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w8liftinglady

(23,278 posts)
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 10:06 PM Jun 2012

Am I out of it,or do we need start preaching "Safe Sex" again?

I had my first new diagnosis AIDS patient today.....in a long time.

He buried a lot of friends in the 80's.
He's become complacent recently.
Dallas is seeing an increase in HIV in the 18-26 year-old population.

I feel like no one gives a shit.

There....I feel better.

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Am I out of it,or do we need start preaching "Safe Sex" again? (Original Post) w8liftinglady Jun 2012 OP
I think you are right, complacent is the word. Well, people better wake up. HIV is no joke and GreenPartyVoter Jun 2012 #1
I'm with you. William769 Jun 2012 #2
There's a broad misperception that modern drug therapies have "cured" AIDS. nt TheWraith Jun 2012 #3
+1000! Fearless Jun 2012 #8
Yep, that's what I think too, and the younger population really did not RKP5637 Jun 2012 #14
It's not just the younger population. TheWraith Jun 2012 #17
That's so sad to hear. I've had friends die from AIDS that should have RKP5637 Jun 2012 #18
Unfortunately human nature works against logic. TheWraith Jun 2012 #20
Thank you all.. I was afraid I was being too paranoid :) w8liftinglady Jun 2012 #4
PharmCo ads have convinced ppl it's no big deal. xfundy Jun 2012 #5
Is abstinence "education" used by schools near you? intaglio Jun 2012 #6
yes.This Is Texas. w8liftinglady Jun 2012 #11
By that time they need to start covering how to survive AIDS. What a RKP5637 Jun 2012 #15
I think it's a combination of ignorance and apathy. laconicsax Jun 2012 #7
Thank you for your efforts on this. closeupready Jun 2012 #9
LOL...Let me clarify...this is Texas w8liftinglady Jun 2012 #10
That's kind of shocking. Basic condoms are essentially free here, closeupready Jun 2012 #12
Sorry to hear that. And the trend you mention is troubling, along with the CDC estimate pinto Jun 2012 #13
Going by all the recent warnings over drug resistant hedgehog Jun 2012 #16
Yep, yet another STD to worry about. It amazes me, absolutely amazes me RKP5637 Jun 2012 #19
Absolutely. Jamastiene Jun 2012 #21

GreenPartyVoter

(72,377 posts)
1. I think you are right, complacent is the word. Well, people better wake up. HIV is no joke and
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 10:19 PM
Jun 2012

we are reaching the end of being able to treat other infections like gonorrhea, thanks to antibiotic resistance.

William769

(55,147 posts)
2. I'm with you.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 10:44 PM
Jun 2012

I brought this subject up on last year on DU2 and had some bite my head off.

As someone who nearly died of A.I.D.S. back in 2004. I will shout it from the rooftops if I have to.

When it comes to unsafe sex, please remember, the life you save, may be your own.

Yes I will be a prick on this subject if need be.

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
14. Yep, that's what I think too, and the younger population really did not
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 01:04 PM
Jun 2012

live through the real scare of AIDS, so for them it's probably out of sight, out of mind ... and some may be naive enough to think you just go get a pill or shot, etc. AIDS used to be in the news, etc. all the time, but these days not so much. As you say, there's this misperception that drugs have cured aids.

TheWraith

(24,331 posts)
17. It's not just the younger population.
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 07:04 PM
Jun 2012

I have a friend who was young and gay right through the initial heyday of AIDS in the '80s, but got out uninfected. A couple years ago, he had to be dragged into the hospital half dead in the grip of AIDS-induced dementia. Sure enough, through a little too much carelessness he had gotten infected, and was unaware of it. He was lucky--he survived and he's going to be okay. Or at least as okay as you can be with a suspended death sentence looming over your head, which is about as good as it gets with AIDS.

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
18. That's so sad to hear. I've had friends die from AIDS that should have
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 07:43 PM
Jun 2012

known better. They were always concerned about their health, etc. All it takes is one mistake, too many drinks, etc. not thinking and that's it, AIDS is so very unforgiving.

I wish there were more publicity that AIDS is still with us, and I doubt it's going away anytime soon. I'm not an expert on this, but I believe it morphs easily into another strain making it very difficult to isolate for effective immunization.

