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In memoriam. My sweet little kitty Tiger. Picture taken about 10 days ago when he came inside. I'm so sad. (Original Post) Walleye 6 hrs ago OP
Sad, but, with all his lifelong adventures, he looks ready to rest. blm 6 hrs ago #1
I am grateful that he came inside and didn't go out looking for some place to hide and die Walleye 6 hrs ago #4
You and the great outdoors were all he needed ❤️ MLAA 2 hrs ago #58
It always hurts. I had my old boy Thomas cross over yesterday. My condolences. CurtEastPoint 6 hrs ago #2
It's all so sad Walleye 6 hrs ago #5
How difficult for you, Curt. Yet, while losing Tom you Polly Hennessey 5 hrs ago #14
Lady Bast, please take Your Thomas gently home in Your loving arms, niyad 5 hrs ago #19
I'm so sorry for your loss, CurtEastPoint MIButterfly 4 hrs ago #40
I'm so sorry CurtEastPoint, JMCKUSICK 3 hrs ago #53
Such a handsome boy. SheltieLover 6 hrs ago #3
Thank you, the understanding of people here really helps Walleye 6 hrs ago #7
We've all been through it, Walleye, & it never gets easier. SheltieLover 6 hrs ago #10
I'm so sorry for your loss Quiet Em 6 hrs ago #6
He looked frail but peaceful and relaxed. You both made good decisions biophile 6 hrs ago #8
I am so sorry and I am so happy that you were there for him. Maraya1969 6 hrs ago #9
I'm so sorry, Walleye. HeartsCanHope 6 hrs ago #11
I am so sorry for your loss KT2000 6 hrs ago #12
You are right, Walleye, he came to you. That is pure Polly Hennessey 5 hrs ago #13
So true, thank you Walleye 5 hrs ago #16
From your posts in the past I know Tiger had a marvelously rich, adventurous life and always came home to your love. MLAA 5 hrs ago #15
Thank you, the sympathy helps, really does Walleye 5 hrs ago #17
Sending you very big hugs Chicagogrl1 5 hrs ago #18
hugggggs, my dear friend. He knew that he was loved and cherished, niyad 5 hrs ago #20
Thank you very much, Patches is staying very close this morning Walleye 5 hrs ago #21
Hugs! Pucks mom 5 hrs ago #22
RIP Tiger. What a sweetheart So sorry for your loss 58Sunliner 5 hrs ago #23
Thanks so much for caring Walleye 5 hrs ago #24
I know it's hard to lose them. 58Sunliner 5 hrs ago #30
My wife and I have a feral we have been feeding for at least 20 years. JPK 5 hrs ago #25
Wow, I know just how you feel Walleye 5 hrs ago #26
I'm hugging my little Gabby cat just a little bit tighter this morning, Walleye, slightlv 5 hrs ago #27
Thank you so much Walleye 5 hrs ago #28
😿🫂 mwmisses4289 5 hrs ago #29
My wife and I have had many cats over the course of our lifetime. patphil 5 hrs ago #31
Thank you, yes, I don't have children of my own so they are my family Walleye 4 hrs ago #35
rest in peace tiger. ..i am so sorry for your loss walleye. to lose a much loved fur kid is tough dawn5651 5 hrs ago #32
Thank you yes it is tougher than people without pets realize Walleye 4 hrs ago #34
I almost lost my beloved Bombay a week ago orangecrush 3 hrs ago #50
Thanks for the sympathy, that was good luck for your kitty. She has eight lives left. Walleye 1 hr ago #64
i agree..i had two that owned my heart i no longer have either and i miss them every day. dawn5651 1 hr ago #63
So sorry our pets samplegirl 4 hrs ago #33
Precious picture. Thanks Walleye. George McGovern 4 hrs ago #36
Thank you for being there and understanding Walleye 4 hrs ago #37
Sorry to see him go... 2naSalit 4 hrs ago #38
You are right, it is a very solid bond. We shouldn't try and figure it out. Walleye 4 hrs ago #42
You both did very well Half-step 4 hrs ago #39
Thank you. Much appreciated. Walleye 4 hrs ago #41
Beautiful kitty who knew who he wanted to be with at his end... hlthe2b 4 hrs ago #43
Thank you very much. This crummy weather isn't helping. Walleye 4 hrs ago #44
Our fur babies... GiqueCee 4 hrs ago #45
Thanks so much Walleye 4 hrs ago #47
RIP Tiger. bamagal62 4 hrs ago #46
Thank you Walleye 4 hrs ago #48
... orangecrush 3 hrs ago #49
RIP, Tiger. And thank you, Walleye, for looking after him all that time. Ocelot II 3 hrs ago #51
I'm so sorry, Walleye. Diamond_Dog 3 hrs ago #52
Yes. We know we will outlive them, but that's sort of a bargain we make when we adopt them. Walleye 1 hr ago #62
You mentioned in an earlier response JMCKUSICK 3 hrs ago #54
Thank you, that is so comforting. He could've run away at any time, but didn't, that means a lot. Walleye 1 hr ago #61
I'm sorry for your loss, Walleye Niagara 3 hrs ago #55
So true. They have no ulterior motives. It's just love and companionship. Walleye 2 hrs ago #60
Absolutely Niagara 36 min ago #65
Beloved, you were there when I needed you. purrmaid 3 hrs ago #56
What a tribute to your relationship that he sought you out at the end... 3catwoman3 3 hrs ago #57
Yes, you understand. I always would've wondered what happened this way I know for sure he passed peacefully. Walleye 2 hrs ago #59
That knowledge itself is truly priceless, JMCKUSICK 1 min ago #66

