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WATCH: 8-YEAR-OLD TRANS BOY’S EPIC COMING-OUT RAP GOES VIRAL (Original Post) William769 Nov 2014 OP
Something in my EYE, dammit... n/t TygrBright Nov 2014 #1
Happens every time desertdevil Nov 2014 #13
Sorry folks. Some adult wrote this. The kid, trans or not, is a pawn. Joe Magarac Nov 2014 #2
What the fuck are you talking about? William769 Nov 2014 #3
Excuse me! sheshe2 Nov 2014 #4
"You have so little faith in the ability of a child to have a mind of their own? To think feel and nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #7
I don't think you meant that comment to me, nomorenomore08. sheshe2 Nov 2014 #8
I was agreeing with you. That's why it was a response to your post. nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #15
Thanks no more~ sheshe2 Nov 2014 #16
THIS is an example of video child abuse. rocktivity Nov 2014 #14
ugh.. I'm glad I missed that post but Voice for Peace Nov 2014 #25
I caught the part where he said his mom helped him write the song Kalidurga Nov 2014 #18
you are an ignoramous demigoddess Nov 2014 #21
I love Alex. sheshe2 Nov 2014 #5
Don't thank me, thank Alex. William769 Nov 2014 #6
Courage... sheshe2 Nov 2014 #9
Alex. You are amazing! sheshe2 Nov 2014 #10
What a fabulous (and talented) child! theHandpuppet Nov 2014 #11
Couldn't agree more. William769 Nov 2014 #12
that kid is awesome!! BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2014 #17
I don't believe ANY 8 year old knows ebbie15644 Nov 2014 #19
I knew when I was 8 years old..but Skarbrowe Nov 2014 #20
This is not aboue sexual orientation Boomer Nov 2014 #22
And there are many more stories like this one. William769 Nov 2014 #23
This is about gender, not "what sex they are interested in" but who they are genderwise. uppityperson Nov 2014 #24
I knew I was a Lesbian burrowowl Nov 2014 #27
wonderful! Voice for Peace Nov 2014 #26
 

Joe Magarac

(297 posts)
2. Sorry folks. Some adult wrote this. The kid, trans or not, is a pawn.
Wed Nov 12, 2014, 10:31 PM
Nov 2014

And the video is child abuse.

There is no cause good enough to justify using children in this way.

Yes I know right wingers do it all the time. Is that supposed to make it OK?

sheshe2

(83,791 posts)
4. Excuse me!
Thu Nov 13, 2014, 12:34 AM
Nov 2014

WTF are you talking about? The child is a pawn?

He is in camp Aranu'tig that helps children know themselves and be themselves. You have so little faith in the ability of a child to have a mind of there own? To think feel and know who they are?

http://www.camparanutiq.org/about-us

If you have a problem with it then that is your problem, not the childs.

Give a child a chance to learn and grow. It is about them and damn well not about you.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
7. "You have so little faith in the ability of a child to have a mind of their own? To think feel and
Thu Nov 13, 2014, 01:18 AM
Nov 2014

know who they are?"

So it would seem.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
18. I caught the part where he said his mom helped him write the song
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 02:12 AM
Nov 2014

and you have a really weird idea about what child abuse is. Having actually been abused as a child I am quite certain this is not abuse. I am glad you said sorry. I accept your apology in advance.

demigoddess

(6,641 posts)
21. you are an ignoramous
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:38 PM
Nov 2014

intelligent children are much more aware than you think. Unintelligent children are way ahead of you in understanding how things are. I have a severely retarded daughter who could teach you a few things. grow up.

sheshe2

(83,791 posts)
5. I love Alex.
Thu Nov 13, 2014, 12:39 AM
Nov 2014

The true love and strength of his family is so incredibly awesome. You stifle a child, then they wither. You let them loose then then soar!

I so love this. He is who he should be~

Thank you Bill!

William769

(55,147 posts)
6. Don't thank me, thank Alex.
Thu Nov 13, 2014, 12:51 AM
Nov 2014

He's the one that has the courage. When I was that age I would have been mortified. We've come a long way since then.

sheshe2

(83,791 posts)
9. Courage...
Thu Nov 13, 2014, 01:25 AM
Nov 2014

As the times change, so does the courage of people like Alex and his mom. to them~

William

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
17. that kid is awesome!!
Thu Nov 13, 2014, 09:17 PM
Nov 2014

And how perfect that he has parents who can love and support. And listen, and guide.

Since many would say he's lucky or blessed, I'll say--In Buddhist thinking, he planned and prepared over many lifetimes to be in this place now with these people and challenges ....how awesome!

ebbie15644

(1,215 posts)
19. I don't believe ANY 8 year old knows
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 11:17 AM
Nov 2014

what sex they are interested in for sure at this point in their life. If he was older I'd be the first to say cool

Skarbrowe

(1,083 posts)
20. I knew when I was 8 years old..but
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 01:20 PM
Nov 2014

I didn't actually know what it was I knew. All I did know was that I would get crushes on my brother's girlfriends ( he was 8 years older than me) and when not in school I told my mother to buy me nothing but boys jeans and boys t-shirts. I knew. From my body shape, I assumed I got cooked differently inside my mom's womb. Ha! I had narrow hips, muscular legs and very wide shoulders for a girl. So, by eight years old, it was obvious to me and all who were around me that I was more boy than girl. People just didn't discuss that stuff back then.

I did end up being as feminine as I could by the time I reached my teen age years. Also, I never, ever thought of becoming a man. Still don't. Suppose I'm of the age of a "nothing" now. Still get called "sir" all the time and I have medium length hair and I just bum around like a crazy Floridian. Pastel shirts and lose shorts and I'll still get called "sir".

I congratulate this kid and his ( did I get that right..he's F to M?) family and friends for being supportive. If you can start living the life you are destined to live as early as possible, that gives you so much more time to be as happy as life will allow you to be.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
22. This is not aboue sexual orientation
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 05:31 PM
Nov 2014

Children become aware of gender early, in the 4-6 year old range. Their identification as boy or girl is about their view of themselves. One of the hallmark signs of being transgendered is this early recognition that you're "in the wrong body."

So this child is right on schedule for recognizing his own gender. The wonder is that he felt loved enough to share that knowledge with adults; most transgendered individuals keep that to themselves, sometimes for decades, and many for the entirety of their lives.

ETA: keep in mind that no one is asking a kid to make a life-binding decision about their gender. Transitioning at that age is simply changing your name, the pronoun people reference you with and clothing/styling. None of those are permanent irreversible changes, they are just cosmetics. There's a good 10 years or more for this young boy to change his mind and proceed in life as a girl once more.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
24. This is about gender, not "what sex they are interested in" but who they are genderwise.
Sun Nov 16, 2014, 11:20 PM
Nov 2014

I knew I was a girl by then, when did you recognize you were a boy or girl?

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
26. wonderful!
Mon Nov 17, 2014, 02:22 PM
Nov 2014

That camp must be great, or the parents, or all of it.
That's a kid with really good self esteem.

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