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Marthe48

(16,963 posts)
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 09:20 PM Dec 2022

What food is essential to make your holiday the holiday?

I'm glad to be aware of all of the holidays at this time of year. I celebrate Christmas, friends celebrate other holidays, especially Hanukkah. I've been talking with my daughters, neighbors and friends about who is going to make what cookies and other goodies we will each bake. I probably wouldn't have to bake at all, but I make cookie plates for several friends and neighbors. Most of my stuff will go on those plates. We've got most of the sweets decided. We're having a family gathering early, and we have a lot of that planned. I've been making baklava for over 30 years. I used to alternate between baklava and ragulach, but the baklava won. I'll make teacakes, rumballs, and almond flour gingerbread. Because of the family get together, we'll have ham, potato salad, and lots of snacks.

I think mixed nuts is the constant for my Christmas. We had them every year when we grew up. Up until the last few years, I would get mixed nuts in the shell, and we'd have plenty of nut crackers around. Always a rite of passage for the little kids, a triumph when they found an elusive pecan, or cracked a Brazil nut and got it entirely out of the shell. But I haven't seen loose bulk nuts the last few years, so I make a mix of shelled nuts and have them set out in a much smaller bowl.

As I look over recipes, and enjoy memories of Christmases past, I started wondering what makes the holidays at this time of year special for other families? Do you like to combine old favorites and new ideas? My daughter's inlaws have clam chowder without fail. We've had prime rib for small gatherings, with so many vegetarians, there is usually leftovers.

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What food is essential to make your holiday the holiday? (Original Post) Marthe48 Dec 2022 OP
Homemade gingerbread cookies and fruit cake. nt Phoenix61 Dec 2022 #1
Wrapped satsuma oranges. pandr32 Dec 2022 #2
My mother's lemon cheese cake was a Christmas special but one that we brer cat Dec 2022 #3
Pecan Fingers MOMFUDSKI Dec 2022 #4
those cookies made into balls are Mexican Wedding Cookies to me Kali Dec 2022 #11
Used to be Latkes (Potato Pancakes,) but elleng Dec 2022 #5
Pumpkin pie phoenix75 Dec 2022 #6
For us, it's Rumballs, Mirro almond Xmas Trees, and fruitcake cookies. nt woodsprite Dec 2022 #7
Egg nog PJMcK Dec 2022 #8
Stuffed celery, old mississippi recipe from grandma Beulah FirstLight Dec 2022 #9
roast beef, caramel corn, shrimp cocktail, and a no name cookie Kali Dec 2022 #10
Vinegar cole slaw. Love it! SheltieLover Dec 2022 #12
Sounds like the slaw my Mom made Marthe48 Dec 2022 #15
Mine too! SheltieLover Dec 2022 #17
I make slaw Marthe48 Dec 2022 #18
All grocery stores with a decent head of cabbage are calling me! SheltieLover Dec 2022 #19
I love it so much, I spent $160 on food processor just for this purpose. SheltieLover Dec 2022 #20
I have a hand grater I like Marthe48 Dec 2022 #21
Too difficult with my physical limitations SheltieLover Dec 2022 #22
My kitchen is like a workshop Marthe48 Dec 2022 #23
That's the beauty of cabbage. SheltieLover Dec 2022 #24
Christmas cookie baking dem in texas Dec 2022 #13
What a nice tradition Marthe48 Dec 2022 #16
gravy. pansypoo53219 Dec 2022 #14
My beloved late Italian gran... hippywife Dec 2022 #25
For Thanksgiving, cornbread stuffing Retrograde Dec 2022 #26

pandr32

(11,586 posts)
2. Wrapped satsuma oranges.
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 09:31 PM
Dec 2022

We used to know them as Japanese oranges and my brother and I would stuff on them. Mom always put one in the toe of our Xmas stocking.

brer cat

(24,565 posts)
3. My mother's lemon cheese cake was a Christmas special but one that we
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 09:32 PM
Dec 2022

didn't continue after her death. I would say that my sister's pumpkin cheesecake has filled the void.

MOMFUDSKI

(5,542 posts)
4. Pecan Fingers
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 09:35 PM
Dec 2022

which are cookies made of flour, powdered sugar, butter and finely ground pecans. My mom made them every year and so have I. Never missed one year. People LOVE them. I gave some to my Canadian neighbor's son last Christmas and he came back and asked if he could buy some 'of those lady fingers'. lol They melt in your mouth and smell like Christmas to me. I also make Pizzelles on an iron that my mom bought back in the sixties from a company in Cincinnati. It still works! I make them every year also. Happy Holidays to all.

Kali

(55,008 posts)
11. those cookies made into balls are Mexican Wedding Cookies to me
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 11:01 PM
Dec 2022

my Mom made those for the holidays a lot. I have only made them a few times but...yum!

elleng

(130,913 posts)
5. Used to be Latkes (Potato Pancakes,) but
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 09:39 PM
Dec 2022

due to unsatisfactory social setting 'these days,' nothing.

(SORRY to sound so negative, may be just bad timing: Dentist appointment today, nothing really bad, one simple extraction, and most symptoms dissipating, but can't think too much about food at the moment. Maybe tomorrow.)

