The Brief Life And Complicated Death Of Tommy Lasorda's Gay Son

[Ganja Ninja]

Originally published in the October 1992 issue of GQ, as "Tangled Up in Blue." A postscript from the author follows.

Nighttime in Los Angeles, on a quiet street off Melrose Avenue. An otherwise normal evening is marked by an oddly whimsical celestial

disturbance: Baseballs are falling out of the sky.

They are coming from the roof of a gray apartment building. One ball pocks an adjacent apartment. Another bounces to the street. A third flies off into the night, a mighty shot.

This is West Hollywood in the early eighties, where anything is not only possible but likely. West Hollywood shakes its head and drives on by.

But if a passerby's curiosity had been piqued and he'd climbed to the roof of a neighboring building to divine the source of the show, he would have been rewarded by a most unusual sight: a man of striking looks, with long blond hair, startlingly and wincingly thin, hitting the ball with a practiced swing—a flat, smooth, even stroke developed during a youth spent in minor-league towns from Pocatello to Albuquerque.

This is not Tommy Lasorda Jr.'s, routine nighttime activity. A routine night is spent in the clubs, the bright ones and dark ones alike.

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This is a very long article and a great read on the tragic death of Tommy Lasorda's son and his inability to face the truth.

From the post Script:

Ultimately, I wrote the piece confident that it would advance the cause. I was wrong. Two decades later? No vaccine. More locker-room enlightenment about gays in sports? Despite current events, ultimately, no. In corporate sportsworld, talking the talk is very different from walking the walk. As a for-profit goliath, fed by young men who learn homophobia at an early age, governed by men who were themselves raised in a primitive society, Big Sport's seeds of gender-preference bias have been sown very, very deeply, and uprooting them is going to take more than a story or two and more than a handful of men who come out every few years. It's going to take loud voices and even louder fury. It's funny that Tommy cites Magic, isn't it? The man who earlier this month spoke so wonderfully of his pride in his gay son? I couldn't help wondering what Tommy Sr. thought when heard about how Magic was so supportive of his son. I wonder if he even listened.

[Lex]

1. Just wanted to say I enjoyed reading this article.

Very sad, something I didn't know. Well-written.