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What's your pet peeve at the gym? (Original Post) diva77 Aug 2017 OP
I've never had anyone do that to me LoveMyCali Aug 2017 #1
the gym brings out the beast in some people!! diva77 Aug 2017 #4
FoxNoise on the teevees. Dark n Stormy Knight Aug 2017 #2
I hope you let them know why you quit!! diva77 Aug 2017 #3
Oh, sure I did! In a strongly worded email. It was the Y, and they basically said, Dark n Stormy Knight Aug 2017 #6
yes, good riddance...and not surprising that a place that is blasting that nasty propaganda diva77 Aug 2017 #9
Yep, that's one of mine as well. Fla Dem Aug 2017 #15
Oh, forgot to say: your pet peeve is one that I've never run into, Dark n Stormy Knight Aug 2017 #5
would you classify it as passive-aggressive behavior as well? diva77 Aug 2017 #7
In some cases, but I suspect it's mostly self absorption. Dark n Stormy Knight Aug 2017 #8
there's a lot of that around here these days... diva77 Aug 2017 #10
Bad music and Fox on the TV shenmue Aug 2017 #11
maybe that's how the manager keeps the gym from being too crowded! diva77 Aug 2017 #18
No ashtrays on the treadmills. JustABozoOnThisBus Aug 2017 #12
Keep an empty beer can in the cup holder, problem solved NightWatcher Aug 2017 #13
Camelback.... Docreed2003 Aug 2017 #34
LOL!! diva77 Aug 2017 #16
Yeah, This RobinA Aug 2017 #14
your new gym sounds exactly like my gym! diva77 Aug 2017 #17
A gym we had been going to switched to Cross Fit, where it... 3catwoman3 Aug 2017 #42
Dropping Weights MosheFeingold Aug 2017 #57
I use the pool at my "gym"... It's a beauty, 25 meters... PassingFair Aug 2017 #19
I swim every day iamateacher Aug 2017 #27
That's annoying as well, but at least... PassingFair Aug 2017 #59
Agree with you 100%. People go to my gym to be seen, not do any work. Yavin4 Aug 2017 #20
Annoying loud talking Stuart G Aug 2017 #77
sweaty people, which is why I don't go Skittles Aug 2017 #21
My ass alone sweats enough to hydrate a herd of cats Major Nikon Aug 2017 #40
you want I should kick your sweaty, hydrating ass, Major Nikon? Skittles Aug 2017 #44
Prolly easier just to wring out my shorts Major Nikon Aug 2017 #45
What is this "gym" of which you speak? The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2017 #22
They are kinda like nightclubs back in the 80's Major Nikon Aug 2017 #41
! Kali Aug 2017 #65
So there's people there selling cocaine? Mr.Bill Aug 2017 #72
Roids Major Nikon Aug 2017 #73
LOL!! diva77 Aug 2017 #48
My gym doesn't permit Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2017 #23
! Ptah Aug 2017 #24
The women I might want to chat up Blue_Tires Aug 2017 #25
exercse Motley13 Aug 2017 #26
That's what I was going to say! smirkymonkey Aug 2017 #70
Members HDSam Aug 2017 #28
Members HDSam Aug 2017 #29
The other old women standing there talking. Croney Aug 2017 #30
Old men that want to have a conversation Funtatlaguy Aug 2017 #31
That's the worst...no one wants to see old balls... Docreed2003 Aug 2017 #35
I do not have a pet peeve because where I live Doreen Aug 2017 #32
I pay $200 a year to the Boys and Girls Club, Croney Aug 2017 #36
I have checked and where I live they do not offer that. Doreen Aug 2017 #43
Look into Planet Fitness, its $10 a month. alarimer Aug 2017 #78
We do not have a Planet fitness. Doreen Aug 2017 #80
People who blow their noses... 3catwoman3 Aug 2017 #33
Speaking of the gymnastics gym mythology Aug 2017 #37
Number 1: People that tie up Cybex equipmnent buy just sitting and staring doc03 Aug 2017 #38
It smells. (n/t) Iggo Aug 2017 #39
People who get on the treadmill right next to yours when others are free and start coughing Yavin4 Aug 2017 #46
A/C not cool enough!!!!! LeftInTX Aug 2017 #47
thanks for sharing your pet peeves, everybody-including ones that shared a little too much info! diva77 Aug 2017 #49
The sun reflects off the big windows in front and gets in my eyes when I drive by. briv1016 Aug 2017 #50
All of the above is why I exercise at home or hike some steep trails we have in national Hoyt Aug 2017 #51
mine's at home too. But the cat finds a way to jump on me every day rurallib Aug 2017 #62
When people don't wipe the machine down when they are done. I do it before and after... airmid Aug 2017 #52
Creeps C_U_L8R Aug 2017 #53
...and I know I would do that, because I'm inattentive and rude. Iggo Aug 2017 #56
People who spread out their towels and water bottles to occupy different pieces of equipment. kairos12 Aug 2017 #64
I left my pet peeve at the gym and never went back for it. Orrex Aug 2017 #54
Using the triceps machine for selfies crazycatlady Aug 2017 #55
In no particular order: ariadne0614 Aug 2017 #58
Agree. They are VERY selfish when they do that. I don't put up with their bullshit and ask them if beaglelover Aug 2017 #60
Other people Awsi Dooger Aug 2017 #61
... Kali Aug 2017 #66
Any loud and long conversation Neema Aug 2017 #63
People who leave their empty water bottle Mr.Bill Aug 2017 #67
You beat me to it! smirkymonkey Aug 2017 #71
People who hit a bong and then yell "C'MON, DO ONE MORE YOU WIMP" at the bench pressers. LuckyCharms Aug 2017 #68
Crossfitters who think they can tie up six pieces of equipment Drahthaardogs Aug 2017 #69
Loud Grunters clutterbox1830 Aug 2017 #74
While I was at the gym sakabatou Aug 2017 #75
Many MosheFeingold Aug 2017 #76
People who watch TV with the sound on too loudly. alarimer Aug 2017 #79
Back in the 80's my peeves were benld74 Aug 2017 #81
Protein shake farts GregW Aug 2017 #82
For a very brief time in my life me and a girlfriend were among the hottest creatures in the gym... hunter Aug 2017 #83
Going to it. n/t raven mad Sep 2017 #84

