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Duppers

(28,127 posts)
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 05:55 PM Oct 2016

Advice please. Merging bully just hit our car from the side.

Hubs let him pull in. We're trapped in extremely slow moving traffic, almost standstill for 30 mins. Guy pulled in from the shoulder lane. Did not wait his turn in line.
Got his plate #.

What should we do? Cannot pull over to evaluate but know the car must have bad scratch & perhaps indention.

Thx.

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Advice please. Merging bully just hit our car from the side. (Original Post) Duppers Oct 2016 OP
Call 911 Buck Turgidson Oct 2016 #1
Thx. Duppers Oct 2016 #2
Agree 911 Lochloosa Oct 2016 #3
Do not let the other guy do all the talking. Initech Oct 2016 #4
Good advice. My experience too is that people will try to lie their way out of it if it was their raccoon Oct 2016 #15
I made that mistake once, shall not make it again! Initech Oct 2016 #16
Probably too late, but I agree with the 911 Thor_MN Oct 2016 #5
Thanks, Thor. Duppers Oct 2016 #6
Hopefully the insurance process isn't painful True Dough Oct 2016 #7
Thank you, True Dough. Duppers Oct 2016 #10
Take pictures of the damage? NobodyHere Oct 2016 #8
Definitely. Sure did. Duppers Oct 2016 #11
Call the cops. Report a Hit-and-Run. (n/t) Iggo Oct 2016 #9
LOCK HIM UP Angry Dragon Oct 2016 #12
What brought that on?? Duppers Oct 2016 #13
I thought I was a republican for a second Angry Dragon Oct 2016 #14

Initech

(100,105 posts)
4. Do not let the other guy do all the talking.
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 07:54 PM
Oct 2016

I had an accident a few years ago and the douchebag that hit me tried to make it look like it my fault, hired a lawyer and attempted to sue me and made my life a living hell for the year after it happened. And the really fucked up thing? There was far more damage to my car than there was to his car. Thankfully it never reached court and got caught up in insurance arbitration. And the insurance ruled that it was a double fault accident. But the rule is don't let the police leave the scene without getting your side of the story.

raccoon

(31,126 posts)
15. Good advice. My experience too is that people will try to lie their way out of it if it was their
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 11:37 AM
Oct 2016

fault.


Initech

(100,105 posts)
16. I made that mistake once, shall not make it again!
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 11:59 AM
Oct 2016

The funny thing is that there was far more damage to my car than there ever was to his car (his Suburban vs. my Altima - who wins?), and this guy had the nerve to lie to the insurance company and stage a faulty injury claim when the police report made it clear there weren't any injuries.

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
5. Probably too late, but I agree with the 911
Tue Oct 11, 2016, 08:19 PM
Oct 2016

I was once hit near my rear tire by the front bumper of a semi. It was snowing heavily and cars were moving less than a mile an hour. The jerk driving the truck decided that he wasn't going to wait his turn where two lanes were merging. He didn't stop, so I called 911 and followed him. The 911 operator was irritated that I couldn't give her a mile marker, but it was a full ten minutes before we passed one - she couldn't seem to understand how slowly we were moving.

Eventually, a highway patrol met us at the next on ramp and took the report. It wound up being my insurance covered me, and his lack of insurance hopefully bit him on the ass hard. Not much damage to his truck, but the officer told me that he was getting cited for lack of insurance.

Duppers

(28,127 posts)
6. Thanks, Thor.
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 08:02 AM
Oct 2016

Your story reminds me of how much some of these 911 operators and dispatchers need more training---or IQ tests.

Our insurance company has been contacted. Damage was more than we expected. It was a military kid, with an obvious abundance of testosterone , in a hyped up Camray. No doubt who he's voting for.



True Dough

(17,331 posts)
7. Hopefully the insurance process isn't painful
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 11:23 AM
Oct 2016

I got sideswiped by another driver who wasn't paying attention (and she admitted as much in a text message that she sent me, thankfully).

Despite that, she later changed her story and attempted to weasel out of it. The claims adjuster on my file was useless. The process dragged on for five months. Finally a different claims adjuster took over and it was resolved in my favor within a matter of one week (and the text message was relevant after all).

And the cost of damages for even minor damage can escalate quickly. It's crazy how expensive plastic parts of a car can be.

Good luck, Duppers.

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