blm

(114,901 posts)
1. Sad, but, with all his lifelong adventures, he looks ready to rest.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 09:22 AM
6 hrs ago

You were always there when he needed you. 🌷🕯️

Walleye

(46,100 posts)
4. I am grateful that he came inside and didn't go out looking for some place to hide and die
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 09:36 AM
6 hrs ago

He came to me. He always chose me.

Polly Hennessey

(9,119 posts)
14. How difficult for you, Curt. Yet, while losing Tom you
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 09:58 AM
5 hrs ago

reached out to Walleye. Well done, Curt.

niyad

(136,024 posts)
19. Lady Bast, please take Your Thomas gently home in Your loving arms,
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 10:11 AM
5 hrs ago

and send peace and comfort to his grieving loved ones.


I am so sorry about the loss of your precious Thomas. Do not be surprised if he comes to visit you.

MIButterfly

(3,712 posts)
40. I'm so sorry for your loss, CurtEastPoint
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 11:21 AM
4 hrs ago

My heart goes out to you. I extend to you my deepest sympathy on the passing of Thomas.

SheltieLover

(83,492 posts)
10. We've all been through it, Walleye, & it never gets easier.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 09:48 AM
6 hrs ago

Lean as hard as you need to on us, sweetie. We are here for you.

May your heart be filled with joyful memories of Tiger as your grief lessens.

biophile

(1,791 posts)
8. He looked frail but peaceful and relaxed. You both made good decisions
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 09:42 AM
6 hrs ago

He sought you out and you took him in. I believe he was and is now at peace. I hope you can find your heart at ease.

HeartsCanHope

(1,837 posts)
11. I'm so sorry, Walleye.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 09:49 AM
6 hrs ago

My condolences to you and your family. Thanks for taking care of Tiger. You

were always there for him. Tiger was such a gorgeous cat.

KT2000

(22,293 posts)
12. I am so sorry for your loss
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 09:50 AM
6 hrs ago

I see a bit of cat hair on his brow from you giving him a good pet. How sweet, RIP Tiger.

Polly Hennessey

(9,119 posts)
13. You are right, Walleye, he came to you. That is pure
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 09:54 AM
5 hrs ago

love and loyalty. The sadness of grief will never leave but it will diminish. Someday, when you remember Tiger, a smile will come before the tears.

MLAA

(19,892 posts)
15. From your posts in the past I know Tiger had a marvelously rich, adventurous life and always came home to your love.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 10:03 AM
5 hrs ago

I’m sending you hugs and Godspeed to Tiger. With all his walkabouts there is no doubt he will easily find where he is suppose to be next 💕.

niyad

(136,024 posts)
20. hugggggs, my dear friend. He knew that he was loved and cherished,
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 10:15 AM
5 hrs ago

and that you would tke care of him. It never gets easier. But we are all here for you, and for Patches.

JPK

(1,040 posts)
25. My wife and I have a feral we have been feeding for at least 20 years.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 10:27 AM
5 hrs ago

She wasn't a kitten when she showed up to join the 10 or so other ferals we were feeding. The others have long passed by either leaving or passing but she is still here. She is however nearing her end. She still eats but she has lost a lot of weight. Still cries to be pet whenever we are outside but we know it won't be long before she is gone. She is a Tuxedo and her once black face is now covered with white hairs. She has never been to the vet so we are surprised she has lasted this long. She is a fighter but we know and expect it to be soon for her time to end. She is such an everyday sight to see, it will be sad when we no longer hear her loud cries to be fed.