LoveMyCali

(2,015 posts)
1. I've never had anyone do that to me
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 03:46 AM
Aug 2017

but that WOULD annoy me.

My pet peeve is people who complain about newbies especially around New Years. We were all new at some point and let's face it about half of them are only going to be on "your" eliptical for about 10 minutes anyway so go get a drink of water and chill the hell out.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
2. FoxNoise on the teevees.
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 03:47 AM
Aug 2017

So much so that I quit there and have been working out elsewhere for the past few years.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
6. Oh, sure I did! In a strongly worded email. It was the Y, and they basically said,
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 03:58 AM
Aug 2017

"Oh well."

Good riddance. I have much more satisfying workouts now!

diva77

(7,643 posts)
9. yes, good riddance...and not surprising that a place that is blasting that nasty propaganda
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 04:05 AM
Aug 2017

would have that reaction to your email!

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
5. Oh, forgot to say: your pet peeve is one that I've never run into,
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 03:52 AM
Aug 2017

but WTF is wrong with people? Not hard to know that if you're doing that you're an inconsiderate, selfish, and extremely annoying person.

diva77

(7,643 posts)
7. would you classify it as passive-aggressive behavior as well?
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 03:59 AM
Aug 2017

...not good for one's blood pressure whatever it is!!

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
8. In some cases, but I suspect it's mostly self absorption.
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 04:05 AM
Aug 2017

Our modern phones are fab, but can contribute to obliviousness to those around us.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,340 posts)
12. No ashtrays on the treadmills.
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 06:56 AM
Aug 2017

I try to keep the cigar ash from falling as I slowly amble on the treadmill while watching FOX News, but it's not easy.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
13. Keep an empty beer can in the cup holder, problem solved
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 08:05 AM
Aug 2017

But then where to keep the current beer you're working on?

Damn

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
14. Yeah, This
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 08:10 AM
Aug 2017

I never really ran into this at my old gym because most of the people after work are pretty middle aged. I switched gyms and it was a younger crowd who spent a good bit of time sitting on machines doing I don't know what on their phones. I quit that gym because there were too many scenesters seeing and being seen. My new new gym is great with some, but not too much, phone sitting.

