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piddyprints

(14,649 posts)
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 10:28 AM Oct 2021

Thread for Siwsan

She has brought so much joy into this group and our lives with her cat posts over the years.

I remember her Sophie posts from way back, when our Sophie was still alive.

Now to suffer two losses in a day is just too much, and not a fitting reward for her loving care of them. I'm sitting here bawling over cats I only met over the internet. Yet, they touched my heart and I know they did many others.

Thank you, Siwsan, for all you do for the animals. If I could make the pain go away, I would. Take comfort in the fact that they had wonderful lives with you and you gave all you could.


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Thread for Siwsan (Original Post) piddyprints Oct 2021 OP
My heart breaks for her! tblue37 Oct 2021 #1
Thank you for this thread. Our hearts go out to you, Siwsan. spooky3 Oct 2021 #2
Yes.... paleotn Oct 2021 #3
My heart breaks for the loss of one, but two in one days is wrenching. We are thinking of you. hlthe2b Oct 2021 #4
I am grieving so much with you all Walleye Oct 2021 #5
Gray day for sure unweird Oct 2021 #6
. . . CousinIT Oct 2021 #7
. KarenS Oct 2021 #8
Grieve gently, dear Siwsan. quaint Oct 2021 #9
Luv ya Siwsan. We all do. ❤️ LakeArenal Oct 2021 #10
Well said. FalloutShelter Oct 2021 #24
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ bamagal62 Oct 2021 #11
Your love and caring for the kitties is Polly Hennessey Oct 2021 #12
😢💕 blm Oct 2021 #13
Please know, dear Siswan, that we are grieving with you. And here if there is niyad Oct 2021 #14
Thanks for all the kitty goodness. ChazInAz Oct 2021 #15
I'm so very, very sorry for you, Siwsan. Texin Oct 2021 #16
Sending healing vibes and Diamond_Dog Oct 2021 #17
So sorry Siwsan. Our fur babies are love and joy. AllyCat Oct 2021 #18
Plus one! ananda Oct 2021 #19
I am heart sick over this. SheltieLover Oct 2021 #20
Siwsan, you are a special person... MiHale Oct 2021 #21
So sorry for your loss Siwsan MN2theMax Oct 2021 #22
So so sorry..take care of yourself! PortTack Oct 2021 #23
I'm so very sorry, Siwsan. catbyte Oct 2021 #25
... MontanaMama Oct 2021 #26
... Delphinus Oct 2021 #27
Hugs to you and Madoc. Fla Dem Oct 2021 #28
I'm a dog person rather than a cat person, but I really enjoy Tomconroy Oct 2021 #29
🕯️🕯️ irisblue Oct 2021 #30
Peace to you Siwsan. bronxiteforever Oct 2021 #31
From one rescuer to another slightlv Oct 2021 #32
Thank you, Siwsan, for all the joy you've shared with us. 2naSalit Oct 2021 #33
Sending love & light to Siwsan Chicagogrl1 Oct 2021 #34
So very sorry.... rogerballard Oct 2021 #35
We're ALL here for you. elleng Oct 2021 #36
Many, many hugs for Siwsan. Ocelot II Oct 2021 #37
I missed her posts wryter2000 Oct 2021 #38
... tosh Oct 2021 #39
I'm really sorry to hear about this FoxNewsSucks Oct 2021 #40
... littlemissmartypants Oct 2021 #41
Siwsan, your kitties became beloved members of our tribe too. brer cat Oct 2021 #42
With the ability to care and love comes the ability to feel loss and pain. I pray in time you Ziggysmom Oct 2021 #43
My heart goes out to you Siwsan. So, so sorry for your loss. Biophilic Oct 2021 #44
Hugs to our Siwsan. Ilsa Oct 2021 #45
Words are so woefully inadequate at times like this. 3catwoman3 Oct 2021 #46
So sorry IbogaProject Oct 2021 #47
They bring you such joy and inspire the best in you. This is the greatest gift we receive Cozmo Oct 2021 #48
Hugs for you Siwsan thinkingagain Oct 2021 #49
I'm so, so sorry... dixiechiken1 Oct 2021 #50
I am sorry, Siswan. murielm99 Oct 2021 #51
So terribly sad, Siwsan! BComplex Oct 2021 #52
This world is fortunate to have people like Siswan. AverageOldGuy Oct 2021 #53
For Siwsan and in memory of my 12 feral cats and kittens poisoned this March: pazzyanne Oct 2021 #57
Yeah, we all loved those cats. They had great lives with you while they were here. PatrickforB Oct 2021 #54
Siwsan, you are loved as much by us wnylib Oct 2021 #55
My heart is broken for you wendyb-NC Oct 2021 #56
This is so sad and I'm hurting just thinking of your loss and pain. liberalla Oct 2021 #58
... revmclaren Oct 2021 #59
Weeping. I am so sorry to hear this. love_katz Oct 2021 #60
❤️ Siwsan, sharing the planet with people like you louslobbs Oct 2021 #61
Thank you for this KT2000 Oct 2021 #62
Saying goodbye is so hard.. Permanut Oct 2021 #63
I am so sorry for your loss. Susan Calvin Oct 2021 #64
So sad to have to say good-bye to your babies this way. cksmithy Oct 2021 #65
Sending Siwsan love ❤️ MLAA Oct 2021 #66
Now I'm in tears. BigmanPigman Oct 2021 #67
me too - tears. bluboid Oct 2021 #68
Indeed malaise Oct 2021 #69
Oh no did the kitties pass? XanaDUer2 Oct 2021 #70
... Solly Mack Oct 2021 #71
I'm so very, very sorry to hear about this. Silver Gaia Oct 2021 #72
... Ruby Zee Oct 2021 #73
So very sorry. samplegirl Oct 2021 #74
A kick and a hug for Siwsan. denbot Oct 2021 #75
I've loved reading about your kitties, and I wish you could have been spared this pain. catrose Oct 2021 #76
Hugs to you! lunatica Oct 2021 #77
K&r Demovictory9 Oct 2021 #78
Much love to Siwsan radical noodle Oct 2021 #79
LOVE to you, Siwsan, and thanks to YOU, piddyprints! calimary Oct 2021 #80
Now I'm crying again... CaptainTruth Oct 2021 #81
Oh my...I'm so sorry. onecaliberal Oct 2021 #82
so sorry mwmisses4289 Oct 2021 #83