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
9. Stuffed celery, old mississippi recipe from grandma Beulah
Fri Dec 2, 2022, 10:41 PM
Dec 2022

Probably one of those church recipes.

It sounds gross, but it really tasty!

Cream cheese
mayo (just enough to loosen it up)
crushed pineapple and a little juice
garlic powder
ground walnuts or pecans for texture/balancing flavor

Put in already de-stringed celery

top with a little paprika for color

my kids are in their 20s now and DEMAND it is one the table every Thanksgiving or Christmas

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
12. Vinegar cole slaw. Love it!
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 02:01 AM
Dec 2022

Goes with all meats & even today, daughter always requests I make it for gatherings.

Easy: 1 med head cabbage, 1 green pepper, 1 small to medium onion, finely shredded.

2 packs Kroger or Good Seasons Zesty Ital dressing (powder) mix

Cider vinegar

Olive or avacado oil

Great stuff!

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
17. Mine too!
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 09:33 AM
Dec 2022

The most wonderful, super healthy side dish!

And just goes with everything from fish to spaghetti to turkey & everything in between.

Do you still make it? I do, at least a couple of times per month. Each batch lasts 4-5 days.

Marthe48

(16,963 posts)
18. I make slaw
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 09:37 AM
Dec 2022

Not as often as I should. I shred cabbage and add some Kroger creamy Italian dressing, so it has a zesty flavor, and lower carbs. I have a fresh head of cabbage and it is beginning to call me

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
19. All grocery stores with a decent head of cabbage are calling me!
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 09:51 AM
Dec 2022

Try the Zesty Italian mix, 4 Seasons or Kroger brand. Thet'ye identical. So much better than bottled dressings of any kind, imo.

I make it with Braggs cider vinegar & Aldi avacado oil. Super healthy.

Im on a low carb, low fat, no sugar, low salt diet for various recent diagnoses, so I enjoy what I can.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
20. I love it so much, I spent $160 on food processor just for this purpose.
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 09:53 AM
Dec 2022

A significant chunk of change for me! But well spent!

Marthe48

(16,963 posts)
21. I have a hand grater I like
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 09:59 AM
Dec 2022

One of those metal 4 sided ones. I have several devices, but if just for me, I use the hand grater. (It is well named, usually can't get away without scraping a knuckle or 2. lol)

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
22. Too difficult with my physical limitations
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 10:13 AM
Dec 2022

Hence the food processor. I tried all types of the hand shredders, to no avail.

Glad it works for you, though!

Marthe48

(16,963 posts)
23. My kitchen is like a workshop
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 10:17 AM
Dec 2022

I might not use the kitchen gadgets all the time, but sure glad I have them.

I am glad you have a food processor you like. I would use mine more, but I have cleaning it after I'm done using it.

All of this talk of food prep has made me hungry. Wonder if anyone posted about breakfast today? lol Happy Saturday!

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
24. That's the beauty of cabbage.
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 10:25 AM
Dec 2022

Only takes a quick rinse after using for slaw.

Oh, I know! I've already had a bowl of pork stew for breakfast & it's only 8:30am here.

Enjoy!

dem in texas

(2,674 posts)
13. Christmas cookie baking
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 02:05 AM
Dec 2022

We used to have one day where grandmothers, aunts. daughters etc. got together to bake cookies. Each person would bring a recipe, plus special ingredients and we'd bake cookies all day. At the end of the baking, we'd divide up the cookies so that everyone had a nice batch of cookies. This custom pretty much fell apart with the covis outbreak and the passing away of my sister. I was just talking to my daughter about the cookies day and we both of us felt like we were not ready to start it again. Maybe next year.

One recipe was always a must. My mother's recipe for orange chocolate chippers. What a sweet day; we'd honor my mom's memory by using her recipe.

Marthe48

(16,963 posts)
16. What a nice tradition
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 09:33 AM
Dec 2022

I guess the cookie baking has started and continued with me, at least in my family. My husband's family didn't bake, and while my Mom and Grandma baked, it was hit and miss, and just a recipe or 2, if anyone had time.

Sorry you lost your sister. Losses like that make it harder to find joy any time, but especially the holidays.

hippywife

(22,767 posts)
25. My beloved late Italian gran...
Sat Dec 3, 2022, 10:29 AM
Dec 2022

used to make boxes of around 10 different cookies for each of her four kids families every year, even when she could no longer stand without pain. Even tho I no longer celebrate the holidays, her memory for me is ever present in the smell of anise throughout the house from pressing pizzelles. I still have her handwritten recipes. My husband, who never got to meet her, also loves them, and the tiny little nut bonbon cookies she used to make, and are just so damned tedious and time consuming.

Retrograde

(10,136 posts)
26. For Thanksgiving, cornbread stuffing
Sun Dec 4, 2022, 06:22 AM
Dec 2022

and yes, it goes in the turkey. There are rarely leftovers.

Christmas Eve dinner is always vegetarian, and I go back to my Polish roots: pierogi, golumkis stuffed with mushrooms and rice, fish of some sort. Don't do anything special for Christmas day.

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