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Maraya1969

(23,484 posts)
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:08 PM 7 hrs ago

I am going on March 5 for spinal surgery. The pain

Has moved into my hip and I get shooting stabbing pains. The problem I’m having right today is I can’t even put the slightest amount of weight on it without getting the stabbing pains and I’m pretty much by myself here although I do have somebody staying here but she has been such a bitch She gets mad at the slightest things and storms off to her side of the house. She is just staying here for free and is supposed to help me.

What I’m wondering now is if anybody knows of a bandage or something that could help me walk at least to the kitchen and back into the bathroom and back. I have a cane and I’m using dad but that’s not enough.

I am taking Norco, which is Vicodin intense and I’m spraying Biofreeze on it regularly

Oh I also have a few of those wine thingies that look like milk cartons. I am just sipping on them, but they do seem to take the edge off a little.

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I am going on March 5 for spinal surgery. The pain (Original Post) Maraya1969 7 hrs ago OP
Sorry for your pain. If your living accommodations are made by yourself you should ask the "flatmate" to leave... wcmagumba 7 hrs ago #1
This might not be the kind of bandage you are looking for MadameButterfly 7 hrs ago #2
There are various types of commode wheelchairs markodochartaigh 6 hrs ago #3
I'm sorry for your pain and hope your surgery is successful. Have you tried LoisB 6 hrs ago #4
Sounds so tough. Dear_Prudence 6 hrs ago #5

wcmagumba

(5,945 posts)
1. Sorry for your pain. If your living accommodations are made by yourself you should ask the "flatmate" to leave...
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:16 PM
7 hrs ago

Maybe you can make arrangements through your insurance and other home health services for someone else to either stay with you or check in on you. If you have a church affiliation maybe they have someone who can assist you...Please stay safe and know others on DU are thinking of you...

MadameButterfly

(3,938 posts)
2. This might not be the kind of bandage you are looking for
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:23 PM
7 hrs ago

but my serious back pain was relieved by reading Dr. John Sarno's "Healing Back Pain". And following it's advice, of course.
It's a quick read and you have time before your surgery; it can't hurt.

LoisB

(12,703 posts)
4. I'm sorry for your pain and hope your surgery is successful. Have you tried
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 07:55 PM
6 hrs ago

CBD oil for the pain? Maybe your doctor's office can suggest a home health aid or direct you to a service provider.

Dear_Prudence

(1,140 posts)
5. Sounds so tough.
Wed Feb 25, 2026, 08:16 PM
6 hrs ago

I got a "Cordless heating pad for back pain relief" from Amazon. It wraps around and fastens with Velcro, which provides some support. It also vibrates, which isn't much help. I also use a cane, either correctly at my side, or incorrectly by moving it along in front of me, like a one-legged walker, when I need additional support. My pain is very minor compared to what you are experiencing, so I don't know if these small suggestions can help. I hope you get some relief soon.

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