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IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 12:54 PM Aug 2013

I love the "ignore" feature.

I only have one person on it, but it gives me a warm fuzzy whenever I see she is trying to get my attention. I wonder if it irks her that I cannot see her nasty, venomous posts, and that she looks like a fool for continuing to try and bait me.

Then I wonder if she has changed, and I sometimes feel guilty because I wonder if she is trying to make peace, and if my ignoring her is kind of rude as a result.

But mostly I just chortle in evil glee at how it must really chap her ass that I am REALLY, TRULY IGNORING HER, and that she has no influence or bearing on the happiness and quality of my life.

I am a confusing and complex person - lol!

I love DU.



ON EDIT: Grammar - doh!

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I love the "ignore" feature. (Original Post) IdaBriggs Aug 2013 OP
You tease... You know that just has everyone wondering who it is.... hlthe2b Aug 2013 #1
How could *anyone* ignore someone as wonderful as you? IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #2
Perhaps one of these will do ... In_The_Wind Aug 2013 #4
How do you make those??? IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #6
You can save them to your photobucket, reuse when necessary. In_The_Wind Aug 2013 #9
Wow. IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #11
ahh gee.... hlthe2b Aug 2013 #7
Trash This Thread is my all time ever favorite DU Feature. That and the Journal. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2013 #3
I haven't really used "trash this thread" that often. IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #5
oh .. yeah - didn't think about that ... I just put stuff in there Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2013 #8
I saw the yard picture when you posted it. IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #14
yes, I am still thinking of moving ... daily ... not sure it is really feasible Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2013 #16
One? I have 145 ppl on Ignore. Some may have been tombstoned by now. valerief Aug 2013 #10
145 - How did you end up at that number? IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #12
They're mostly pro-gun and pro-pit bull people. Just watch. Because I typed pit bull valerief Aug 2013 #13
Ah. Sometimes staying away from discussions IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #15
I put the words 'pit bull' into HappyMe Aug 2013 #17
Good idea. I should add it. This is what I have in there now. valerief Aug 2013 #21
Eh, I think the Miley HappyMe Aug 2013 #23
Oh, Nugent! Good one! nt valerief Aug 2013 #24
What do you do if pintobean Aug 2013 #35
I forgot how to find out how many have me on ignore ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #20
I copied my list and put it in Excel, where I got a rowcount. valerief Aug 2013 #22
It's been taken away. LeftofObama Aug 2013 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author Jenoch Aug 2013 #26
Thanks - thought I was missing something. ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #41
I am kind of glad. It was one of those "icky things you don't really need to know." IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #46
I don't ignore anyone. Wait Wut Aug 2013 #18
When my "ignore" person replies, it shows up as IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #19
Why the hell would anyone ignore you ? In_The_Wind Aug 2013 #27
Awwww... Wait Wut Aug 2013 #28
Just for you warrprayer Aug 2013 #29
Hey ... In_The_Wind Aug 2013 #30
who could not warrprayer Aug 2013 #34
I just don't pipi_k Aug 2013 #31
I was always shocked to hear how many... Wait Wut Aug 2013 #32
I know libodem Aug 2013 #37
Yes. Wait Wut Aug 2013 #38
No, you're not pintobean Aug 2013 #33
Well, it is always good to bring some joy into the world - IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #42
There's a gazillion labor-haters on this thread you might want to add to your Ignore list. valerief Aug 2013 #36
I used to work fast food in high school. IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #47
I find being put on ignore highly amusing. hobbit709 Aug 2013 #39
We are gunna hug you and kiss you libodem Aug 2013 #40
It's not you. IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #43
I do, too. It's only the internet, after all! valerief Aug 2013 #48
If you were "REALLY, TRULY IGNORING HER"... SidDithers Aug 2013 #44
Ah, but I am not READING what she writes... IdaBriggs Aug 2013 #45

hlthe2b

(102,236 posts)
1. You tease... You know that just has everyone wondering who it is....
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 12:56 PM
Aug 2013


Of course if you don't respond, that means........ Oh, my!
 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
2. How could *anyone* ignore someone as wonderful as you?
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:03 PM
Aug 2013

I won't name names, but she introduced me to 'meta' - shudder! - I should have just ignored her right then since she was one of its frequent contributors, but I generally try to give people the benefit of the doubt.

