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Have you thrown a punch in anger in your life? (Original Post) Recursion Mar 2014 OP
You have military veterans here who have used weapons to kill pinboy3niner Mar 2014 #1
I'm curious, too n/t malthaussen Mar 2014 #5
Yes. Feral Child Mar 2014 #2
Why? Iggo Mar 2014 #3
Yes Boom Sound 416 Mar 2014 #4
You don't mention age limits on the question... malthaussen Mar 2014 #6
Agreed. Xyzse Mar 2014 #7
I think there are a lot of us in that category. HERVEPA Mar 2014 #8
I've been on the receiving end and magical thyme Mar 2014 #11
Sure, but you're a girl! :) malthaussen Mar 2014 #12
Yes (nt) bigwillq Mar 2014 #9
Is this directed to both sexes? mainer Mar 2014 #10
It was next to impossible to not get into fights in my grade school in the 1950s aint_no_life_nowhere Mar 2014 #13
I think I punched my brother a few times when we were little kids. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2014 #14
I have not Generic Brad Mar 2014 #15
I was a goth kid in a school with a lot of hispanic gangster-types back in the 80s. Codeine Mar 2014 #16
Yep, just once my brother in the middle of church, nt Broken_Hero Mar 2014 #17
I said "yes" but I haven't since I became an adult. Coventina Mar 2014 #18
i'm guessing that childhood is considered part of your life pitohui Mar 2014 #20
Yes, you're right Coventina Mar 2014 #21
throwing a punch "in anger" warrprayer Mar 2014 #19
I voted yes... one_voice Mar 2014 #22
Sort of LadyHawkAZ Mar 2014 #23
Only in self-defense. Blue_In_AK Mar 2014 #24
yes - but I missed KT2000 Mar 2014 #25

malthaussen

(17,200 posts)
6. You don't mention age limits on the question...
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 09:40 AM
Mar 2014

... I'd be amazed to find anyone who hasn't ever been in a fight at some point in his life.

-- Mal

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
11. I've been on the receiving end and
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 12:27 PM
Mar 2014

have thrown punches in anger by myself, into a pillow. I took karate for a short time and threw punches then, although mostly at bricks and not in anger.

I was the youngest and smallest of 3 girls, all of whom were beaten by our mother. I always freeze in terror when somebody lights into me.

malthaussen

(17,200 posts)
12. Sure, but you're a girl! :)
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 12:32 PM
Mar 2014

I'd guess it is less common for the distaff to get into fistfights, although I'd be interested to know how much that's changed over the generations. A couple of my more memorable fistfights as a kid were with girls -- and naturally, I got punished for hitting a girl, even though they were bigger than I (I was a scrawny little kid).

-- Mal

mainer

(12,022 posts)
10. Is this directed to both sexes?
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 12:16 PM
Mar 2014

because I suspect there'd be a big difference if you broke it down along gender lines.

aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
13. It was next to impossible to not get into fights in my grade school in the 1950s
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 10:16 PM
Mar 2014

There were a lot of bullies picking on kids, especially on the way home from school and I just never could back down. I don't recall a fight though after the age of 12.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,719 posts)
14. I think I punched my brother a few times when we were little kids.
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 10:28 PM
Mar 2014

But I haven't hit anybody lately, in maybe the last 55 years or so.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
16. I was a goth kid in a school with a lot of hispanic gangster-types back in the 80s.
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 03:00 AM
Mar 2014

I lost count of the number of violent incidents that resulted from looking like that.

I say "gangster-types" because I think very few of them were actually gang members. I think it was just a way to look tough and assert a certain cultural identity.

pitohui

(20,564 posts)
20. i'm guessing that childhood is considered part of your life
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 08:39 PM
Mar 2014

i'm also guessing the majority of these fistfights reported in the poll occurred among minors

Coventina

(27,120 posts)
21. Yes, you're right
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 09:50 PM
Mar 2014

One would hope that learning violence is wrong is something most adults have mastered.

warrprayer

(4,734 posts)
19. throwing a punch "in anger"
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 05:05 PM
Mar 2014

is counterproductive. First of all, throwing a punch is only justified if you or someone else is at risk for grave bodily harm. Secondly, when you allow emotions to cloud your judgment, you are liable to make a mistake and get yourself hurt or go overboard with your reaction, turning justifiable self defense into an assault.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
22. I voted yes...
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:14 PM
Mar 2014

let me clarify--I NEVER threw the first punch.

I was taught never to throw the first punch/start a fight but never let anyone get away with putting their hands on you.

I was kicked out of a school for fighting. I had a kinda rough childhood/teen years.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
23. Sort of
Thu Mar 27, 2014, 10:29 PM
Mar 2014

I was pretty damn angry about being hit in the face. Since that also plays as self defense, I'm not sure how to vote.

KT2000

(20,581 posts)
25. yes - but I missed
Fri Mar 28, 2014, 03:09 AM
Mar 2014

I was crossing a street in Seattle and some frat boys were crossing the other direction. As they passed me one guy put his hand up my skirt so I swung around with my fist to hit his face but he was tall and just had to lean back so I didn't land anything.
It was just an automatic response - really wished I had hit him though.

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