spooky3

(34,485 posts)
2. Thank you for this thread. Our hearts go out to you, Siwsan.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 10:30 AM
Oct 2021

Your sweeties will live forever in your heart.

Polly Hennessey

(6,809 posts)
12. Your love and caring for the kitties is
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 10:38 AM
Oct 2021

a testament to who you are. Remember this, Siwsan, you too are loved.

niyad

(113,600 posts)
14. Please know, dear Siswan, that we are grieving with you. And here if there is
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 10:39 AM
Oct 2021

anything we can do to help.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
20. I am heart sick over this.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 10:51 AM
Oct 2021

Piddy said it very well.

You have been so caring, attentive, & loving to your beloved kitties.

Sophie, Morgan, Madoc, Mittens & your other ferals are DU super stars & beloved. Thank you for sharing your precious companions with us.

Cross gently, Morgan & hug Sophie for us.

Please take good care of yourself, Siwsan.

catbyte

(34,475 posts)
25. I'm so very sorry, Siwsan.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 11:01 AM
Oct 2021

They're family. Tears are being shed in Lansing for your precious Sophie Stinky Toes and Morgan.

 

Tomconroy

(7,611 posts)
29. I'm a dog person rather than a cat person, but I really enjoy
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 11:13 AM
Oct 2021

reading your posts. Your love and enthusiasm for caring for stray animals is wonderful. Much sympathy for your losses.

bronxiteforever

(9,287 posts)
31. Peace to you Siwsan.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 11:27 AM
Oct 2021

Farewell, farewell! but this I tell
To thee, thou Wedding-Guest!
He prayeth well, who loveth well
Both man and bird and beast.

― Samuel Taylor Coleridge, The Rime of the Ancient Mariner

You have done so dear Siwsan.

slightlv

(2,845 posts)
32. From one rescuer to another
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 11:27 AM
Oct 2021

I know the pain of not being able to save them all, no matter how much love and attention we give them. It doesn't lessen the hurt. You do the angels work here in this world, Siwsan, remember that. And remember how many animals owe their lives and homes to you. While it won't make up for the little ones you've lost, it might bring a smile here and there thru the worst of the tears for now. And remember how much you are loved.

2naSalit

(86,824 posts)
33. Thank you, Siwsan, for all the joy you've shared with us.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 11:34 AM
Oct 2021

If I could give any of that back to help you heal, I would do it a thousand times over.

wryter2000

(46,083 posts)
38. I missed her posts
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 11:57 AM
Oct 2021

I gather a couple of her kitties died. So unfair after all the care she's given them. I hope she realizes how much good she did for them while they were alive. They would have had such a hard life without her.

FoxNewsSucks

(10,435 posts)
40. I'm really sorry to hear about this
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:06 PM
Oct 2021

I didn't read all of the posts, but always thought it was so great and kind that someone would take such care to give innocent animals a good home.

brer cat

(24,624 posts)
42. Siwsan, your kitties became beloved members of our tribe too.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:12 PM
Oct 2021

Thanks for sharing them with us, and know that we are grieving with you.

Ziggysmom

(3,420 posts)
43. With the ability to care and love comes the ability to feel loss and pain. I pray in time you
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:25 PM
Oct 2021

will only feel the love.
How blessed we are as cat parents to have loved them so much that it makes saying goodbye so very hard.

