The Women and the Thrones - NYRB
The two girls represent two pathsone traditional, one revolutionarythat are available to Martins female characters, all of whom, at one point or another, are starkly confronted by proof of their inferior status in this culture. (In a moment from the second novel that the HBO adaptation is careful to replicate, Ned Starks widow Catelyn realizes that Robb doesnt think his hostage sisters are worth negotiating for, although his murdered father would have been: theyre simply not worth what a man is.) Those who complained about the TV series graphic and exploitive use of womens bodies are missing the godswood for the weirwood trees: whatever the prurient thrills they provide the audience, these demeaning scenes, like their counterparts in the novels, also function as a constant reminder of what the main female characters are escaping from. I dont want to have a dozen sons, one assertive young princess tells a suitor, I want to have adventures.
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