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DFW

(54,405 posts)
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 09:44 PM Aug 2015

The saddest day of the year for us. And we always know it's coming.

We have just spent our usual vacation on the outer tip of Cape Cod, Massachusetts, USA. Today was our last day. I say "USA" because it's a cumbersome trip to get here from our home in the German Rheinland. A genuine pain in the ass to tell the truth. A sleepless night packing, the short flight to Schipol Airport (Amsterdam), the long flight to Boston, spending the night there, then a taxi back to the airport, renting a car, then the 3 hour drive out to Truro (with a pit stop to pick up my 12 string from the incredible Fran Ledoux in Marstons Mills, the unsung hero of fretted instrument repair on Cape Cod).

But when we get here--oh MAN do we get our reward. Nature pure, crystal clear water on either side, and out here, there's only a 6 mile wide sliver of land between the Bay and the Ocean. Anything could cross your path. A raccoon, a coyote, a wild turkey, a hummingbird, an oriole, a goldfinch, a blood-red cardinal, a deer, a possum, even a skunk. In the water, seals swim up to within 20 feet of you--not necessarily good, as the water is now so warm that Great Whites are infesting the area as well.

And then there are the people--after 30 years of making this trip, we know plenty of the locals, and I do a guest hour on the local community radio station, have been doing it for 30 years now. A local art gallery owner we are friendly with, a painter, and Russian girls that stop me on the street because they remember me from the year before when I spoke to them in Russian while they were packing bags at the local supermarket in a work-study program. The crusty old white-haired woman who owns an over-priced parking lot in Provincetown--but we park (sorry, "pahk&quot there anyway, because she's so entertaining, and we know she only has three and a half months to make her whole year's income. We haven't been going out to the (usually good) restaurants much, since my wife is a gourmet cook, and we get the freshest local seafood there is in the tiny shops run by local fishermen.

The weather has been the best EVER this year. I had a pile of mail sent up from Dallas. I hardly looked at it the whole time. I had intended to write some more of my second book on rainy days. Except there haven't been any. Just great days with this amazing air they have out here. We've had some visitors. Mostly family, one old friend of my wife she has known for 30 years. But all are gone, and we are eating our last meal, packing, and wondering how the HELL did 27 days go by so quickly?

Tomorrow, the real world starts again. Damn. I could get used to this.

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The saddest day of the year for us. And we always know it's coming. (Original Post) DFW Aug 2015 OP
27 days *and* paradise - I'm missing what the problem here is. (Congrats) n/t UTUSN Aug 2015 #1
Paradise to us. It's not everyone's idea of paradise. DFW Aug 2015 #3
Sounds absolutely lovely! Suich Aug 2015 #2
Except for the fact that we'll now be packing until dawn DFW Aug 2015 #4
Wow! Suich Aug 2015 #7
Plus the company of the lovely lady second from the right DFW Aug 2015 #8
Nice looking family... Enthusiast Aug 2015 #14
Thanks! I had a lucky break 41 years ago DFW Aug 2015 #19
Very pretty girls! If it's alright to say that. Enthusiast Aug 2015 #26
Yes, it's alright to say that! DFW Aug 2015 #27
Raving pretty! Enthusiast Aug 2015 #15
Your life sucks panader0 Aug 2015 #5
LOL!! Only today, my man, only today..... n/t DFW Aug 2015 #6
I wish you could stay there too, my dear DFW... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2015 #9
Next year: Anaheim! DFW Aug 2015 #24
I sure hope we can visit then! CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2015 #25
I won't leave without it! n/t DFW Aug 2015 #28
The food in P-town, oh gosh... irisblue Aug 2015 #10
the Cape is the most romantic place in the galaxy olddots Aug 2015 #11
The air, the light, the water DFW Aug 2015 #29
Ah - I feel for you. n/t qnr Aug 2015 #12
I spent my summers in Wellfleet until I moved to Belgium. Ilios Meows Aug 2015 #13
We stay in Truro, just north of there. DFW Aug 2015 #30
But....Knokke! WinkyDink Aug 2015 #31
Knokke is not nearly as nice as the Outer Cape Ilios Meows Aug 2015 #32
I've also been to both, but maybe my memory of Belgium is colored by the fact that...it was Belgium! WinkyDink Aug 2015 #38
Yes, Belgium is pretty nice, isn't it? Ilios Meows Aug 2015 #40
But now it's after midnight, and August 8 has one consolation Jim Lane Aug 2015 #16
I was in Jyväskylä, Finland at the time DFW Aug 2015 #23
sounds wonderful NJCher Aug 2015 #17
Dallas is my US home. DFW Aug 2015 #22
I hereby curse thee... malthaussen Aug 2015 #18
May the evil spirits that moved thee to such a curse...... DFW Aug 2015 #21
I'd curl up with three Bloodhounds, two Shepherds and one Fila Brasileiro to unwind seveneyes Aug 2015 #20
safe travels, and looking forward to your second book. just to let you know, the library` niyad Aug 2015 #33
Wow, that's flattering to know! DFW Aug 2015 #34
DFW, I thought you'd find this blog post by David Lebovitz interesting Ilios Meows Aug 2015 #35
Don't reveal too much!! DFW Aug 2015 #36
LOL. It's already overrun with New Yorkers! Ilios Meows Aug 2015 #37
Oh yeah. Used to vacation near Nobska light at Woods Hole. trof Aug 2015 #39
Bright side: you get to go home to Germany. Aristus Aug 2015 #41
Not yet, I don't! DFW Aug 2015 #42

