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TexasTowelie

(112,441 posts)
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 09:10 PM Oct 2018

Dear Abby, My brother and BIL are going to the Trump/Cruz rally in Houston tomorrow.

My BIL paid for tickets and invited my brother since my sister doesn't feel safe because of (antifa, BLM, gay pride activists, women's movement marchers). While I respect my brother's right to participate in the political process, I am not looking forward to the taunting that will occur when he arrives home.

Any ideas how I can diffuse such a horrible situation?

Ugh,

Feeling Blue

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Dear Abby, My brother and BIL are going to the Trump/Cruz rally in Houston tomorrow. (Original Post) TexasTowelie Oct 2018 OP
Bake some "special" brownies for him? n/t gay texan Oct 2018 #1
That might work. TexasTowelie Oct 2018 #3
Well, i wasnt precisely thinking of THOSE sort of brownies gay texan Oct 2018 #7
If I'm going to go to that much trouble baking brownies, TexasTowelie Oct 2018 #8
dear feeling blue, quit associating with losers who disrespect you nt msongs Oct 2018 #2
If only the solution were so simple, but circumstances dictate otherwise. TexasTowelie Oct 2018 #6
Ignore it. underpants Oct 2018 #4
If you get cornered DUgosh Oct 2018 #5
There is already a line for this rally Gothmog Oct 2018 #9
I always tried to avoid lines like that. TexasTowelie Oct 2018 #10
Let him sleep in the boat shed RainCaster Oct 2018 #11
Oh boy, that's a tough one! I've learned to never bring up politics with my Republican brother Rhiannon12866 Oct 2018 #12
Early voting starts today so if I feel up to the bike ride TexasTowelie Oct 2018 #13
That's true! Do they vote? Rhiannon12866 Oct 2018 #14
The BIL calls CNN the Commie News Network and is very political. TexasTowelie Oct 2018 #15
That really does suck, but if they listen to Trump then they're bound to be misinformed Rhiannon12866 Oct 2018 #16
My brother is less likely to know. TexasTowelie Oct 2018 #17
Then there you have it! Rhiannon12866 Oct 2018 #18

TexasTowelie

(112,441 posts)
3. That might work.
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 09:21 PM
Oct 2018

At least I could get out of taunting range if he is making the decrees from the throne.

gay texan

(2,476 posts)
7. Well, i wasnt precisely thinking of THOSE sort of brownies
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 09:49 PM
Oct 2018

However useful!

I was thinking more along the lines of the type that make you feel no pain LOL

you know the ones that make test patterns entertaining

TexasTowelie

(112,441 posts)
8. If I'm going to go to that much trouble baking brownies,
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 09:57 PM
Oct 2018

then I'm going to bake them for myself instead.

I did have a friend from college that made the best GREEN apple muffins though. Homecoming 1999 was kind of special.

TexasTowelie

(112,441 posts)
6. If only the solution were so simple, but circumstances dictate otherwise.
Sun Oct 21, 2018, 09:25 PM
Oct 2018

The last time that I followed your solution was blissful.

TexasTowelie

(112,441 posts)
10. I always tried to avoid lines like that.
Mon Oct 22, 2018, 12:31 AM
Oct 2018

I suspect that they won't get in since they probably won't show up until about noon. My brother will at least get a free meal out of it.

Rhiannon12866

(206,051 posts)
12. Oh boy, that's a tough one! I've learned to never bring up politics with my Republican brother
Mon Oct 22, 2018, 02:33 AM
Oct 2018

It's the only way I can stand to associate with him - as if we didn't have other issues from decades ago. And since there's no telling my brother anything - he has a Masters in political science from Texas, of all places - I don't even try. But I do have one advantage over you, my brother's an agoraphobic so he's unlikely to go to any rallies these days, has to get his politics from the TV.

I'd stick close ti DU and think how satisfying it'll feel when Beto O'Rourke cleans Cruz's clock at the polls - and then you won't have to say a word. It is just a matter of time with Trump, too.

TexasTowelie

(112,441 posts)
13. Early voting starts today so if I feel up to the bike ride
Mon Oct 22, 2018, 02:42 AM
Oct 2018

I might go ahead and get it done. That way when I get taunted from my brother, sister or brother-in-law I can tell them what I did today while they were wasting time at a pep rally.

TexasTowelie

(112,441 posts)
15. The BIL calls CNN the Commie News Network and is very political.
Mon Oct 22, 2018, 02:55 AM
Oct 2018

My brother mostly votes in presidential elections although he has been more active the past 10 years. He used to be apolitical and uninformed. Now he is mostly uninformed. I didn't tell him when there was special congressional election in this district back in June so he missed voting.

Rhiannon12866

(206,051 posts)
16. That really does suck, but if they listen to Trump then they're bound to be misinformed
Mon Oct 22, 2018, 03:01 AM
Oct 2018

Do they know about early voting? If you let on that you already voted then they might just assume that they missed it!

TexasTowelie

(112,441 posts)
17. My brother is less likely to know.
Mon Oct 22, 2018, 03:13 AM
Oct 2018

My BIL and sister may be informed incorrectly most of the time, but they are informed and will see reports on the TV. My brother watches the weather or Fox News on his laptop so he doesn't get as much local news.

Rhiannon12866

(206,051 posts)
18. Then there you have it!
Mon Oct 22, 2018, 03:26 AM
Oct 2018

If he knows you already voted, he just may miss it! And my brother watches The Weather Channel all the time, too! What is it about that? My mother had no idea that 9/11 had happened until she went to pick up her friend since she sat there with my brother watching weather!

No such luck that my brother will miss voting though. No early voting here in New York and that's one of the few reasons he'll leave the house.

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