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alarimer

(16,245 posts)
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 03:02 PM Mar 2012

Yesterday was my last day at the job I have held for almost 15 years.

I was offered a better opportunity (though at less money, at least initially) in North Carolina, so I decided to take it. I have already found a place to live and have secured a U-Haul so all that is left is to pack up and move. I am a bit worried about moving the cat. He hates being in the carrier and this is about two days in the car.

I am a little bittersweet about this. Yes it is a better opportunity and I am excited about the job. But it is a small town and I am not sure I will like living there. And my boyfriend of 4 years will be staying behind in Texas so that's a little sad but we have Skype.

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Yesterday was my last day at the job I have held for almost 15 years. (Original Post) alarimer Mar 2012 OP
Where will you be in NC? Best of luck to you. And your cat will adjust. nt raccoon Mar 2012 #1
Elizabeth City alarimer Mar 2012 #6
I'd thought you might be close to SC. Best of luck to you in your new job! nt raccoon Mar 2012 #8
i moved from CA to NC in 2007 barbtries Mar 2012 #2
150 miles from Raleigh, more or less. alarimer Mar 2012 #7
Outer Banks, baby. . . mzteris Mar 2012 #9
The water is COLD???? JoePhilly Mar 2012 #10
Like I said, mzteris Mar 2012 #11
Oh geeze, you are definitely cold now!!! JoePhilly Mar 2012 #12
I didn't live in the Keys mzteris Mar 2012 #15
I will be about an hour from there alarimer Mar 2012 #16
Kitty will be just fine. Native Tar Heel here and you will love NC. CurtEastPoint Mar 2012 #3
Echoing others, where in NC? That will be helpful to give you tips and hints n/t WilmywoodNCparalegal Mar 2012 #4
I got cat tranqulizers libodem Mar 2012 #5
Getting advice and possibly meds from the vet is an excellent idea. GoCubsGo Mar 2012 #13
Good Luck! bigwillq Mar 2012 #14

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
6. Elizabeth City
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 10:55 PM
Mar 2012

Small town but near enough to Norfolk/Chesapeake/Va. Beach to make weekly trips to Barnes and Noble.

barbtries

(28,799 posts)
2. i moved from CA to NC in 2007
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 03:23 PM
Mar 2012

without a job...it's proven to be a good move. check out the NC forum; we just had a meet up of triangle DUers recently. it'll be good. it's a courageous thing you're doing. will you be near Raleigh?

ah, the cat. we had two. one spent the first few months in NC in kitchen cupboards. he was fairly traumatized by the move. the other recovered much quicker. they both made it.

NC is a big forest. a beautiful state, you just might love it.

mzteris

(16,232 posts)
9. Outer Banks, baby. . .
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 06:51 PM
Mar 2012

that's where you go to recharge and unwind.

The water's usually a little cold for me, but I grew up swimming in the Gulf! The rest of it though, sheer beauty!

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
10. The water is COLD????
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 06:56 PM
Mar 2012


I grew up in PA, and we would go to the Jersey beaches ... those were cold.

I now live outside Raleigh ... and we try to go to the Outerbanks whenever we can ... we love it.



mzteris

(16,232 posts)
11. Like I said,
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 06:59 PM
Mar 2012

grew up swimming in the Gulf, South FL - think Homestead & Key West, and the Gulf Stream part of the Atlantic Ocean (Charleston & Myrtle Beach, SC).

So yeah, it's a little "cold" to me! I could usually deal with Wilmington most of the time.

Of course I'd give anything to be in the "cold waters" of the Outer Banks rather than this freaking Blizzard in Madison, WI right about now!

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
12. Oh geeze, you are definitely cold now!!!
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:14 PM
Mar 2012

Sounds like you moved in the wrong direction ... PA, and the cold that came in from the Ocean moisture made me move south ... you moved from the Keys (I love the water there) North???

Did you move for the job, or the spouse????

mzteris

(16,232 posts)
15. I didn't live in the Keys
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:55 PM
Mar 2012

but prior to this Mad move - I was in NC for 20+ years.

Born in GA, raised in South Alabama, etc. etc... our vacations were down one side of FL and up the other. (Dad was working, we were vacationing on his per diem! ) Spent summers in and lived in Chas, SC for many many years.

Moved for spouses job. He left me (I kicked him out - depends on who's telling the story!) about 9 months later. (yay) I couldn't afford to move back right then, and then the economy tanked big time. ugh - long story.

Now *I* have a job I can't afford to quit - and a house I can't afford to sell until the market improves, but - I hope to make my way back down thataway someday!

My daughter's in DC, my brother's in VA. My older son *may* soon be in Richmond (he got a job offer!! hurray! and is going to visit there soon.)

Madison is a very very cool liberal town (except for Scott Walker!!) and I love that. BUT it gets damn cold in the winter!!

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
16. I will be about an hour from there
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 12:10 AM
Mar 2012

I intend to get out there from time to time. I have a kayak and there are a lot of places around Elizabeth City to go. I am used to Gulf waters too but they are like bathwater in the summer.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
5. I got cat tranqulizers
Thu Mar 1, 2012, 04:51 PM
Mar 2012

From the vet, so I could move my cat. They sleep rather than cry, pant, and have their fur come flying off.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
13. Getting advice and possibly meds from the vet is an excellent idea.
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:18 PM
Mar 2012

Do that, and kitty will be fine. It might take him a little while to adjust to new territory, but that too shall pass.

Congratulations on the new job and new location. I have a feeling you'll be much happier there than in Texas.

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