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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsMrs. Venation's mom passed away yesterday.
Alice had been ill, so fragile, for a few years. Kathy's dad died in July, and mom declined dramatically since then.
We were on our way from Maryland to Kathy's home of east Tennessee when Alice took a drastic downward turn. We got to the hospital just a couple of hours before mom died. She waited for Kathy.
Mom went peacefully. Kathy was holding her hand when she died. She was unconscious, but when Kathy talked to her, mom squeezed her hand.
Alice's mom died on Christmas day when Alice was five. Strange how a coincidence like this can be so significant, but of course it is.
Please keep Kathy in your thoughts. Thank you.
Godspeed, Alice. You were one of a kind, and one of the kindest women in the history of mankind.
irisblue
(33,036 posts)I am glad she was good to you both. in sympathy, irisblue
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)Little Star
(17,055 posts)Arkansas Granny
(31,534 posts)bigwillq
(72,790 posts)roguevalley
(40,656 posts)Birthday. I hug you and your family. Tell Kathy she is loved.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,726 posts)Godspeed to her, indeed...May she rest in peace.
You are all in my thoughts...
denbot
(9,901 posts)Peace to her and her's.
niyad
(113,596 posts)MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)brer cat
(24,621 posts)LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)Blessings of peace to both of you
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)QED
(2,749 posts)Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)Those kinds of coincidences are meaningful (Christmas...). My mother died in October, and it is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with (including the death of my dad a few years ago). I'm still lost and think there is a part of me that always will be.
My mother's cardiologist said that she could always tell more about a patient from the kind of people their children are than what they ever say about themselves -- so Alice was obviously a wonderful person because of the daughter she produced...
Godspeed to Alice. And all my love to you and Kathy.
AwakeAtLast
(14,134 posts)Behind the Aegis
(54,007 posts)We miss you.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)May her mom rest in peace.
mopinko
(70,261 posts)and peace to you and the mrs.
in my thoughts.
GoCubsGo
(32,095 posts)Hugs to you and Mrs. V. I'm glad you and she were able to be there. Hugs to the both of you.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)KMOD
(7,906 posts)Take comfort that Kathy was able to be with her at this time.
Kathy, you, and Alice's loved ones, are in my thoughts.
Kali
(55,025 posts)in some ways it was a nice passing. good that Mrs. V could be there.
blueknight
(2,831 posts)Im so sorry to hear this. Peace be with both of you during this hard time
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Wolf Frankula
(3,602 posts)I know what it is like to lose a loved one.
Wolf
orleans
(34,079 posts)including alice (who bonded with her mother one final time before leaving this world to hold her in the next)
you have my sympathy for your tremendous loss