I chatted with Koz & got permission from him to say this

[irisblue]

This is my paraphrasing BTW.

He seems to be doing ok with the life changes that he & Little Bit are going thru as parent/disabled child and his awareness that he is aging& has health issues as well. Aging sucks.

Still & all, support from DUers is important, I hope he can get some of what he needs in these rooms.


*(Also for my own issues with my trying to be Ms FixIt For Others, I'm going to step back a bit. It is too easy for me to become over involved)*

[BlackSkimmer]

1. Good to hear this!

I hope he's getting medical support for his dementia, his stroke and his alcohol issues. He needs to take care of himself or he'll be no good for her.

He said he was going to let her go into state care...has that changed?

[kozar]

3. Great question at end,

Feel free to shoot me a DU email, and I will answer as many questions and concerns as I can.
I don’t wanna sound bitchy, but,
Truly, BlackSkimmer, I feel it was unfair to irisblue to post this to her post .
You could have sent me same in DU email.

Koz

[BlackSkimmer]

4. I don't think iris blue posted anything that you had not already posted.

She's trying to help.

[kozar]

5. Yep and she did

I answered your post in DU mssg…exactly what you should have done.

Peace

Koz

[BlackSkimmer]

6. I'm sorry, I rarely message people here.

And I've received none from you.

[BlackSkimmer]

8. Dude, I'm sorry, and there's no need to be hostile.

I have no message.

[BlackSkimmer]

9. I don't understand why I would answer irisblue's OP in a pm?

I don't pm people in response to OPs. Who would?

She said she had your permission to post an update. I responded, as have others.

[Inkey]

2. Thank you for the update !

From what I have read from Koz, this has been
rough couple of years for him and his daughter .
I wish them both the best.