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Lets Talk About The Feminine Mystique, 50 Years After Its Debut: Are You Really Better Off Than Your Grandmother?
Believe it or not, its been 50 years since Betty Friedans The Feminine Mystique hit shelves. The book is credited with bringing second-wave feminism to the national spotlight, sparking women to rethink traditional gender roles. So how have womens lives changed since then? Lets take a look.
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A few things that still havent changed
or have even gotten worse:
1
Women work morebut boy, is it hard sometimes. The United States lags embarrassingly far behind the rest of the world when it comes to guaranteeing paid maternity leave (i.e., we dont have any, while women in other nations around the world, from Pakistan to Mexico to Canada, are guaranteed between 12 weeks and a year). We need paid leave for new mothers and fathers as well as quality subsidized child care so that when the 50 percent of families with two earners and the 26 percent of single parents need to get back to work, there are options available. Most important, we need to begin thinking of work-life balance not as a womans problem but as a human problem. Without that, well never have as many women as men in politics, in boardrooms, in research labs, or in other important fields.
2
Weve turned mothering into a competitive sport. Women are expected to research every aspect of parentingstrollers, naps, nutrition, sleep habitsfrom the moment they get pregnant. Researchers have found that todays motherseven the ones who work full time outside the homenow actually clock more hours with their kids than back in the days when Friedan wrote about the stranglehold of child care. Time for yourself? Forget it.
3
Our access to reproductive care is under siege. In states all over the country, lawmakers are trying to define life as beginning at conceptionwhich would make many forms of birth control illegaland to basically make abortion, which has been legal in all 50 states since 1973, unavailable. Our ability to control when and with whom we have a family is at the root of our ability to work, to earn money, to love, and to play on equal footing as men. When our reproductive freedom is compromised, so is our equality as citizens.
4
The wage gap persists. Today women earn 77 percent of what men doup from 59 percent in 1963, it must be saidand the numbers are far worse for women of color. That wage gap and other factorslike the time women still spend doing unpaid caregiving and the interruption of earning for pregnancymean that American women of every race are more likely than men to live in poverty.
http://www.glamour.com/inspired/2013/02/the-feminine-mystique-50-years-after-its-debut
Helen Reddy
(998 posts)who was a *bra-burning-feminist (really! I have a photo) back in the 70's told her, "You have to burn the candle at both ends to compete with men."
My partner said to her, "Smart women burn their candle only at one end."
niyad
(113,323 posts)as men to be considered half as competent. fortunately, this is not difficult"
and 3. .2. .1
Helen Reddy
(998 posts)Actually, digging deep in my memory hole, your quote is probably what was said.
eeecks
niyad
(113,323 posts)Helen Reddy
(998 posts)oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)I was really fortunate to ride the crest. Yep, I worked. And I got something for it. My grandma scrubbed coal dust off her porch each spring. I am grateful for my life.
niyad
(113,323 posts)oldandhappy
(6,719 posts)marybourg
(12,631 posts)to marry up. But . . . I'm the age of the grandmothers of many here. I lived in a "golden" time right after WWII: good schools, low crime, free higher education, the 60's!!, legal abortion, Elvis Presley, feminism, opportunity to become a professional, no work stress, health insurance, pension, social security and a veteran's cemetery at the end.