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niyad

(113,587 posts)
Fri Jul 31, 2015, 12:40 PM Jul 2015

I知 Standing With Planned Parenthood Because I知 Angry About the Sexism of the Anti-Choice Movement

I’m Standing With Planned Parenthood Because I’m Angry About the Sexism of the Anti-Choice Movement



Pro-life? Your name’s a lie! You don’t care if women die! We chanted this over and over again while counter-protesting the anti-choice “#WomenBetrayed” rally on Capitol Hill. I wasn’t sure why, but tears started to form in my eyes, and I felt a kind of frustration deep in my stomach that I previously didn’t know existed. I was angry.




I was angry at the aggressive, anti-choice student who shoved cameras into my personal space as a way to intimidate me and keep me silent. I was angry at the protestors who dragged their children through the D.C. heat in the middle of the day to yell and scream about a clearly falsified video. I was angry at the people who claimed to be pro-life, when they were really anti-woman.

Nowhere was this misogyny clearer than in the sexist ways we were treated by the anti-choice protestors. Most telling was one woman who sneered at the interns, telling our bosses to “stop manipulating these girls.” Girls. That word stuck in my head. I was taken aback. We were not a group of girls. We were an organized protest of young, fearless, strong women; women who have the ability to make ethical, informed decisions about our bodies and lives; women who have taken it upon ourselves to make sure people across the country can have access to quality, affordable healthcare.

But she saw us as “girls.” And that proves to me, once again, that the anti-choice movement is not here to serve the interest of women. Instead, this movement infantilizes women, and views us as girls, or people who are unable to make decisions about our healthcare, sexuality, and bodies. I might be a young woman, but I am old enough to make decisions about the issues that matter most to me. I am old enough to know my healthcare decisions should belong in my hands.

So, to the woman who yelled at my internship supervisor to “stop manipulating these girls,” I respond:I am not a girl, but a woman. I am a woman who cares about other women. I am a woman who believes women can be trusted with their medical decisions. I am a woman who has thought deeply about ethical issues, and has decided the prosperity and lives of women, especially low-income women, are far more important than any right-wing political rhetoric that can be spouted at me with the aid of graphic, misleading signs and false data.

I am a pro-choice woman who will not stand for these injustices.



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I知 Standing With Planned Parenthood Because I知 Angry About the Sexism of the Anti-Choice Movement (Original Post) niyad Jul 2015 OP
All Americans must make a stand...this is actual life and death. AllFieldsRequired Jul 2015 #1
One doesn't even need to be angry to stand with Planned Parenthood. Maedhros Jul 2015 #2
and to care about women niyad Jul 2015 #3
Indeed! Caring for women in our society should be a given. Maedhros Jul 2015 #4
alas, good sense seems to be in very short supply these days. niyad Jul 2015 #5
Lack of sense is what angers me most about Conservatives. Maedhros Jul 2015 #6
you are quite correct. imagine the nerve of women thinking they have the right to control niyad Jul 2015 #7
Powerful women are a threat to the small minded Novara Jul 2015 #8
sadly, you are quite correct. niyad Jul 2015 #9
 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
2. One doesn't even need to be angry to stand with Planned Parenthood.
Fri Jul 31, 2015, 01:02 PM
Jul 2015

One just needs to be pragmatic.

However, anger is justified.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
4. Indeed! Caring for women in our society should be a given.
Fri Jul 31, 2015, 01:07 PM
Jul 2015

My point is that Planned Parenthood serves a valuable purpose and is demonstrably a positive factor - regardless of which sub-human Conservative group attacks it, supporting Planned Parenthood just makes good sense.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
6. Lack of sense is what angers me most about Conservatives.
Fri Jul 31, 2015, 01:44 PM
Jul 2015

They tell women that they can't terminate an unwanted pregnancy, while at the same time working to make contraceptives harder to get.

Of course, the reason for this is that they don't really care about "unborn children" - what really gets their goat is the idea of women having sex on their own terms.

niyad

(113,587 posts)
7. you are quite correct. imagine the nerve of women thinking they have the right to control
Fri Jul 31, 2015, 01:48 PM
Jul 2015

their own lives.

Novara

(5,852 posts)
8. Powerful women are a threat to the small minded
Fri Jul 31, 2015, 01:52 PM
Jul 2015

So they want to keep women powerless to control their own lives.

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