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Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 06:43 PM Feb 11

I have a new strategy with Carys and it seems to be working. And a new pic.

I watched this video of a woman who had trouble socializing a foster. She found the best success using food and by hand feeding the foster.

I started doing that with some chicken and with treats. She patiently waits for me to finish eating and if it's 'safe' food for her, I leave a little on the plate for her to clean.

For the past few days she's been spending most of her time in what ever room I and the other kidcats are in. She transitioned to the table that is next to my chair. Today she transitioned TO the chair. She let me pet her and even, at one point, pick her up and give her a kiss. She's also been giving me LOTS of slow blinks.

Now, consistency is not her thing but patience and persistence are mine, and the progress is undeniable.

Here she is with Arthur. He's on my lap. She's snuggled with her butt up against me.

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I have a new strategy with Carys and it seems to be working. And a new pic. (Original Post) Siwsan Feb 11 OP
Slowly but surely... 2naSalit Feb 11 #1
Theyre just asking me to rub their soft, warm tummies !! Karadeniz Feb 11 #2
What a sweet pic! ShazzieB Feb 11 #3
Yay, progress wendyb-NC Feb 11 #4
Such a beautiful story. Hope22 Feb 11 #5
Careful, Siwsan, Princess Carys may designate you Polly Hennessey Feb 11 #6
You are such a good person. Thank you for loving those cats. Fla Dem Feb 11 #7
How thrilling for you! 3catwoman3 Feb 11 #8
Sighhhhhhhh That is such a sweetness overload! Such wonderful, happy niyad Feb 11 #9
LOVE your Kitty Tales (Tails?), Siwsan! calimary Feb 11 #10

ShazzieB

(16,426 posts)
3. What a sweet pic!
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:12 PM
Feb 11

The look on Arthur's face is sheer bliss. I'll bet Carys's face would be the same, if I could see it.

wendyb-NC

(3,328 posts)
4. Yay, progress
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:45 PM
Feb 11

They are so adorable, asleep amongst the blankets. They look very peaceful and comfortable.

Hope22

(1,842 posts)
5. Such a beautiful story.
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 07:54 PM
Feb 11

She is trying her hardest and you are a faithful steward of her care. 💗💗💗💗💗🙏🏼💐

niyad

(113,347 posts)
9. Sighhhhhhhh That is such a sweetness overload! Such wonderful, happy
Sun Feb 11, 2024, 09:17 PM
Feb 11

news! I have a very strong feeling that she just might turn out to be the biggest snuggler in the family!

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