Biophilic

(3,704 posts)
44. My heart goes out to you Siwsan. So, so sorry for your loss.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:26 PM
Oct 2021

I always read your posts because they always made me smile.

IbogaProject

(2,845 posts)
47. So sorry
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:44 PM
Oct 2021

So sorry you provided the best chance they had. We have to push for as many stray cats to be supported and importantly neutered. Take care of your self today Swisan.

Cozmo

(1,402 posts)
48. They bring you such joy and inspire the best in you. This is the greatest gift we receive
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 12:47 PM
Oct 2021

I know your heart is heavy, ours as well. If there was anything we would do for you to ease your heart we would do it. I do hope you find some comfort knowing you are not alone.

BComplex

(8,072 posts)
52. So terribly sad, Siwsan!
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:00 PM
Oct 2021
The joy you have brought to so many of us two-leggeds, and so many of the four-leggeds is immeasurable.

AverageOldGuy

(1,548 posts)
53. This world is fortunate to have people like Siswan.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:02 PM
Oct 2021

I've only recently come to DU so I don't know all her history. Judging by what I've read from her in the past few months, she is a very special person.

Over the years I have lost two cats -- one badly injured by a car, one with spinal degeneration. Those were some of the saddest days in our household.

We could use more "crazy cat ladies" like Siswan!!!

And if it's any comfort to you, Siswan, the kitties you lost were better off for having met you, even though is was only a short time.

pazzyanne

(6,558 posts)
57. For Siwsan and in memory of my 12 feral cats and kittens poisoned this March:
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:15 PM
Oct 2021

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

wnylib

(21,648 posts)
55. Siwsan, you are loved as much by us
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:09 PM
Oct 2021

as by your fur babies. So take care of yourself as your heart heals. Cherish the memories of your times with Morgan and Sophie, and cherish the presence of Madoc and the ferals.

wendyb-NC

(3,331 posts)
56. My heart is broken for you
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:14 PM
Oct 2021

You are the kindest, most loving and conscientious generous, pet parent, in the world. I am beside myself for your losses and grief, it is a surreal calamity. Your daily updates on the lives of your kitties is such a joy to read and something to look forward to.

Embrace the memories, the joy that both Sophie and Morgan, gave you unconditionally. Know that your posts, pass sparkles of joy to me, and so many others. Please continue to share. Take care of you and little Maddoc. Thank you for your posts. Peace and blessings.

louslobbs

(3,238 posts)
61. ❤️ Siwsan, sharing the planet with people like you
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 01:30 PM
Oct 2021

makes all the difficult times worth it. You are a beautiful soul.

KT2000

(20,590 posts)
62. Thank you for this
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 02:51 PM
Oct 2021

Yes, they touched our hearts. My heart breaks for Siwsan - a wonderful mom to cats in need.

cksmithy

(231 posts)
65. So sad to have to say good-bye to your babies this way.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 03:43 PM
Oct 2021

Over 50 years we have rescued 11 cats and four dogs from the streets. Most of them have lived long lives 15 to 18 years. A few we lost early to cancers/disease. We also have 2 children and 5 grandchildren. We have always called our cats and dogs their brothers and sisters. It is so hard to lose a little friend who expressed love to you. I still expect or last dog, who has been gone for three years, to put her nose through the fence when we come home and do the dance of joy. I am so sorry for your lose.

samplegirl

(11,506 posts)
74. So very sorry.
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 09:26 PM
Oct 2021

Being the cat lover I am… I know the pain after the loss of my boy of 19 years last year.
It’s such pain. Feeling so bad for you.
Would hug you big if I could.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
77. Hugs to you!
Sat Oct 16, 2021, 11:25 PM
Oct 2021


I have you and your kittens in my heart full of love and today of tears. You gave them the perfect life for a little while and that’s especially important. It’s what counts in the final balancing.

radical noodle

(8,013 posts)
79. Much love to Siwsan
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 12:21 AM
Oct 2021

May your broken heart mend to allow the happy memories to come flooding in. You gave them so much love and made their lives so much better.

calimary

(81,525 posts)
80. LOVE to you, Siwsan, and thanks to YOU, piddyprints!
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 12:59 AM
Oct 2021

The one thing I hate about our furry little friends is - they just don't last us very long, dammit. We recently lost the last of our L.A. cats, so I can both sympathize AND empathize. It NEVER gets easier. I guess you just take the love as it comes, and give love back as much as you can. Life is so fleeting - especially for the four-leggeds we love.

Dammit.






Btw - for whatever it's worth, today (Saturday the 16th) is/was Global Cat Day.

CaptainTruth

(6,606 posts)
81. Now I'm crying again...
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 04:36 AM
Oct 2021

Take comfort in knowing that you gave them wonderful lives filled with love. That's all we can ever do, the rest we cannot control & must leave to fate.




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