And now I am a *big* meanie who is ignoring her.

(Is there a "stick your tongue" out smilie? Lol!

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
3. Trash This Thread is my all time ever favorite DU Feature. That and the Journal.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:03 PM
Aug 2013

Last edited Fri Aug 30, 2013, 09:18 AM - Edit history (1)

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
5. I haven't really used "trash this thread" that often.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:08 PM
Aug 2013

I think I did it on a few gun threads after one of the massacres.



And now I want to go look at your Journal!

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
8. oh .. yeah - didn't think about that ... I just put stuff in there
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:12 PM
Aug 2013

for my own personal memories but, Hope You Enjoy

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
14. I saw the yard picture when you posted it.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:26 PM
Aug 2013

VERY beautiful. Are you still thinking of moving?

And NICE pictures - although the "North and South" soldiers at the Gettysburg re-union still look pissed off to me!

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
16. yes, I am still thinking of moving ... daily ... not sure it is really feasible
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:30 PM
Aug 2013

ugh. what to do?

haha.

no wonder I just posted that Natalie Maines tune ... wish I could run away from it all. duh.

re: that Civil War picture, I think people just looked more stern as a rule back then

valerief

(53,235 posts)
10. One? I have 145 ppl on Ignore. Some may have been tombstoned by now.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:15 PM
Aug 2013

When I see posts about problem posters, I wonder what the posters are talking about. I **ignore out** all those folks. Plus, I've blocked out certain groups. I don't want to see their posts.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
12. 145 - How did you end up at that number?
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:19 PM
Aug 2013

You have always seemed like a very reasonable person.

Please share.

<== pretend it is tea and some cookies

valerief

(53,235 posts)
13. They're mostly pro-gun and pro-pit bull people. Just watch. Because I typed pit bull
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:21 PM
Aug 2013

in this post, pit bull lovers will descend within minutes. Ha!

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
15. Ah. Sometimes staying away from discussions
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:27 PM
Aug 2013

that you know will only increase your blood pressure is a good thing.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
21. Good idea. I should add it. This is what I have in there now.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 02:05 PM
Aug 2013

rape
Armstrong
Beyonce
Christians
Coulter
feminism
Firearm
Jesus
Limbaugh
NRA
Sarah Palin

I guess I should add Miley Cyrus to it, too!

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
23. Eh, I think the Miley
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 02:14 PM
Aug 2013

faux scandal will blow over pretty quick.

I have these in my trash list --
Assange
cat
Greenwald
LaPierre
Manning
NRA
Nugent
rapist
Snowden
whistleblower

..and the damn pit bulls.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
20. I forgot how to find out how many have me on ignore
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 02:05 PM
Aug 2013

.
.
.

I only have one person on my ignore - I've been here on DU for 10 years, but that person well deserved a permanent ignore:

Last time I checked, 12 people had me on ignore, can't remember how I found that.

Mostly I use what I call "Brain Ignore" to those that try to intimidate me into a ridiculous argument.

I recognise their name afterwards, and just do not respond.

Works for me!

CC

valerief

(53,235 posts)
22. I copied my list and put it in Excel, where I got a rowcount.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 02:06 PM
Aug 2013

Ha! Pretty old school, but it works.

ON EDIT:
Oh, I was counting how many I have on Ignore above. I forgot how to find out how many have me on Ignore, too!

LeftofObama

(4,243 posts)
25. It's been taken away.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 02:35 PM
Aug 2013

Just a few days ago all you had to do is this...

Go to My Profile at the top of this page

After you click on My Profile, right underneath the words My Profile 4 tabs will appear.

Click on the transparency tab (even though the word transparency isn't highlighted you can still click on it)

Just a few lines down and to the right is a link that says, "show me my transparency page"

Click on that link and scroll down a little ways and it would show you how many people have you on ignore, but as I said earlier it seems to have been taken away.

