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Lauren Chapin, Youngest Child on 'Father Knows Best,' Dies at 80
Lauren Chapin, Youngest Child on ‘Father Knows Best,’ Dies at 80
For six seasons, she was Kathy, a giggly tomboy whose father, played by Robert Young, called her Kitten. Her offscreen life, however, was harrowing.
From left, Ms. Chapin with the other cast members of the sitcom “Father Knows Best”: Jane Wyatt, Robert Young, Elinor Donahue and Billy Gray. The show became one of the quintessential sitcoms of its era. Everett Collection
By Anita Gates
Feb. 25, 2026
Lauren Chapin, an actress who played the youngest of the three wholesome, upbeat, all-American children on the popular 1950s sitcom “Father Knows Best,” but whose personal life was a traumatic contrast to her best-remembered role, died on Tuesday in Miami. She was 80. ... Her death, in a hospital, was confirmed by her daughter, Summer Chapin, who said the cause was cancer.
As she wrote in a well-received memoir, Ms. Chapin was raised by a sexually abusive father and an alcoholic mother who pushed her three children into acting careers. Her life completely fell apart, she said, after “Father Knows Best” went off the air in 1960, and she began to feel like a 14-year-old has-been.
She spent nearly two decades in crises — addicted to heroin, working as a call girl, in prison for check forgery, stints in psychiatric facilities — until she said she became a born-again Christian and evangelical minister. She reportedly raised millions of dollars to help abused children and gave religious testimonials about suffering and endurance. ... “I’m not proud of my past, but in a strange way, I’m thankful for it,” she once said. “If Christ can love a person like I was, he can love anyone. To me, that’s the real message of my past.”
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Ms. Chapin in an undated image for “Father Knows Best.” As Kathy, nicknamed Kitten, she was a bundle of grade-school energy, always observing, frequently making fun and sometimes feeling terribly misunderstood. Everett Collection
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Ms. Chapin and her TV father, Mr. Young, on the cover of TV Guide in 1959. The series “Father Knows Best” rose steadily in the ratings until it was in the top 10 by the end of its six-year run. Everett Collection
After “Father Knows Best” ended, Ms. Chapin saw her career crater. She enrolled at a local high school but often skipped class. ... By the time she was 18, she said, she made several suicide attempts, was married and divorced, and had eight miscarriages. In 1964, she sued her mother for her television earnings, claiming her mother had forced her to sign over all rerun benefits. She later said she never earned any money from syndication.
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Ash Wu and Natasha Rodriguez contributed reporting.
For six seasons, she was Kathy, a giggly tomboy whose father, played by Robert Young, called her Kitten. Her offscreen life, however, was harrowing.
From left, Ms. Chapin with the other cast members of the sitcom “Father Knows Best”: Jane Wyatt, Robert Young, Elinor Donahue and Billy Gray. The show became one of the quintessential sitcoms of its era. Everett Collection
By Anita Gates
Feb. 25, 2026
Lauren Chapin, an actress who played the youngest of the three wholesome, upbeat, all-American children on the popular 1950s sitcom “Father Knows Best,” but whose personal life was a traumatic contrast to her best-remembered role, died on Tuesday in Miami. She was 80. ... Her death, in a hospital, was confirmed by her daughter, Summer Chapin, who said the cause was cancer.
As she wrote in a well-received memoir, Ms. Chapin was raised by a sexually abusive father and an alcoholic mother who pushed her three children into acting careers. Her life completely fell apart, she said, after “Father Knows Best” went off the air in 1960, and she began to feel like a 14-year-old has-been.
She spent nearly two decades in crises — addicted to heroin, working as a call girl, in prison for check forgery, stints in psychiatric facilities — until she said she became a born-again Christian and evangelical minister. She reportedly raised millions of dollars to help abused children and gave religious testimonials about suffering and endurance. ... “I’m not proud of my past, but in a strange way, I’m thankful for it,” she once said. “If Christ can love a person like I was, he can love anyone. To me, that’s the real message of my past.”
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Ms. Chapin in an undated image for “Father Knows Best.” As Kathy, nicknamed Kitten, she was a bundle of grade-school energy, always observing, frequently making fun and sometimes feeling terribly misunderstood. Everett Collection
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Ms. Chapin and her TV father, Mr. Young, on the cover of TV Guide in 1959. The series “Father Knows Best” rose steadily in the ratings until it was in the top 10 by the end of its six-year run. Everett Collection
After “Father Knows Best” ended, Ms. Chapin saw her career crater. She enrolled at a local high school but often skipped class. ... By the time she was 18, she said, she made several suicide attempts, was married and divorced, and had eight miscarriages. In 1964, she sued her mother for her television earnings, claiming her mother had forced her to sign over all rerun benefits. She later said she never earned any money from syndication.