Walleye

(46,100 posts)
26. Wow, I know just how you feel
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 10:30 AM
5 hrs ago

Tiger was one of 10 kittens that were trapped neutered and released in 2010. The others left long ago and he stayed with me. I sympathize with yours getting old

slightlv

(8,351 posts)
27. I'm hugging my little Gabby cat just a little bit tighter this morning, Walleye,
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 10:31 AM
5 hrs ago

in loving memorial to Tiger. This baby looks like he needed a safe, loving space to rest and you went above and beyond. Bast bless and keep him in Her loving paws, and bless you for looking after Her wee ones... sweet peace to you, dear one.

patphil

(9,413 posts)
31. My wife and I have had many cats over the course of our lifetime.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 10:44 AM
5 hrs ago

It's always hard when one of them passes on. I've often said that pets are like children that never grow up. They're a part of the family, and we love each and every one of them.
The sadness will pass, but your memories will live on. Hold onto the memories. They'll become a source of happiness and joy over the years.

dawn5651

(852 posts)
32. rest in peace tiger. ..i am so sorry for your loss walleye. to lose a much loved fur kid is tough
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 10:45 AM
5 hrs ago

orangecrush

(32,148 posts)
50. I almost lost my beloved Bombay a week ago
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 11:55 AM
3 hrs ago

Pyometra uterus infection, emergency surgery.

She pulled through ok, only 4 years old.

It was touch and go for a while.

No matter how I tried, I couldn't reconcile with the prospect of life without her.

I feel every bit of what you are feeling.

So very sorry, my friend.


dawn5651

(852 posts)
63. i agree..i had two that owned my heart i no longer have either and i miss them every day.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 02:04 PM
1 hr ago

2naSalit

(105,430 posts)
38. Sorry to see him go...
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 11:17 AM
4 hrs ago

I remember you worrying about him a time or two but he always came back.

I'm glad he came inside at the end, he trusted you with making sure his ending was peaceful. You were his human and that bond is solid.

Sad with you

hlthe2b

(115,556 posts)
43. Beautiful kitty who knew who he wanted to be with at his end...
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 11:31 AM
4 hrs ago

Treasure the good memories, my friend.

GiqueCee

(5,311 posts)
45. Our fur babies...
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 11:35 AM
4 hrs ago

... live on in our fond memories of them, but that never eases the loss. All us animal lovers have been there more times than we care to count. I'm sorry you had to say goodbye to Tiger, Walleye.

Ocelot II

(132,139 posts)
51. RIP, Tiger. And thank you, Walleye, for looking after him all that time.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 11:57 AM
3 hrs ago

He knew where he was safe and cared for.

Diamond_Dog

(41,707 posts)
52. I'm so sorry, Walleye.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 11:57 AM
3 hrs ago

He came to you when he needed comfort. Sweet kitty. They are never with us long enough.

Hugs to you.

Walleye

(46,100 posts)
62. Yes. We know we will outlive them, but that's sort of a bargain we make when we adopt them.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 01:53 PM
1 hr ago

It’s very hard to follow through, though

JMCKUSICK

(7,188 posts)
54. You mentioned in an earlier response
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 12:14 PM
3 hrs ago

How he always chose you.

That alone makes me cry again because there's no greater way for him to tell you again and again how special you were to him.

I think back to Forrest Gump, as he described Jenny.

I hear Tiger saying it again and again,
Walleye, he was my friend, he was my only friend.

And you were, WOW!

"He chose me again and again."

Can't think of a greater epithet than that.

He loved you so much, just how much will become clearer in the coming days.

You will find that memories will come from nowhere, memories that seemed one offs at the time, and now the puzzle fills itself to completion.

You were a great Papa Walleye.

Walleye

(46,100 posts)
61. Thank you, that is so comforting. He could've run away at any time, but didn't, that means a lot.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 01:52 PM
1 hr ago

3catwoman3

(30,447 posts)
57. What a tribute to your relationship that he sought you out at the end...
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 12:49 PM
3 hrs ago

...and did not just disappear so you did not have to wonder what became of him. You gave him a last loving gift by liberating his spirit.

Walleye

(46,100 posts)
59. Yes, you understand. I always would've wondered what happened this way I know for sure he passed peacefully.
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 01:48 PM
2 hrs ago

JMCKUSICK

(7,188 posts)
66. That knowledge itself is truly priceless,
Sat Jul 18, 2026, 03:49 PM
1 min ago

I had Freddy visiting for about three months right after Snuggles died.

I think he was my comfort cat. He disappeared and I never saw him again, and yes, there's still the part of me that holes I see him again.

There was a Sunday in August back then when I surely felt his soul leave. I can't explain it except to say I was walking in my yard and all of a sudden, I felt him, by name, will the bonds of this life.

I said good bye to him then and he's part of my morning and daily roll call of greetings to my passed friends.

Cuddles, Snuggles, Papa Bear, Freduardo (Freddy and don't forget to roll the r's lol.) and Papa Bears little munchkin dwarf daughter Little Girl, who to this day is the cutest cat I ever laid eyes on.

I'm so glad I got a chance to say good bye to the others.

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