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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsThat's it. There is no hope for the world.
First, I saw someone texting -- at a urinal. Bad enough.
Today, I heard someone in a bathroom stall -- obviously there to "do business" -- blasting music out of his iPod (or generic equivalent) headphones at top volume. Music to $#!% by ?
WTF is wrong with people ? Doesn't anyone embarrass anymore ?
Aristus
(66,381 posts)but actually goes around the sun! Crazy!
It's all been downhill from there...
CIT13
(99 posts)HappyMe
(20,277 posts)they or their conversations (or texts) or so damn important that it can't wait. Most of the conversations I hear (because they talk so damn LOUD) are:
arguments
gossip "Well, I heard.."
trash talk "Did you see her haircut?!!"
grocery store questions "They don't have that kind.."
really bad arguments
making plans "No, I don't wanna go there..."
I don't mind the grocery store questions, but don't stand in the middle of the aisle and look annoyed when I want to get by with my cart. The rest of them happen in places where people around the talkers can't get away from them.
My husband and I were taking a walk one day and we had to wait for the light to change to cross. A woman was already there and was talking trash really loud. We waited a little way back from her to give her privacy - or at least the appearance of it. She looked vaguely familiar. When she turned to the side, we recognized her from a party a few months ago. Then we knew exactly who she was trashing! My husband said "Oh shit!". She turned around and turned about 10 shades of red. I didn't run right home to call the other woman. But when I saw her I did tell her to watch her back.
Be careful people. You just never know who's around.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)the car repair shop. This was before everybody and their brother had a phone and it wasn't a normal conversation. It was a private family matter and the person was practically shouting at the person on the other end of the phone. I argued that it would have been equally rude if this person was having a shouting match like this with someone in the room especially given the nature of the topic. But I was told I was the one with the problem.
Today, I barely notice these calls unless they are overly loud and I cannot escape hearing it.
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)obviously none of my business type conversations. Most of the very loudest ones are those in your ear doodad phones. I don't bother complaining to anyone.
The last time my husband and I went for dinner there was a couple next to us that said about 10 words to each other. They spent 90% of their time texting or talking to others on their phones. It made me sad for them.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)And then I wash my hands.
I am not bothering anyone by texting.
I don't see what the big deal is.