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Ash Wu and Natasha Rodriguez contributed reporting.
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Mon Feb 16, 2026: On February 15, 1947, Rusty Hamer was born.
Rusty Hamer
Hamer and Sherry Jackson in Make Room for Daddy in 1955
Born: Russell Craig Hamer; February 15, 1947; Tenafly, New Jersey, U.S.
Died: January 18, 1990 (aged 42); DeRidder, Louisiana, U.S.
Education: Palisades High School
Occupation: Actor
Years active: 1953–1971
Russell Craig "Rusty" Hamer (February 15, 1947 – January 18, 1990) was an American stage, film and television actor. He portrayed Rusty Williams, the wisecracking son of entertainer Danny Williams (Danny Thomas), on the ABC/CBS situation comedy Make Room for Daddy (later retitled The Danny Thomas Show), from 1953 to 1964. He reprised the role in three reunion specials and the sequel series, Make Room for Granddaddy, which aired on ABC from 1970 to 1971.
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Career
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On December 27, 1966, Hamer underwent emergency surgery at Santa Monica Emergency Hospital after sustaining a gunshot wound to the abdomen when a gun he was carrying in a shoulder holster slid out, fell to the ground and discharged. Hamer was carrying the gun having just returned from an overnight hunting trip. After recovering, he appeared in a second reunion special, "Make More Room For Daddy", that aired during a segment of the NBC anthology series The Danny Thomas Hour, in 1967.
Throughout the mid to late 1960s, Hamer continued to attempt a transition into adult roles and, according to Danny Thomas, enrolled in acting classes, but was unable to land any acting jobs. By the end of the decade, he had grown increasingly bitter and depressed over his waning career. To support himself, he began working for a messenger service in Los Angeles and later worked as a carpenter's apprentice. Hamer's only non-"Rusty Williams" acting role post-1964 was a guest spot on the CBS sitcom Green Acres that aired in November 1969.
Hamer (top left) in 1970 with co-stars in Make Room for Granddaddy.
In 1969, Hamer again reprised his role as Rusty Williams in a third reunion special, Make Room for Granddaddy. The special aired on CBS on September 14. Due to the ratings success of the reunion specials, ABC created a weekly sequel series, also titled Make Room for Granddaddy, for their fall 1970 schedule. The series premiered on September 24, 1970, but failed to catch on with audiences. Make Room for Granddaddy was cancelled after one season. It was Hamer's final acting role.
Later years
In the 1970s, Hamer moved to southwestern Louisiana where he worked on an off-shore oil rig for Exxon and delivered newspapers. In 1976, he relocated to DeRidder, Louisiana, to be closer to his ailing mother, Dorothy, who was suffering from Alzheimer's disease and lived with his elder brother John. After moving to the area, John Hamer had opened a cafe where, in his final years, Rusty Hamer occasionally worked as a short order cook.
In October 1981, Hamer reunited with former co-stars Danny Thomas and Angela Cartwright. The reunion was televised as part of the ABC special What Became Of...?, that aired on October 25.
Death
On the night of January 18, 1990, John Hamer found his brother's body in his trailer home in DeRidder, Louisiana. Hamer had shot himself in the head with a .357 Magnum revolver.
John Hamer later said he believed that his brother had remained bitter over his inability to transition into acting as an adult. He also said he believed that his brother's chronic and debilitating back pain (for which Hamer refused to seek medical treatment) and their mother's illness had contributed to Hamer's depression. He stated:
Hamer's body was cremated and no service was held. His ashes were scattered at sea, three miles off Marina del Rey, California, with the ashes of Tommy Rettig in a combined ceremony after the latter's death in 1996.
Legacy
On February 8, 1960, Hamer was awarded a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame for his work in television. His star is located at 6323 Hollywood Boulevard.
Hamer's suicide raised awareness of the potential mental fragility of child performers and inspired fellow former child actor Paul Petersen, formerly of ABC's The Donna Reed Show, to establish the support group A Minor Consideration. The group seeks to improve working conditions for young actors and assists former child entertainers in making the transition from past fame to adult life.
