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Related: About this forumMy glorious little goofball
He's keeping me company, today, while I recuperate.
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)What a handsom kitty!
Siwsan
(26,263 posts)SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)Off plotting revenge for dracula attack?
Siwsan
(26,263 posts)He joined Madoc on my lap for a while but he prefers no competition for space.
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)Siwsan
(26,263 posts)I think they've been inspired by my lack of activity.
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)Well, you know, it's a cat's life: eat, sleep, rnse, repeat.
wnylib
(21,479 posts)on the home front.
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)wnylib
(21,479 posts)territory sharing and attention seeking as well as their own games and relationships with each other. I love to watch how they do it. Animal behavior fascinates me. They have their own "rules" among themselves, like we humans have our own customs, traditions, and laws.
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)And, I agree, it is fascinating to study & observe.
wnylib
(21,479 posts)eye blinking to communicate. I read from an animal behaviorist that, In cat language, eye blinking is a signal of friendship, agreement, no hostility, and even of affection.
Ember is very sweet, caring, and affectionate. But she is also very self assertive, partly due to her genetic background and partly to the home that I got her from, where she was left to fend for herself and became very self-defensive, to the point of aggression sometimes.
So Ember and I sometimes got locked into power struggles over house rules. I tried the eye blinking to show her that I was a friend, not an adversary. After a while, she started blinking back at me. She still has her feline, self-assertive independence, but is more cooperative and we have fewer power struggles now. In fact, sometimes she cracks me up with her own use of the eye blinking signal. When she does something that she knows I don't like and senses that I am unhappy over it, she blinks at me. "Sorry I messed up, mom, but we're friends, right?"
It works because I can't help laughing when she does that.
Animals are so much smarter than we usually give them credit for.
CousinIT
(9,245 posts)Adorable.
ShazzieB
(16,412 posts)An so nice and shiny!
Now I'm wondering if all his beans are black. I wonder about weird stuff sometimes.
black beans!
bluboid
(560 posts)Guilded Lilly
(5,591 posts)niyad
(113,323 posts)left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)calimary
(81,298 posts)wendyb-NC
(3,327 posts)He looks so laid back and all sweetness and calm.
mrsadm
(1,198 posts)DeeDeeNY
(3,355 posts)wnylib
(21,479 posts)overshadowed. He seems to be more laid back than Madoc.
Siwsan
(26,263 posts)Gryff likes to lounge on the back of the recliner, occasionally grooming my hair and then crawling across me for face nuzzles. He will only nap on my lap if Madoc isn't already there.
He is finally starting to instigate some of the wrestling matches, with Madoc, and he is the chief groomer. One of his biggest charms is, when I walk into what ever room he's in, he comes running up to me. He's still pretty quiet, though. I only get an occasional 'coo'. Madoc isn't very vocal, either, until it's time to eat. Then he's a regular little chatter box.
wnylib
(21,479 posts)having a couple kids around. They each have their own distinct personalities.