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Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 10:49 AM Dec 2014

Mrs. Venation's mom passed away yesterday.

Alice had been ill, so fragile, for a few years. Kathy's dad died in July, and mom declined dramatically since then.

We were on our way from Maryland to Kathy's home of east Tennessee when Alice took a drastic downward turn. We got to the hospital just a couple of hours before mom died. She waited for Kathy.

Mom went peacefully. Kathy was holding her hand when she died. She was unconscious, but when Kathy talked to her, mom squeezed her hand.

Alice's mom died on Christmas day when Alice was five. Strange how a coincidence like this can be so significant, but of course it is.

Please keep Kathy in your thoughts. Thank you.

Godspeed, Alice. You were one of a kind, and one of the kindest women in the history of mankind.

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Mrs. Venation's mom passed away yesterday. (Original Post) Bertha Venation Dec 2014 OP
I am sorry for the loss of your mother & mother in law irisblue Dec 2014 #1
my condolences on your loss magical thyme Dec 2014 #2
. Little Star Dec 2014 #3
I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and Kathy. Arkansas Granny Dec 2014 #4
I am so very sorry. bigwillq Dec 2014 #5
i am sorry. my mom waited a day before leaving. one day past my sisters roguevalley Dec 2014 #6
I am so sorry for your loss, my dear Bertha... CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2014 #7
My condolences to Mrs. Venation. denbot Dec 2014 #8
so very sorry for your loss. prayers for peace and comfort for all those she left behind. niyad Dec 2014 #9
My deepest condolences to you and yours and may Alice rest in power MrScorpio Dec 2014 #10
I am so sorry for your loss. brer cat Dec 2014 #11
I'm so sorry for your loss LiberalEsto Dec 2014 #12
I'm so sorry for your loss. hedgehog Dec 2014 #13
I'm so sorry for your and Mrs. V's loss. QED Dec 2014 #14
Oh Bertha, I'm so sorry. Flaxbee Dec 2014 #15
My most heartfelt condolences to you and your family AwakeAtLast Dec 2014 #16
I am very sorry for your loss. Behind the Aegis Dec 2014 #17
Hugs for Kathy lovemydog Dec 2014 #18
godspeed indeed alice mopinko Dec 2014 #19
I am so sorry. GoCubsGo Dec 2014 #20
Deepest sympathy on your loss. On Christmas Day no less... So so sorry riderinthestorm Dec 2014 #21
I'm very sorry for the loss of your dear Alice. KMOD Dec 2014 #22
... Kali Dec 2014 #23
aww heck bertha blueknight Dec 2014 #24
Deepest sympathy to the Venation family. femmocrat Dec 2014 #25
My sorrow on her death. Wolf Frankula Dec 2014 #26
wishing all of you peace and comfort orleans Dec 2014 #27

irisblue

(33,036 posts)
1. I am sorry for the loss of your mother & mother in law
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 11:45 AM
Dec 2014

I am glad she was good to you both. in sympathy, irisblue

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
6. i am sorry. my mom waited a day before leaving. one day past my sisters
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 12:54 PM
Dec 2014

Birthday. I hug you and your family. Tell Kathy she is loved.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,726 posts)
7. I am so sorry for your loss, my dear Bertha...
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 12:56 PM
Dec 2014

Godspeed to her, indeed...May she rest in peace.

You are all in my thoughts...

Flaxbee

(13,661 posts)
15. Oh Bertha, I'm so sorry.
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 03:02 PM
Dec 2014

Those kinds of coincidences are meaningful (Christmas...). My mother died in October, and it is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with (including the death of my dad a few years ago). I'm still lost and think there is a part of me that always will be.

My mother's cardiologist said that she could always tell more about a patient from the kind of people their children are than what they ever say about themselves -- so Alice was obviously a wonderful person because of the daughter she produced...

Godspeed to Alice. And all my love to you and Kathy.


GoCubsGo

(32,095 posts)
20. I am so sorry.
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 06:00 PM
Dec 2014

Hugs to you and Mrs. V. I'm glad you and she were able to be there. Hugs to the both of you.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
22. I'm very sorry for the loss of your dear Alice.
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 08:55 PM
Dec 2014

Take comfort that Kathy was able to be with her at this time.

Kathy, you, and Alice's loved ones, are in my thoughts.

orleans

(34,079 posts)
27. wishing all of you peace and comfort
Sat Dec 27, 2014, 08:23 PM
Dec 2014

including alice (who bonded with her mother one final time before leaving this world to hold her in the next)

you have my sympathy for your tremendous loss



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