Response to LeftofObama (Reply #25)

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
46. I am kind of glad. It was one of those "icky things you don't really need to know."
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 09:29 AM
Aug 2013

I still wish "Ignore" could be made mutual, with automatic resets every few months.

I have gotten into raging flame wars with people who turned out to be completely reasonable on other topics.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
18. I don't ignore anyone.
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:37 PM
Aug 2013

15 have me on ignore. I have no idea who they are (except one) and it doesn't affect me. Because I don't know who they are, I have no idea if my replies to them are not seen or just not replied to.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
19. When my "ignore" person replies, it shows up as
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 01:48 PM
Aug 2013

"You are ignoring this person" in the "My Posts" tab.

Since I only have the one, it is kind of obvious. And honestly, I wasn't ignoring her until she got obnoxious on a thread about my (deceased) sister.

Sigh.

Anyway, I was up to 25 people ignoring me at one point, but I don't know where to find it anymore. (I was wondering if the Admins made that "show and tell" feature go away? Hmm.) I believe most of them were from "meta" but I am confident my opinions on a wide variety of other controversial topics have annoyed many people. (I accidentally initiated a TOTAL flame war yesterday about Syria and had to start a second thread to get a civil discussion.)

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
31. I just don't
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 05:07 PM
Aug 2013

understand this.

Some of the least offensive people seem to have the highest numbers ignoring them.

There are plenty of DUers I disagree with on some, or most, issues, but I only ignore them if they're nasty to me.

I can't even imagine why there would be that many ignoring you.



Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
32. I was always shocked to hear how many...
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 05:15 PM
Aug 2013

...were ignoring CaliforniaPeggy. I think a lot of it has to do with the lack of debate skills. People get way too bent out of shape if someone disagrees with them. Hey, I know I'm always right, but if someone else wants to be wrong that's their right.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
37. I know
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 06:11 PM
Aug 2013

She is so nice. But the lack of debating my be a turn off to some. I had someone directly tell me they were putting me on ignore for posting provocative crap and not sticking around to defend it. To each is own.

BTW, I think I'm better about that now. Although I still don't like to fight.


Is this a loosely concealed call out post? It stands a chance of being locked soon. Just saying.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
42. Well, it is always good to bring some joy into the world -
Thu Aug 29, 2013, 07:41 PM
Aug 2013

Even if it is because the joke is on oneself.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
47. I used to work fast food in high school.
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 10:24 AM
Aug 2013

(Probably showing my age) but I was paid $2.85 per hour because I started when I was 16, and they didn't have to pay me the "full" minimum wage of $3.35 per hour.

I did it for over two years, and I was very good at it. ("Would you like a LARGE fry with that? How about an apple pie for dessert?" - Lol!)

After one year I received a FIFTEEN CENT RAISE - woo hoo! (Yes, I really was pleased.) which brought me to $3.00 per hour. (Most people only got five or ten cent increases - I was a "good worker.&quot

Almost a year later (right before my eighteenth birthday) I received my next raise - ten cents, bringing me to $3.10 per hour; two weeks later I turned eighteen and was automatically bumped to $3.35 - and yes, the manager did it that way on purpose.

(Insert nasty descriptive word here.)

It wasn't long after that I joined the "office work force" which automatically jumped my pay to $5.00 per hour (which was great, because by then I was living on my own/supporting myself), and the rest, as they say is history.

I am more sympathetic than most to the travails of fast food service, but also have higher expectations because I *know* what is involved.

It will be interesting to see how the whole thing plays out.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
45. Ah, but I am not READING what she writes...
Fri Aug 30, 2013, 09:26 AM
Aug 2013

or RESPONDING to it.

Therefore I am not engaging.

So she is free to be mean and nasty and snarky - and I am free not to bring it into my life.

Sometimes it is the best an imperfect person can do.



But you are right that I *know* she is out there, and on the off chance she is trying to make peace, then I kind of suck.

Drat.

I live on a roller-coaster of indecision some times.

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