DFW

(54,405 posts)
3. Paradise to us. It's not everyone's idea of paradise.
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 11:19 PM
Aug 2015

Some people like the tropics, some like the mountains, some like the action of the big city. We've been there, done that.

I get German vacation conditions, so I can do this and not be AWOL.

The problem here is that there are people I have been seeing here for the last 30 years, most of whom are our age or younger. They are happily retired, and they are now telling us, "WTF are you still working for? You're practically one of us now. Find yourself a place here and come join us!"

When I was on the radio on Monday, the moderator was asking me why I was still working, and I told him I didn't want to die of boredom. He said, "oh really? You enjoy the nature here, you play music, you write, you travel, and you're worried about dying of BOREDOM?" I realized that I didn't have much of an argument any more to refute him.

DFW

(54,405 posts)
4. Except for the fact that we'll now be packing until dawn
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 11:22 PM
Aug 2015

You're right!
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DFW

(54,405 posts)
8. Plus the company of the lovely lady second from the right
Fri Aug 7, 2015, 11:30 PM
Aug 2015

Our two daughters (left) and my brother (far right) were here for a week, too.
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DFW

(54,405 posts)
19. Thanks! I had a lucky break 41 years ago
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 04:17 PM
Aug 2015

One of the most beautiful women I ever met happened to be nearsighted. By the time we got married, and I gave her her glasses back, it was too late. Our daughters not only inherited her looks (they are 32 and 30, look 10 years younger), but my wife's father's 20/20 vision as well.

DFW

(54,405 posts)
27. Yes, it's alright to say that!
Sun Aug 9, 2015, 07:40 AM
Aug 2015

I don't think political correctness forbids that yet, or a lot of art museums would be out of business.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,637 posts)
9. I wish you could stay there too, my dear DFW...
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 12:03 AM
Aug 2015

I must admit I worry because you work so hard all year long. I'm glad you get this vacation, but I also wish you could make it permanent.

Safe travels home!

irisblue

(32,980 posts)
10. The food in P-town, oh gosh...
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 12:48 AM
Aug 2015

best lobster I've ever had. Mussels in wine sauce over pasta ( I tried to make this at home) I'm glad you had such a good time, but I'm a bit envious.

Ilios Meows

(26 posts)
13. I spent my summers in Wellfleet until I moved to Belgium.
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 06:54 AM
Aug 2015

I really miss beaches in Mass and the Outer Cape in particular. It really is a piece of paradise.