Now my other pet peeve is guys who drop weights. This isn't generally too bad, but for awhile we had this one guy who had to lift such a large amount of weight that he would drop it from about shoulder level when lowering it. I am jumpy with loud noises and I used to start every time the damn thing hit the floor. Luckily he went elsewhere after about 6 months.

diva77

(7,643 posts)
17. your new gym sounds exactly like my gym!
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 02:24 PM
Aug 2017

dropping weights - for sure another one of my pet peeves; it's usually preceded by a loud, primal grunt from the same person too!!

3catwoman3

(23,987 posts)
42. A gym we had been going to switched to Cross Fit, where it...
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 06:56 PM
Aug 2017

...was standard procedure to drop weights - as often and as loudly as possible. I hated it. Very jarring, because you never know when it is going to happen.

I also didn't particularly care for the Cross Fit philosophy. I know the claim is that all the exercises are based on movements you make in every day life. Try as I might, I could not think of an every day movement that would have me doing inverted push ups from a hand stand position. It was that exercise that prompted us to go elsewhere.

MosheFeingold

(3,051 posts)
57. Dropping Weights
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 12:05 PM
Aug 2017

There is a place and time. I drop weights when I deadlift or do Olympic lifts -- because you are supposed to.

I'm in my 90s, by the way. Dating a women 20 years, younger, thank you very much.

And passed my annual driving test this morning.

Sixty years of serious weightlifting (as in, chains and chalk) has kept me from falling apart.

PassingFair

(22,434 posts)
19. I use the pool at my "gym"... It's a beauty, 25 meters...
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 03:29 PM
Aug 2017

A lot of older people use the pool to walk up and down the lanes, this is fine, BUT,
I swim laps, lots of them, and walkers do NOT need to be taking up an entire lane
for themselves. They can surely double up, or walk in groups.

Most people get it, but JEEZ! If you're not putting your head underwater, you don't
need to take up a lap lane!

Rant over.

PassingFair

(22,434 posts)
59. That's annoying as well, but at least...
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 12:30 PM
Aug 2017

they're swimming! So I cut them some slack. They usually stop once they
encounter my face down, torpedo style.

Yavin4

(35,438 posts)
20. Agree with you 100%. People go to my gym to be seen, not do any work.
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 03:38 PM
Aug 2017

They're getting free memberships from their jobs, so they don't take going there seriously. It's just an excuse to hang out in gym clothes after work.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
21. sweaty people, which is why I don't go
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 04:10 PM
Aug 2017

I don't care how well they "wipe down" the machines - GROSS

MUCH prefer to exercise at home

HDSam

(251 posts)
28. Members
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 05:31 PM
Aug 2017

that camp out on one weightlifting machine forever. They invariably do ~5 reps and take a two minute break in place and then do it all over again.

My wife and I routinely observe one couple at our gym who put forth the absolute least amount of effort possible and are attached to whatever technology they happen to have brought with them that day.

HDSam

(251 posts)
29. Members
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 05:33 PM
Aug 2017

that camp out on one weightlifting machine forever. They invariably do ~5 reps and take a two minute break in place and then do it all over again.

My wife and I routinely observe one couple at our gym who put forth the absolute least amount of effort possible and are glued to whatever technology they happen to have brought with them that day. I guess whatever works for them, but if you're going to make the effort to go to the gym, why not make it worthwhile? To each their own I guess.

Croney

(4,660 posts)
30. The other old women standing there talking.
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 05:39 PM
Aug 2017

I take what I call "old lady fitness classes," and I have quit both a water aerobics class and a "strength training for active older adults" because they'd rather gossip than do the work, and the instructors let them. Really annoys me. But at one class I found a like-minded soul and now she and I go "running" together. I'll be 73 soon and she's 77 and we take it seriously.

Funtatlaguy

(10,875 posts)
31. Old men that want to have a conversation
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 05:50 PM
Aug 2017

with you....while standing in front of you stark naked in the locker room not letting you get to your own locker while grabbing their ole wrinkly saggy hairy set and going on about the librul media...