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Hamer and Sherry Jackson in Make Room for Daddy in 1955
Born: Russell Craig Hamer; February 15, 1947; Tenafly, New Jersey, U.S.
Died: January 18, 1990 (aged 42); DeRidder, Louisiana, U.S.
Education: Palisades High School
Occupation: Actor
Years active: 1953–1971
Russell Craig "Rusty" Hamer (February 15, 1947 – January 18, 1990) was an American stage, film and television actor. He portrayed Rusty Williams, the wisecracking son of entertainer Danny Williams (Danny Thomas), on the ABC/CBS situation comedy Make Room for Daddy (later retitled The Danny Thomas Show), from 1953 to 1964. He reprised the role in three reunion specials and the sequel series, Make Room for Granddaddy, which aired on ABC from 1970 to 1971.
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Career
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On December 27, 1966, Hamer underwent emergency surgery at Santa Monica Emergency Hospital after sustaining a gunshot wound to the abdomen when a gun he was carrying in a shoulder holster slid out, fell to the ground and discharged. Hamer was carrying the gun having just returned from an overnight hunting trip. After recovering, he appeared in a second reunion special, "Make More Room For Daddy", that aired during a segment of the NBC anthology series The Danny Thomas Hour, in 1967.
Throughout the mid to late 1960s, Hamer continued to attempt a transition into adult roles and, according to Danny Thomas, enrolled in acting classes, but was unable to land any acting jobs. By the end of the decade, he had grown increasingly bitter and depressed over his waning career. To support himself, he began working for a messenger service in Los Angeles and later worked as a carpenter's apprentice. Hamer's only non-"Rusty Williams" acting role post-1964 was a guest spot on the CBS sitcom Green Acres that aired in November 1969.
Hamer (top left) in 1970 with co-stars in Make Room for Granddaddy.
In 1969, Hamer again reprised his role as Rusty Williams in a third reunion special, Make Room for Granddaddy. The special aired on CBS on September 14. Due to the ratings success of the reunion specials, ABC created a weekly sequel series, also titled Make Room for Granddaddy, for their fall 1970 schedule. The series premiered on September 24, 1970, but failed to catch on with audiences. Make Room for Granddaddy was cancelled after one season. It was Hamer's final acting role.
Later years
In the 1970s, Hamer moved to southwestern Louisiana where he worked on an off-shore oil rig for Exxon and delivered newspapers. In 1976, he relocated to DeRidder, Louisiana, to be closer to his ailing mother, Dorothy, who was suffering from Alzheimer's disease and lived with his elder brother John. After moving to the area, John Hamer had opened a cafe where, in his final years, Rusty Hamer occasionally worked as a short order cook.
In October 1981, Hamer reunited with former co-stars Danny Thomas and Angela Cartwright. The reunion was televised as part of the ABC special What Became Of...?, that aired on October 25.
Death
On the night of January 18, 1990, John Hamer found his brother's body in his trailer home in DeRidder, Louisiana. Hamer had shot himself in the head with a .357 Magnum revolver.
John Hamer later said he believed that his brother had remained bitter over his inability to transition into acting as an adult. He also said he believed that his brother's chronic and debilitating back pain (for which Hamer refused to seek medical treatment) and their mother's illness had contributed to Hamer's depression. He stated:
He hasn't really been happy since his early 20s. But he didn't show any signs of this happening. It was just all of a sudden. [...] He was a very unhappy, very confused young man. No one does something like that if he isn't confused. I've heard of a lot of child actors who have become unhappy with their lives after they've left the industry.
Hamer's body was cremated and no service was held. His ashes were scattered at sea, three miles off Marina del Rey, California, with the ashes of Tommy Rettig in a combined ceremony after the latter's death in 1996.
Legacy
On February 8, 1960, Hamer was awarded a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame for his work in television. His star is located at 6323 Hollywood Boulevard.
Hamer's suicide raised awareness of the potential mental fragility of child performers and inspired fellow former child actor Paul Petersen, formerly of ABC's The Donna Reed Show, to establish the support group A Minor Consideration. The group seeks to improve working conditions for young actors and assists former child entertainers in making the transition from past fame to adult life.
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Sun Feb 16, 2025: On February 15, 1996, Tommy Rettig died.
Sun Feb 16, 2025: On February 15, 1947, Rusty Hamer was born.
Tue Dec 10, 2024: On this day, December 10, 1941, Tommy Rettig, "Jeff Miller" in the original "Lassie," was born.
tears for all she went through. 