TheWraith

(24,331 posts)
20. Unfortunately human nature works against logic.
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 11:45 PM
Jun 2012

Wanting to have a few drinks, wanting to get off, wanting to not care about the future for a night, all those are natural human reactions. And harmless--in the right circumstances. The wrong circumstances make them potentially deadly.

AIDS does have several strains, but it's more the highly unusual nature of how it works that makes it almost impossible to immunize against. Damaging the immune system itself, rather than other cells, results in traditional vaccination not working the way we're used to. I have no doubt that eventually they'll come out with a vaccine, but it might take quite a long time.

w8liftinglady

(23,278 posts)
4. Thank you all.. I was afraid I was being too paranoid :)
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 12:22 AM
Jun 2012

with a true come-to-jesus on catching aids....again,....like my sweet patient this weekend,He's buried friends,

xfundy

(5,105 posts)
5. PharmCo ads have convinced ppl it's no big deal.
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 01:24 AM
Jun 2012

Yes, safe or safer sex still needs to be a priority.

OT, I always love to see your posts, THANKS for your efforts!

w8liftinglady

(23,278 posts)
11. yes.This Is Texas.
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 11:20 AM
Jun 2012

My friend offered to teach safe sex to 5th grade boys in Dallas County.he was turned down.They do not begin sexual education until the 10th grade.

http://blogs.dallasobserver.com/unfairpark/2011/11/this_week_in_awful_public_heal.php

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
15. By that time they need to start covering how to survive AIDS. What a
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 01:49 PM
Jun 2012

dismal lack of maturity this country often displays. Often I don't think parts of this country have gotten beyond the 50's.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
9. Thank you for your efforts on this.
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 09:54 AM
Jun 2012
Lost three of my best friends to that scourge.

I'm curious, though, about how you asked the question - I don't think anyone stopped preaching safe sex, so what do you mean by 'start again'?

And I think everyone 'gives a shit', but as young people come of age, the need for safe sex education is constantly renewed, so until a cure is found (and likely even after it is found), educating sexually active people about safe sex will always be needed.

w8liftinglady

(23,278 posts)
10. LOL...Let me clarify...this is Texas
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 11:11 AM
Jun 2012

Schools are forbidden on teaching safe sex until 10th grade.
Condoms are expensive and not easily available to men and women.
Even in Oak Lawn,there's a little undercurrent of unsafe sex....especially through the younger gay community...men and women.It's going to take something like ACT UP to get the education out.

We are seeing an increaase in high school kids with new diagnoses



http://blog.chron.com/momhouston/2012/06/rise-in-youth-hiv-cases-found-in-austin/

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
12. That's kind of shocking. Basic condoms are essentially free here,
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 11:23 AM
Jun 2012

there's typically a big bucket full of free condoms at every public gathering spot where gay people go, plus HIV-awareness promotional ads and displays.

pinto

(106,886 posts)
13. Sorry to hear that. And the trend you mention is troubling, along with the CDC estimate
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 12:53 PM
Jun 2012

that 20-25% of folks with HIV aren't aware they're infected. That's been steady for quite a while. It's the "awareness wall" HIV Education / Prevention / Testing programs have run up against nation wide.

Testing isn't an easy decision for many, but I have seen safe sex and safer IDU become standard in a lot of folks personal lives. Peer support often seems key...

Hang in there and thanks for your work.

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
16. Going by all the recent warnings over drug resistant
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 02:50 PM
Jun 2012

gonorrhea, I'd say the entire world needs a new round of training in safe sex!

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
19. Yep, yet another STD to worry about. It amazes me, absolutely amazes me
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 07:49 PM
Jun 2012

how many try to repress sex education in this country. I just don't get it, it's sooo damn ignorant. Often I swear we're back in the 50's, and right back there is where a lot of people want to take us. Just another WTF moment. What are they afraid of, why is sex education such a horrible thing in this supposedly advance country.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
21. Absolutely.
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 12:40 PM
Jun 2012

If we can save people from getting HIV/AIDS, it would be worth it. We have lost far too many people.

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