Docreed2003

(16,859 posts)
35. That's the worst...no one wants to see old balls...
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 05:57 PM
Aug 2017

Maybe it's a function of age but damn that bothers me, lol!!

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
32. I do not have a pet peeve because where I live
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 05:52 PM
Aug 2017

poor people can't go to gyms as they are way to expensive. I guess that is my pet peeve, poor people can't go.

Croney

(4,660 posts)
36. I pay $200 a year to the Boys and Girls Club,
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 06:03 PM
Aug 2017

which gets me access to the pool and fitness center at specified adult hours. That's less than $20 a month. My husband pays only $11 a month to his gym, but I think there's an annual fee too. Maybe your area has a place you could go.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
43. I have checked and where I live they do not offer that.
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 06:59 PM
Aug 2017

The really shitty thing is that I live in a poor community and you think they would try to help the poor have an opportunity to help themselves. We also only have one gym with a pool and it is the most expensive gym. The guy who owns it is kind of a dick anyway.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
78. Look into Planet Fitness, its $10 a month.
Thu Aug 31, 2017, 09:22 AM
Aug 2017

It's okay. It has all the machines you could want. And free weights. No pool and not much in the way of classes, but it is cheap.

Also try FitnessBlender.com. They have exercise videos of all kinds, for free, though you can buy programs in PDF form if you wish. Mostly High Intensity Interval Training, strength training, some yoga and pilates. And you never have to leave the house. I bought a set of adjustable dumbbells, but you could use any sort of weights or none at all.

3catwoman3

(23,987 posts)
33. People who blow their noses...
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 05:54 PM
Aug 2017

...in the middle of a workout and then do not sanitize their hands before picking up/handling the equipment again.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
37. Speaking of the gymnastics gym
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 06:07 PM
Aug 2017

People who don't look and end up walking into your way because they are oblivious. It's weird in that it's either people who are new to gymnastics or people who have been doing it a long time. Some of the best gymnasts I know have almost no gym awareness and it boggles my mind. I'm a big guy, I barrel into somebody doing handsprings or tucks and it's going to end badly.

In the regular gym, it's watching people do pointless things. There's a guy who comes in and after doing the treadmill, he goes over to the lat pulldown machine, set it at like 20 pounds and instead of doing a pulldown, he leans back, his arms never bending and then leans forward. It doesn't work any muscles. There's another guy who wants people to think he can lift lots of weights and so gets heavy dumbbells and instead of doing arms out for his shoulder raises, he just kind of rocks side to side to lift the dumbbells. As long as they aren't doing something really dangerous, I don't really care, but I just want to ask why they bother since it's not actually getting them stronger.

doc03

(35,337 posts)
38. Number 1: People that tie up Cybex equipmnent buy just sitting and staring
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 06:08 PM
Aug 2017

into space, bullshiting with someone or talking on the phone. Number 2: Fox News on the TVs. Number 3: Guys that use the hair dryers to dry their balls and asshole. I don't touch the hair dryers.

Yavin4

(35,438 posts)
46. People who get on the treadmill right next to yours when others are free and start coughing
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 09:00 PM
Aug 2017

If you're sick, why are you at the gym?!?!?!?!

LeftInTX

(25,335 posts)
47. A/C not cool enough!!!!!
Tue Aug 22, 2017, 10:37 PM
Aug 2017

That ruins it for me.

I can ignore Fox News cuz I can watch Netflix on my phone.

diva77

(7,643 posts)
49. thanks for sharing your pet peeves, everybody-including ones that shared a little too much info!
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 03:27 AM
Aug 2017

especially #40, 31, 35, and 33!!

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
51. All of the above is why I exercise at home or hike some steep trails we have in national
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 05:54 AM
Aug 2017

recreation areas.

Iggo

(47,552 posts)
56. ...and I know I would do that, because I'm inattentive and rude.
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 11:03 AM
Aug 2017

It's a habit I picked up when I started using an iPod about 10- or 15-ish years ago. I use public transportation a lot every day and being able to listen to what I want instead of the ambient noise is a godsend.

But as an unintended result I can get lost inside my own head. I guess the way to put it would be "I stare like I'm not there."

