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femmedem

(8,427 posts)
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:33 AM Oct 7

I'm gobsmacked. This beautiful, seven-month old kitten practically tamed himself.

First, the backstory: In early June, I caught three littermates and brought them to Friends of Feral Felines to be socialized, immunized and adopted. After several months, one of the boys was neutered and returned to me as untameable. I figured he could join my little colony of community cats, but he became friendlier and friendlier, and one day he followed me inside. Now he's a lovebug who likes to knead the covers while he licks my hand.

But I wasn't able to catch the fourth littermate--a gorgeous Siamese/tabby mix--until this past Saturday. I dropped him off to be neutered and picked him up yesterday morning. I wasn't sure if I should release him outside or isolate him in the bathroom and try to tame him. I ended up isolating him because I figured that although the odds of taming a 7-month-old feral cat were slim, it would be my only chance. After two hours of sitting with him quietly, I was able to pet him. When he started to purr, I almost cried.

Less than 24 hours later, here he is.

Now I've got to come up with a name.

(His stray mom is spayed now and has a potential adopter.)

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I'm gobsmacked. This beautiful, seven-month old kitten practically tamed himself. (Original Post) femmedem Oct 7 OP
Aww, what a sweetie! lark Oct 7 #1
I don't know who is luckier, him or me. femmedem Oct 7 #3
Maybe you should name him cannabis_flower Oct 7 #38
Looks so much like my Osiris, Osie for short! HeartsCanHope Oct 11 #57
What good fortune! 2naSalit Oct 7 #2
I could see him as a Nelson. femmedem Oct 7 #6
He looks... 2naSalit Oct 7 #10
He is gorgeous! SheltieLover Oct 7 #4
I've decided taming ferals is my superpower. femmedem Oct 7 #7
He is beautiful. AltairIV Oct 7 #5
Thanks for your kind words! femmedem Oct 7 #9
I love his coloring. riversedge Oct 7 #8
I had never seen a cat with his coloring before! femmedem Oct 7 #11
His coloring catchnrelease Oct 7 #40
I agree about the lynx point pattern. 3catwoman3 Oct 7 #42
What a gorgeous little boy, and what wonderful news. Give him a day niyad Oct 7 #12
I think you're right about the name. femmedem Oct 7 #14
Here's what he looked like a few months ago--a beautiful apparition in our yard. femmedem Oct 7 #13
Gandalf the Grey? niyad Oct 7 #15
Oh! Nice! n/t femmedem Oct 7 #16
Dal (doll) for short? niyad Oct 7 #17
What a beautiful little kitty. I read a book about the domestication of cats Walleye Oct 7 #18
I believe it, based on this guy and his brother! femmedem Oct 7 #19
Can't remember the title, but it was hard to read and very technical. Still, the conclusion was clear. Walleye Oct 7 #22
Thanks for sharing the conclusion and steerig me away from the book. femmedem Oct 7 #23
What a handsome little boy! Bayard Oct 7 #20
What a great name for him! femmedem Oct 7 #26
We had a cat named Chance EverHopeful Oct 7 #31
Sometimes foster fails are the best successes! femmedem Oct 7 #37
He's So Beautiful!! ❤️😸 littlemissmartypants Oct 7 #21
Yeah, breathtakingly so, inside and out. femmedem Oct 7 #28
Admittedly it does not take much these days. Prairie_Seagull Oct 7 #24
I love dogs, too. femmedem Oct 7 #27
He looks just like Cisco, k55f5r Oct 7 #25
Aww dang it Whatthe_Firetruck Oct 7 #33
Not bad k55f5r Oct 7 #34
Havent heard the right filk Whatthe_Firetruck Oct 7 #43
I loves me some Heather Alexander. k55f5r Oct 7 #48
Did you know? Whatthe_Firetruck Oct 7 #52
What a gorgeous little boy, so very precious 💙💙 TommieMommy Oct 7 #29
"Purrcival" to honor the quick appearance of his purr. 3catwoman3 Oct 7 #30
Ooooh. Mr. Femmedem and I both appreciate a good pun. femmedem Oct 7 #35
I was thinking "Purrseus"...... n/t lastlib Oct 7 #41
I love it! n/t femmedem Oct 7 #49
Have you named him yet? lastlib Oct 12 #59
No name yet. His personality is still emerging. femmedem Oct 13 #60
He is so beautiful! Capt. America Oct 7 #32
Oh wow, another great name. femmedem Oct 7 #36
He's beautiful, my love bug is also a lynx point uppityperson Oct 7 #39
Silver - I had a feral named Silver that became domesticated alittlelark Oct 7 #44
A good name indeed! femmedem Oct 7 #45
He was about a year old in a feral colony I TnRed back in CA alittlelark Oct 7 #46
Wow! femmedem Oct 7 #47
My guess is he was a runaway behaving as a true feral alittlelark Oct 7 #53
He looks exactly like our "Silver"!! Duppers Oct 7 #50
Two DUers with lynx point Siamese cats named Silver! femmedem Oct 7 #51
They're special kitties in every way! Duppers Oct 10 #55
That's him exactly! femmedem Oct 10 #56
Awww. Beautiful baby! CousinIT Oct 8 #54
What a sweetie! Thank you for saving him. RandomNumbers Oct 12 #58

