Pets
Related: About this forumTook my sugar face with me to run errands today
It was just cool/warm enough to do. I brought water, her cookies and bags for clean up. Mid chores I took her to a favorite park where she ran when she was young. When we got home, we both took arthritis meds and a nap. She got up for the walk with 'her kids from across the street' down the block and then back to nap. I woke her for dinner. She has always been a snorer, you can hear her across the house. I read this when the first dog was so young and playful, surely it would never happen to us; first dog, second dog, special cat now wait on us at the summer fields at side of the rainbow bridge.
Autumn Christy Caballero
What do we do when our loving pets face the last leg of the race? We do all we can to help them finish well, of course. We take time to read the unspoken needs of the friends we've come to know so well. We give the simple reassurance of a loving touch when the old boy seems confused for no reason.
We groom them faithfully, but more gently, as age brings muscle wasting, and the arthritic bones aren't so well padded. We learn to slow down for their sake, as they enjoy the scent of the wind, or track a visitors trail across their yard. We expect to be inconvenienced, and aren't angry when it happens.
We watch for pain and treat it, watch for changes in vision and hearing and do what we can to help preserve those precious senses for as long as possible.
We take care of their teeth, and make sure their food is a manageable texture for them. We remind them of the need for a potty walk when they seem to forget.
We remember the little rewards. We scratch the graying ears and tummy, and go for car rides together. When the pet we love has an unexplained need for comfort, we give it freely. When infirmities bring a sense of vulnerability, we become our old guardian's protector.
We watch their deepest slumbers, when dreams take them running across long-forgotten fields, and we remember those fields too. When they cannot stand alone, we lift them. When their steps are uncertain, we steady them. And if their health fails, it falls to us to make the choice that will gently put them to rest. But until that is absolutely necessary, we pause to let the autumn sun warm our old friend's bones. And we realize, autumn is not a bad time of year at all. Old age is not a disease or a reason to give up. It is a stage of life that brings its own changes. Autumn can be a beautiful time of harvest.
And, sometimes, the harvest is love.
I didn't know a dogs tail could turn white as time passes on.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)irisblue
(32,980 posts)I have been richly blessed.
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)is equal to the purity of the love of a good dog.
And the joy and exhilaration that dog feels at simply life itself should inspire us all.
BTW, There was a Subaru commercial airing a few months ago that focused not so much on a family growing up, but the pooch growing up and aging. From a puppy bouncing around to an old dog with the white muzzle and some other streaks of white. I don't know how many cars it sold, but I'm sure it solved any dry eye problems.
GTurck
(826 posts)Thank you for a poetic and lyrical reminder of what our pets mean to us.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)Thanks for sharing it. I am picturing your tired out dog snoring away. Sounds like you pooped him out. Good times.
get the red out
(13,466 posts)You have an angel there.