Over the years I've gotten better at snapping out of it, because it IS creepy.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
55. Using the triceps machine for selfies
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:12 AM
Aug 2017

(There's only one at the gym. Please at least take your selfies on a machine where there's more than one.)

ariadne0614

(1,729 posts)
58. In no particular order:
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 12:16 PM
Aug 2017

1. People who ignore the "No cellphone and/or electronic device use in the locker room" signs posted all over the locker room.
2. People who ignore the "Adults over 18 Only" sign on the door of the adult women's locker room.
3. People who ignore the "Single File Only" sign on the walking track.
4. People who leave their wet towels lying all over the locker room and in the showers instead of dropping them in the bin they have to pass on their way out.
5. Barbell dropping.

beaglelover

(3,484 posts)
60. Agree. They are VERY selfish when they do that. I don't put up with their bullshit and ask them if
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 01:19 PM
Aug 2017

I can work in with them. That usually gets their ass moving.

Neema

(1,151 posts)
63. Any loud and long conversation
Sun Aug 27, 2017, 12:30 AM
Aug 2017

Whether in person or on a cell phone. I'm there to work out and have a hard enough time staying focused without incessant chatter that I can hear over my headphones.

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
69. Crossfitters who think they can tie up six pieces of equipment
Mon Aug 28, 2017, 09:00 PM
Aug 2017

While they do their circuit.


I just move their weight and do my sets. Either join a box or do that shit at 4 am when no one is there

clutterbox1830

(395 posts)
74. Loud Grunters
Wed Aug 30, 2017, 02:56 AM
Aug 2017

Last edited Wed Aug 30, 2017, 04:04 AM - Edit history (1)

There are other pet peeves that have already been mention, but this is one of the top for me.

I get it you are doing a lot of weight for you, but if I can hear you grunting with my earphones on and over 30 feet away, just do less weights. No need to disturb other people.

Also I get annoyed when people who don't put the plates back off the bar when they are done unless the next person waiting says it is ok. If you can lift the bar with the weights on you can put your plates back when done.

sakabatou

(42,152 posts)
75. While I was at the gym
Wed Aug 30, 2017, 03:54 AM
Aug 2017

There was this incredibly loud trainer who would teach classes. It really got on my nerves every time she was there. Thankfully, I now workout at home.

MosheFeingold

(3,051 posts)
76. Many
Wed Aug 30, 2017, 04:26 PM
Aug 2017

people who curl in the squat rack

gyms that don't allow chalk or chains

lack of bumper plates

no area to properly deadlift

people who try to reserve 2 or more pieces of equipment with whatever personalty they bring (e.g., towels)

bro knowledge

people who talk to me in the middle of a set

Yes, I am that strangely strong very old guy at your gym. I do not, however, blow dry my testicles like so many old guys at gyms.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
79. People who watch TV with the sound on too loudly.
Thu Aug 31, 2017, 09:26 AM
Aug 2017

At my apartment complex, we have a small gym with two TVs. I usually watch them (if I do) with the closed captioning on because I usually have headphones as well. Some people don't do that and turn on the sound way too loudly. It's worse when both televisions are tuned to different channels.

Also, kids playing on gym equipment. It's dangerous and annoying. Finally, management put a note on the door reminding folks of the rules and it seems to have stopped.

I don't think that I would pay to belong to a gym anymore. With the internet, there are many options for classes (some free, some not) that I think most people could make their own workouts. If I ever buy a house, I will have one dedicated workout room. Maybe buy a bench and some weights and a treadmill or something.

benld74

(9,904 posts)
81. Back in the 80's my peeves were
Thu Aug 31, 2017, 01:20 PM
Aug 2017

1) having to run through a cloud of perfume floating around the track
2) people not wiping down machines after use
3) people not using correct form
4) guys resting their junk on the sinks in the locker room after showering
5) guys ogling girls to the point of the girls leaving the gym

hunter

(38,312 posts)
83. For a very brief time in my life me and a girlfriend were among the hottest creatures in the gym...
Thu Aug 31, 2017, 05:05 PM
Aug 2017

... and nobody knew how totally fucked up our relationship was. I'd hate to think anybody was envious of us.

She liked girls and was denying it. I was psychotic.

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