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Feeling very weighed down (Original Post) cilla4progress May 2023 OP
This message was self-deleted by its author mopinko May 2023 #1
Stop listening snowybirdie May 2023 #2
You are not alone. CrispyQ May 2023 #3
Thanks everyone cilla4progress May 2023 #4
I am... 2naSalit May 2023 #5
I'm still working in an emotionally demanding field cilla4progress May 2023 #6
Oh dear. 2naSalit May 2023 #7
You said it! I'm right there with ya... FirstLight May 2023 #8
Thanks very much, cilla4progress May 2023 #9
Fight the good fight with all of your might (then, at 9PM I watch applegrove May 2023 #10
Thanks. cilla4progress May 2023 #11
For what it is worth... OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #12

Response to cilla4progress (Original post)

snowybirdie

(5,682 posts)
2. Stop listening
Tue May 2, 2023, 04:49 PM
May 2023

to news reports. They wear everyone down. Try and get outside and walk. Read or listen to a good book. That helps me when its way too much to bear.

CrispyQ

(38,543 posts)
3. You are not alone.
Tue May 2, 2023, 05:02 PM
May 2023
No matter how cynical I get I can't keep up. -Lily Tomlin


My best reset is going outside. DU toons help, too!

https://democraticunderground.com/100217876432



2naSalit

(93,327 posts)
5. I am...
Tue May 2, 2023, 05:06 PM
May 2023

In a seeming perpetual state of weighed down. Thankfully, Spring showed up last week - it literally happens overnight here, and I have spent most of my time involved in putting out a small garden because I can't live without flowers and some veggies would be nice too. I am feeling a bit less bogged down in the political mire by getting outside and limiting my exposure to the news for now. My therapist likes that idea as a diversion from the dregs of life in these times.

cilla4progress

(25,972 posts)
6. I'm still working in an emotionally demanding field
Tue May 2, 2023, 05:29 PM
May 2023

at age 68. I had hoped to continue for a couple more years. Don't know if I will make it!

2naSalit

(93,327 posts)
7. Oh dear.
Tue May 2, 2023, 05:41 PM
May 2023

I am thankful I was able to get disability and stop beating my body and bones to pulp. I would have dropped dead by now if I hadn't.

I hope you are able to hang in there if you need to. But if you can't, don't kill yourself trying to do something you can't.

FirstLight

(14,302 posts)
8. You said it! I'm right there with ya...
Tue May 2, 2023, 05:52 PM
May 2023

It's partially personal life stuff...my elderly dad is fading, teens are now 20's and struggling to "adult" and I can't help either way.

Part of it is definitely headlines. I stopped watching news, even Rachel, a whle back because it wasn't wrth raising my blood pressure.

I just feel the heavyness of this world, like we are SO close to everything just going to hell.

Outside helps. My pets help. Making stupid jokes with my partner helps.

we're all in this together!

applegrove

(123,585 posts)
10. Fight the good fight with all of your might (then, at 9PM I watch
Tue May 2, 2023, 08:15 PM
May 2023

decor or real estate shows as a way to relax). You are appreciated but you have to take care of yourself.

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