DFW

(54,405 posts)
30. We stay in Truro, just north of there.
Sun Aug 9, 2015, 07:44 AM
Aug 2015

We agree! There is a reason we make the journey all the way from Düsseldorf every year.

Ilios Meows

(26 posts)
32. Knokke is not nearly as nice as the Outer Cape
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 11:08 AM
Aug 2015

The beaches that comprise the Cape Cod National Seashore are gorgeous. The towns of Provincetown, Truro and Wellfleet are great. The Belgian coast is kind of meh by comparison. Too many high rises and not enough nature.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
38. I've also been to both, but maybe my memory of Belgium is colored by the fact that...it was Belgium!
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 07:06 PM
Aug 2015
 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
16. But now it's after midnight, and August 8 has one consolation
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 07:52 AM
Aug 2015

Anniversary of Nixon's resignation, and you look like you're old enough to join me in remembering it.

Executive deleted!

NJCher

(35,687 posts)
17. sounds wonderful
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 10:09 AM
Aug 2015

so you live in Germany, vacation in Truro, and have mail sent up from Dallas. I don't understand the mail part.


Cher

DFW

(54,405 posts)
22. Dallas is my US home.
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 04:29 PM
Aug 2015

It's the HQ of the outfit I work for is, and my US residence. When I get mail in the States, it goes to Dallas, and they forward it on to whatever continent I'm trampling that week.

DFW

(54,405 posts)
21. May the evil spirits that moved thee to such a curse......
Sat Aug 8, 2015, 04:25 PM
Aug 2015

....be spot on for many years to come!!

niyad

(113,344 posts)
33. safe travels, and looking forward to your second book. just to let you know, the library`
Mon Aug 10, 2015, 11:30 AM
Aug 2015

copy of your book is always out.

Ilios Meows

(26 posts)
35. DFW, I thought you'd find this blog post by David Lebovitz interesting
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 04:22 AM
Aug 2015

He's an American pastry chef who worked at Chez Panisse, wrote some very good cook books, and lives in Paris. He reviews some of the food that he had while staying in Wellfleet. Some of my old faves (PB Boulangerie, Macs, Arnold's) are mentioned:

http://www.davidlebovitz.com/2015/08/cape-cod-new-england-vacation/

Ilios Meows

(26 posts)
37. LOL. It's already overrun with New Yorkers!
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 09:12 AM
Aug 2015

When I started going there, it was so quiet, except for P-Town. You could swim at the kettle ponds with barely another soul. Truro at least maintains its quaint, rural charm.

trof

(54,256 posts)
39. Oh yeah. Used to vacation near Nobska light at Woods Hole.
Tue Aug 11, 2015, 07:37 PM
Aug 2015

Loved our week at the Cape.
Of course getting there and back was a bitch.
TRAFFIC!
But it was worth it.

I'll never forget the time I was 'learning' to sail my tiny Snark and got caught up in a yacht race.
I was lucky the racers didn't have firearms on board.

We like the 'salt life' on the gulf coast, but do miss the Cape.

Aristus

(66,388 posts)
41. Bright side: you get to go home to Germany.
Wed Aug 12, 2015, 09:38 AM
Aug 2015

I lived there for three years I can barely remember when I was a kid, and my Dad was stationed there. Then I was stationed there myself when I was in the Army.

I'd give anything to go back. What a wonderful country...

DFW

(54,405 posts)
42. Not yet, I don't!
Wed Aug 12, 2015, 01:57 PM
Aug 2015

I'm now in Chicago for work. Next week, back to Dallas, then up to DC.

Then over to Vancouver for 2 days, then up to Alaska for 10 days, then back to DC for 3 days, then back up to Boston for a wedding in Lenox, then back to Boston and THEN back to Germany. Germany has its good and bad points, but as long as you can dodge the bureaucracy and the bureaucrats (almost impossible), and the weather isn't TOO miserable, it can be tolerable. At least I am married to one of the friendly natives, and she makes things tolerable pretty much wherever I am.

But for now, miles to go before I sleep.

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