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The great recession has forced me to spend a great deal of time in motel rooms over the last 10 years. One of the things that can either make or break your day is boisterous copulation in the next room.
It can be fun to listen to if the performance is of superior quality. It can be annoying if you desperately need sleep and the players are too drunk or loud. It can be extremely funny to the point where you have to push your face into your pillow to keep the parties involved from hearing you bust out laughing at noises you would be embarrassed to make if there was even a remote chance of someone hearing. Or laughing at sounds so obviously fake it makes you feel sorry for the other partner.
I am not voyeuristic by nature, this is just part of what goes with motel/cheap apartment living.
My policy is I don't bitch unless the noise next door becomes truly excessive, or there are sounds of violent struggle, this has ahppened 4 or 5 times, and in these cases the police were called. One resulted in a fair sized hard drug bust.
DUers get around and travel a lot. I'll bet there are some really funny adjoining room stories out there.
WilmywoodNCparalegal
(2,654 posts)I was driving coast to coast helping my parents move. I stayed in a cheap motel in southern Utah. I went to sleep and then I was awakened by what I thought was a puppy crying, yelping. The noise got louder and louder and I finally figured out it wasn't a puppy but a couple engaged in what you so aptly describe as 'boisterous copulation.'
I was hoping the guy had a quick trigger, because I wanted it to be over, but then the lady asked her partner to take off her prosthetic limbs (yes, limbS - plural) so they could role play their paper weight fantasy that they had in their office (I'm not kidding - I heard ALL of this).
It was a struggle to keep from bursting out loud laughing. To this day, it's one of the most entertaining boisterous copulations I've ever 'witnessed' (and this includes college).
unionworks
(3,574 posts)...and I have literally heard beds break. In the 70s I took my then girlfriend to a motel that actually had VCRs for watching movies (a novelty in 1974) and coin operated vibrating mattress... We are so lucky to be on DU. I'll bet FR gets no boisterous copulation at all.
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)We lived in a rooming house at the time. A movie like kissing scene where they knock stuff over, stumbled into a door. Got past that into the kitchen. Nuff said.
progressoid
(49,999 posts)That sounds like a movie plot.
elleng
(131,176 posts)Been thinking of driving west in June, w. s.o., for a couple of events, and this provides ANOTHER incentive!!!
unionworks
(3,574 posts)Have a special charm of their own, pure Americana. I once lived for years in a kitchenette with accouterments from the 40s - 50s. Remember the seperate metal grille heaters in the bathrooms? The sink had bakelite panels on the front. One time I heard water running in the shower. I pulledthe curtain back and there was a beautiful nude girl in there. (O.K. - it was my girlfriend).
libodem
(19,288 posts)A blip on the map....claim to fame first US city to be lit by atomic power. It's close to the National Lab. I was moving back to Boise, pulling. a u-haul trailer. Had to stop when it got dark. Got a cheap hotel room .
I was awakened by a loud verbal arguement in the next room. Gad, they yelled and screamed for 2 hours in the middle of the night.
After you would have thought mortal enemies, the next phase started for 2 hours. Moaning groaning hollering and headboard banging. It was gross.
They should've kept fighting.
unionworks
(3,574 posts)Calling the front desk. Consideration for someone trying to get sleep should be common sense. Unfortunately it's not always so. I understand that along old Route 66 there are still some of the old original Americana motels still operating. For me that would be a dream cruise in a classic car.
libodem
(19,288 posts)And told on 'em.
unionworks
(3,574 posts)Soft foam earplugs of the type sold in sporting goods stores for shooting are quite effective. Just make sure you have a very loud alarm clock, or clock radio, always a good idea on the road. I have encountered situations where even thatdidn't work, in those cases a call to the front desk or if there is violence to the police is in order.
marzipanni
(6,011 posts)A couple of cats and a dog lived there, too. The other male room mate asked me, with considerable concern, if I could hear what he was hearing, the sound of a cat wheezing to eject a hair ball. We listened together, then it dawned on us that the new guy had come in with a flouncy chickie, so we grinned at eachother, and shrugged our shoulders, relieved that no cat was in distress!
Another male friend, around that time, asked me how I would deal with a neighbor in the next apartment whose bedroom shared a wall with his bedroom. "Each morning, when it's still dark, I'm awakened by his rhythmic thumping; I think he's having sex. How can I drop a hint or let him know?" I thought maybe he was jealous of the guy, but I suggested it might be a rowing machine or other exercise equipment.
Sure enough the next time he said he broached the subject by talking about exercise machines and the guy said he used some type, (which I can't recall all these years later) early every morning!
unionworks
(3,574 posts)"Every piece of furniture I own is a total gym" Great story!
progressoid
(49,999 posts)Maybe tomorrow night.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)There was a couple (unmarried) that lived above us who were banging the headboard against the wall all the time. Being newlyweds we decided to keep up with them and soon discovered the routine was morning, after work, early evening, and late evening. After about two weeks of this my wife told me the guy was also coming home from lunch occassionally with another woman and getting a nooner. That's when we gave up trying to keep up.
unionworks
(3,574 posts)unionworks
(3,574 posts)... The recession brought on by corporate greed is doing terrible things to families. An unemployed young kid and his wife with toddler moved in next door in motel, this was about a year ago. They started arguing one night, this had been going on since they arrived so I tried to ignore it. It increased in volume so I put in the earplugs. Then the wall shook. Took out the earplugs to hear toddler and wife screaming, he was beating the crap out of her. Called the cops, took them forever to get there. Did something I normally wouldn't do, went outside as I was afraid he was going to kill her before the cops came. The door was open, the wife had taken the baby and was hiding in the bathroom. I convinced him to leave telling him the cops were en-route. They showed up and grabbed him on the way to his car. The stuff nightmares are made of. And all the while our "elected representatives" sit on their hands...
unionworks
(3,574 posts)...I was SO hoping to provoke a conversation about the real life effects of the 1%s war on the middle class... I am willing to bet Woody Guthrie viewed such scenes..
"You can find God in your chosen place of worship. You can find Woodie Guthrie in Brooklyn State Mental Hospital". - Bob Dylan
Dystopian
(6,421 posts)"Boisterous Copulation" will be taken and used by ohiosmith!
I'll bet my life on it...
peace~
unionworks
(3,574 posts)Also by Hope Hoops I believe.
davsand
(13,421 posts)Imagine the sounds of bed springs squeaking, a nasal sounding whining woman, and then a man's voice while working REALLY hard. Those were my next door neighbors for a while. I was tempted to yell, "Do us all a favor, BUY SOME LUBE, DAMMIT!!!!"
Laura
unionworks
(3,574 posts)At the plethora of products now manufactured for just that purpose lately...where where they when I was in my 20s and in perpetual need?
petronius
(26,606 posts)undeterred
(34,658 posts)and the sweet young couple in the apartment about 15ft from my dining room used to do it with the lights on. So now and then I'd get up in the middle of the night to get a glass of water in the kitchen and catch an eyeful.
No disturbing noises though.
One time I forgot myself and turned the dining room lights on. After that, no more shows. Edit: It was curtains.
Bake
(21,977 posts)Bake
NJCher
(35,756 posts)thank you that I have never had this experience.
Cher