from Florida.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:33 PM
Jul 2013

Booze 24/7.
And much cheaper.

bluesbassman

(19,378 posts)
8. Wonderful! Congratulations!
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:06 PM
Jul 2013

You two are lucky, I couldn't even stand myself after 44 years!

All kidding aside, that is a beautiful thing. Many more happy years to you both!

trof

(54,256 posts)
10. We also celebrated 44 years together in April.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:08 PM
Jul 2013

I'm curious about not being able to sit still for a full length movie.
None of my business though.


I think Depp will be a hoot as Tonto.
We're seeing it Friday.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
12. happy anniversary!
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:16 PM
Jul 2013

i also have problems sitting through full length movies, but i can manage it once in a while.

GentryDixon

(2,955 posts)
15. I do as well.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:27 PM
Jul 2013

Not too often, but I did go a few months ago. Can't remember what I saw, but I did make it through the entire movie. I do remember the one before that was "Gran Torino" with Clint Eastwood in 2008.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
18. i saw star trek on opening day
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:32 PM
Jul 2013

and jurassic park 3D maybe a month before that (it was so disappointing). i can manage it four, maybe five times a year.

trof

(54,256 posts)
21. Do you just lose interest, or what?
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 07:38 PM
Jul 2013

Now I'm doubly curious.
My only problem with sitting through an entire movie is an enlarged prostate.
I know, TMI.
Sorry.

Response to GentryDixon (Original post)

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
25. Congrats!
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 08:22 PM
Jul 2013

.
.
.

My best friends, who have been together for almost 50 years, take separate holidays.

Usually 2 1 week holidays each year.

"space" - we all need it - even from our most beloved.

We are all individuals, regardless of our relationships.

So - ya wanna keep someone, ya gotta let them be them.

Looks like you know that . .

And remember - being alone doesn't have to mean being lonely.

Ya know he's coming home!

Happy 44th!



CC

GentryDixon

(2,955 posts)
28. Exactly.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 08:38 PM
Jul 2013

I am very accustomed to staying by myself, and am happy to do so.

We have a home in North Carolina where he spends months at a time. His parents are still alive. We bought 4 acres next to his folks so he would have a place to stay. I don't begrudge the time he is there. He left NC when he was drafted in 1966, so it makes it nice for him to be able to be with his family. They all live within 10 miles of each other, something I can't say. My sisters are scattered from Utah to Washington state.

Your place sounds grand. I love reading your posts.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
37. Keep watching - not settled in yet
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 10:39 PM
Jul 2013

.
.
.

It will get much better, and I ain't gonna be shy to share.

Saw my groundhog scooting around a few times today - talked gently at it - seems to be not so much afraid of me anymore.

I see many robins around my yard ( I spend about 4 hours to cut an acre) - I gots birdies pickin the worms out - RIGHT OUTSIDE MY FRONT WINDOW.

yep

My place is GREAT!!

and paid for.

CC

BarbaRosa

(2,684 posts)
26. Congrats GentryDixon.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 08:22 PM
Jul 2013

Any more I really enjoy hearing about long term couples.

MamaRosa and I are in our late 30's in years together ( 7 years shackin' up + 29 years married ((in two and half weeks))=36 hangin' together).

snacker

(3,619 posts)
31. Happy Anniversary!
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 08:49 PM
Jul 2013

It's my daughter and son-in-law's 2nd anniversary today too. In honor of your anniversary and theirs, here's a link to the song from my daughter's wedding (sung by one of her friends). Enjoy!

GentryDixon

(2,955 posts)
34. Thank you snacker.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 09:07 PM
Jul 2013

What a lovely song. Their friend has a very nice voice.

Here's wishing many years of bliss for your daughter and son-in-law.

mnhtnbb

(31,399 posts)
32. Happy Anniversary! The key to long marriages may be the ability
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 08:51 PM
Jul 2013

to take time away from each other and respect/tolerate each others tastes.

GentryDixon

(2,955 posts)
35. Thank you mnhtnbb.
Wed Jul 3, 2013, 09:12 PM
Jul 2013

It took us many years to get to the comfort we enjoy with one another today. Give & take.

SwissTony

(2,560 posts)
44. Thank you, GD
Thu Jul 4, 2013, 04:47 PM
Jul 2013

We had a hell of an argument yesterday. We've both since apologised. After 31 years, we know we're not going to part. But we can both be stupid.

GentryDixon

(2,955 posts)
45. My hubby & I were
Thu Jul 4, 2013, 04:56 PM
Jul 2013

arguing over a post on DU. Silly stuff. I finally just emailed him the New York Times article to back up my argument and told him he could read it, or not.

DFW

(54,420 posts)
46. 44 years--WOW!!!!!
Thu Jul 4, 2013, 06:36 PM
Jul 2013

At 31 years (39 together), we're just babes in the woods!

But I agree--Jay Silverheels will always be Tonto to me.

("Tonto wants to speak Esperanto in Toronto&quot

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
47. If I had a marriage like yours I'd probably still be married
Thu Jul 4, 2013, 06:42 PM
Jul 2013

Happy anniversary. I'm very happy to be divorced and single.

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