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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsIf you could go back and give any person 30 - 40 more years of life who would it be?
My best friend Carlos who died at the age of 29 in 1976.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,641 posts)She was in her sixties. I would have loved to had her around so much longer, to get to know my daughter, her first great-grand child.
She was planning a trip to Africa.
I still miss her...
ohiosmith
(24,262 posts)Hope you're feeling better CP.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)She was such a wonderful person and died way too young.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)between my daughter who died in 1975 at the age of 3 months
or my brother who died last year at the age of 40.
I decided it would be my brother because it was hard enough losing a child I didn't get to spend years and years loving. I couldn't even imagine how awful it must have been...must still be...for my mom to have lost her only son, after loving him for 40 years.
And he had children.
Yeah...so I would choose my brother.
siligut
(12,272 posts)I would have him enjoy everything he worked so hard for.
pokerfan
(27,677 posts)died from an aneurysm, age 14.
MiddleFingerMom
(25,163 posts)trueblue2007
(17,228 posts)SHE DIED AS RESULT OF CAR ACCIDENT.
my father had been drinking.......
dana_b
(11,546 posts)she died way too young from lupus.
Tabasco_Dave
(1,259 posts)He died of Aids at 55 in 1994. If he had survived just one more year he could have got the new medications and he could have had another 20-30 years of life.
peacefreak
(2,939 posts)He died at the age of 33 from brain cancer.
Tikki
(14,557 posts)She was so special. I still love you and miss you Demi.
Tikki
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)LynneSin
(95,337 posts)nuff said
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)Died when she was 16. Would've like to have met him.
trof
(54,256 posts)Never saw her daughter-in-law or granddaughter.
That all came after her death.
bluedigger
(17,086 posts)Maine-ah
(9,902 posts)he died when he was 49, 17 years ago. Even with all the shit I learned about him after he died...I'd still prefer that he was here still.
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Sorry to be so self-centred and narcissistic, but assuming the requirement is not for the person in question to already be dead, I would say me. Otherwise it would be hard to choose between my parents, my sister, my three best friends...
I find a human lifespan ridiculously short. I have stacks of unread books I'll likely not get to. There will be great scientific advances I won't get to hear about. There's great classical music I won't have heard. If we make contact with aliens, I'll probably miss it. My great American novel will remain in the drawer, unfinished...
I could easily fill a thousand year lifespan.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)He was a good man and only 39 when he was killed. He was better to me than my own father.
frogmarch
(12,154 posts)I was around 2 weeks old.
But then, I'd have never known my wonderful, loving step-mother, the only mom I ever knew.
What a sad question. I miss my dad too, and my sister...and lots of other people who died too young.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)He was only 47. RIP, Jim.
Silver Swan
(1,110 posts)I wonder how my family's life would have been different had he lived.
Second choice would be my former spouse who died last June. His death was a great shock to my adult children, and it hit me much harder than I expected. The loss of a parent unexpectedly is always difficult.
astonamous
(1,336 posts)He was killed a month before his 25th birthday.
RFKHumphreyObama
(15,164 posts)Died too young from a disease she defied the statistical odds to get. Died two years before she would have been able to see the grandchildren that she desperately wanted and whom she would have adored and doted on -she was always the best with kids. Also had a real zest for life and living it to the full
stillers4ever
(33 posts)He was only 32 yrs old and left behind a loving wife, a 3 yr old son and a 18 mo old daughter.
RIP, bro.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)I think of what could have been.
TheCentepedeShoes
(3,522 posts)Died at 50 when I was 14
We had our problems but if he had lived longer I would have been older and strong enough to tell him to stop being a jerk
And I think he would have (or so I like to think)
OhioChick
(23,218 posts)Died far too young.
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)His death was devastating to many people in many terrible ways.