I can't stop crying!!!!

[BigmanPigman]

I haven't cried like this since my dog died. I saw the video of the murder again just now and I have been sobbing in a fetal position on my floor crying, "Why won't they stop doing this to us" over and over and over. My carpet is moist from my tears. It has taken me 10 minutes to even write this post. I can't stop crying!!!!!!

I think I am having a mental breakdown.

[LoisB]

1. Your angst is understandable. Keep hope alive.

[BigmanPigman]

2. I'm having difficulty breathing.

I think I'm hyperventilating or something. I can't breath.

[LoisB]

10. Breathe in through your nose, out through your mouth. Breathe. Don't hesitate

to call 911.

[BigmanPigman]

14. You're right.

I learned how to do breathing and mindfulness techniques since I have always had anxiety and it REALLY does help.

[oldtime dfl_er]

3. You are human

You have compassion. Unlike those who committed these crimes.

You are a human being. Bless you.

[alittlelark]

4. It's not a mental breakdown

It’s a normal human reaction to a ghastly event……

[CountAllVotes]

5. I've been very ill

My health is poor.
Very sick the past few days.
and diverticulitis going full blast.
Throw in a fall or two.
We are experiencing the pain of the earth.

[BigmanPigman]

6. I just threw up...no wonder I'm only 83 pounds. tRump is killing me and all of us.

I told my doctor this would happen and it is. I know myself, my body and my disposition. It's inevitable. I am not going to make it to the midterms. I won't make it for 30 more days at this rate. I have learned how to deal with political BS but this is too much for me. My sanity seems to be crumbling rapidly.

[CountAllVotes]

11. I'm so sorry

I hear you. I've lost a lot of weight too. I cannot swallow solid food.

This sickening world we are in is the cause.

No love, no respect. Just hatred and others trying to live my life.

We need to escape to a private resort somewhere!

for you.

[BigmanPigman]

15. I'm hoping to reincarnate on a different planet. Earth sucks!

[Keepthesoulalive]

7. Is there someone you can call to help you cope with this trauma

Please stop looking at videos of this tragedy, looking at it repeatedly does not desensitize you it is making it worse. Please reach out to someone who can help you process this.

[BigmanPigman]

16. Actually, I have been listening to podcasts

like Meidas since MSM is not welcomed into my home. I have seen videos of the murder briefly and not very clearly. I think I have been trying to protect myself to a degree.

Maybe that's why when I actually sat still for 2 whole minutes tonight and saw it on Larwrence's MS NOW show I completely lost it. The dams broke.

[Keepthesoulalive]

23. Everyday with this degenerate is a new horror

And we are all trying to keep our sanity. I have to take prescription anti nausea medication because of the stress and anxiety, I am aware of what this is doing to my mental and physical health so I am trying to focus on regaining control of my anxiety. We can’t let this idiot destroy us and the best revenge will be partying when he takes the dirt nap. Please try and find something that brings you joy, plants, movies, tv shows anything that will take your mind off the current situation. The beauty of DU is there are always like minded people willing to help.

[Hope22]

8. I see and hear you.

My words fail me but know that you aren’t alone. So many of us out here feel this pain. These tragic times are a test for sure. We have to stick together. Be easy with yourself. Your insight and care make you the person you are. Love to you. 💗🙏🏼

[Dear_Prudence]

9. Maybe an anxiety attack.

1. Breathe in thru the nose. Out thru the mouth. Tune into your environment with your senses. The pressure of the carpeted floor on your body. The sounds of your house. Something you see; its color, texture, it's distance from your hand. 2. Become immersed in a distracting activity. Browse Amazon books. Browse your library website. (I get these kind of attacks. Maybe these practices won't work for you, but I am offering all I've got. Take care.)

[BigmanPigman]

17. You're describing "mindfulness".

Now I can't stop The Beatles playing "Dear Prudence" in my head on a loop. That song is about Mia Farrow's sister.

Everything you just suggested works!!! Since I have always been anxious I've learned various techniques in order to manage it. It is quite a challenge. I'd kill for a Xanax Rx.

Mindfulness teaches you to just STOP for a minute, breathe deeply and to focus on the reality of a situation and not spiral out of control in a nanosecond.

[JudyM]

28. Ever try ashwaghanda?

I got ashwaghanda gummies for my mom's anxiety and they worked like a charm, she appreciated the quick relief so much.

[orangecrush]

12. You aren't alone.

[Sector 001]

13. Take a break from social media

Turn out all the lights, get in bed and listen to some soothing music. Let your thoughts turn to happier times.

I sometimes watch videos of puppies and kittens to relax.
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Puppies+and+kittens

[BigmanPigman]

18. That's what I did.

I tried not to play Pink Floyd's "Empty Spaces" video live on #11 for 20 minutes so my neighbors won't complain. It helped me a lot!

[William Seger]

19. I have a son who is about Pretti's age and is an ICU nurse with the same desire as Pretti to help people

... and I can easily imagine him being so upset about how that woman was thrown to the ground that he'd try to protect her from those goons. So, yeah, this has been so personally upsetting to me that I haven't been able to post about it.

[orleans]

22. the fact that you haven't been able to post about it is very understandable

[Shellback Squid]

20. hang in

[usonian]

21. Control what you can control. Influence and encourage those you can influence and encourage.

DU is on overload by reflecting a piece of reality, small but very important.

You have limited control. We all do. Try to make some positive contribution each day.

I pick up the vibes from the concentration on politics, and my answer today was to post a very long email from Indivisible, fixing and checking all the links. Eyes on the Prize.

I am a very sensitive person and cannot watch these videos. I avoid videos, because I can "see" without seeing, and I read "The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich" as a very young person and was horrified just by the reading.

Please find an outlet for your understandable feelings.

I try to post action items. So I wander a bit.
But I do try to post one a day if I can.

I actually have a backlog of altruistic projects. I was looking for a way to connect helpful things for my family and friends and with the larger community. I believe that is taking shape.

If I spend a bit less time on DU. It's not so much FOMO (I have a bit of tech FOMO with Hacker News, but I pick up immensely valuable tech tips there. Just solved a computer problem that way). but Fear of not doing enough for this, the most important cause one could imagine --- saving lives from a nazi death machine --- which was started by the "need" to cover up the largest sex, blackmail and money laundering scheme in the history of the world.

Get to root causes, make them known. Demand answers.
I have disks full of mostly home-made graphics to advance that cause.

Is it just to make me feel good? Honestly, I hope that one or more will take off from here and make a difference.

Peace.

[Duncanpup]

24. I understand what you're feeling.

Hugs to you.

[EuterpeThelo]

25. Being an empath

is a curse and a blessing. I understand how you feel. The weight of all of this is just too much to bear sometimes. We can try to engage in self-care, touching grass, finding community and all the other platitudes, but at the end of the day there's no denying that this horrid timeline onto which we've somehow slid just flat out SUCKS. I'm sorry you're hurting. No words can help but know that you are seen and supported here.

[mahina]

26. Oh honey

I hope your heart finds some comfort. It is all so hideous and brutal and cruel.

I am hugging my dog and watching sweet Japanese films. Breathing with you. Drink water, breathe deep, try to get some sleep, walk, we have. to live through this darkness. For Alex.

sending you love and aloha

[LetMyPeopleVote]

27. We all understand your angst

I watched Lawrence show two different videos of this murder last night and I was very upset