HeartsCanHope

(681 posts)
57. Looks so much like my Osiris, Osie for short!
Fri Oct 11, 2024, 02:42 AM
Oct 11

Sounds like your baby will an absolute love bug like my Osie. Good luck to you both. Take care.
Edited to add : Osie's mom was Siamese, and his dad was an orange tabby. The coloring is almost identical!

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
6. I could see him as a Nelson.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:45 AM
Oct 7

He was the shyest kitten in the litter, so I never would have predicted he'd take to humans this quickly. It must have helped that I fed him for months without doing anything scary and that he saw other cats trust me.

AltairIV

(634 posts)
5. He is beautiful.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:42 AM
Oct 7

Cats often sense who it is safe to place their trust in. Your patience, and obvious loving nature is a true gift! I look forward to future updates.

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
11. I had never seen a cat with his coloring before!
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 09:55 AM
Oct 7

His mom was a tabby, and I think his father must have been an orange/Siamese mix that I've seen a few times.

catchnrelease

(2,003 posts)
40. His coloring
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 12:35 PM
Oct 7

I've always heard this color referred to as Lynxpoint Siamese. Definitely a mix of Siamese and tabby. I've had a couple like this over the years, it's one of my favorite patterns. Congrats on your success in taming down this guy!

3catwoman3

(25,301 posts)
42. I agree about the lynx point pattern.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 02:10 PM
Oct 7

And that silvery gray would be blue point coloring in standard Siamese designation.

niyad

(119,110 posts)
12. What a gorgeous little boy, and what wonderful news. Give him a day
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:07 AM
Oct 7

or two and he will tell you his name.

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
14. I think you're right about the name.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:11 AM
Oct 7

Although it took us forever to name one of our cats: we just called her gray girl for months, until we realized that gray girl translates to Gigi.

Walleye

(34,781 posts)
18. What a beautiful little kitty. I read a book about the domestication of cats
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:28 AM
Oct 7

The conclusion was that they sort of domesticated themselves

Walleye

(34,781 posts)
22. Can't remember the title, but it was hard to read and very technical. Still, the conclusion was clear.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 10:53 AM
Oct 7

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
23. Thanks for sharing the conclusion and steerig me away from the book.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:03 AM
Oct 7

It doesn't sound like an enjoyable read.

EverHopeful

(354 posts)
31. We had a cat named Chance
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:28 AM
Oct 7

He was a foster we'd found a home for and his new Dad named him Chance because he was taking a chance on him.

Unfortunately (or as I saw it, fortunately for us) his new Dad's Mom got very ill and he needed to travel out west often to look after her so Chance came back to us. I was glad his Mom eventually recovered but more glad that Chance ended up with us as his furever home.

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
28. Yeah, breathtakingly so, inside and out.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:22 AM
Oct 7

His brother is a tuxedo cat with an unusual white streak along one flank, like a slender bolt of lightning.

Prairie_Seagull

(3,686 posts)
24. Admittedly it does not take much these days.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:05 AM
Oct 7

That is not to say that your story 'isn't much' but stories like this give me hope that our kind is not completely fucked.

If you don't mine me saying, Well done femmedem.



PS, I am much more of a K9 dude.

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
27. I love dogs, too.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:21 AM
Oct 7

I grew up in a house full of Basset Hounds and Brittany Spaniels. But dogs would have been tougher for us to care for in our small urban house, at least until I retired. By then, we'd taken in some neighborhood stray cats and weren't sure how everyone would get along.

And I'm really glad this story could give you some hope.

k55f5r

(383 posts)
25. He looks just like Cisco,
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:10 AM
Oct 7

A kitten that the neighbor left behind when she moved as she couldn't catch him to take a long.
We caught him and kept him.
He was a great cat and excellent mouser.
🎶Cisco cat was a friend of mine 🎶

3catwoman3

(25,301 posts)
30. "Purrcival" to honor the quick appearance of his purr.
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 11:26 AM
Oct 7

The right name will come to you.

I look forward to many more photos and reports about him.

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
60. No name yet. His personality is still emerging.
Sun Oct 13, 2024, 07:41 AM
Oct 13

I don't know if it's because I moved him from the bathroom to the bedroom or because he's completely healed from being neutered, but he's become much more playful but less affectionate. He never tires of interactive toys like the feather wand, but he hasn't purred or let me pet him since that first day. We're still making progress--if I stretch my hand out towards him, he stretches his paw out to touch me--but he jumps if I touch his head or back.

He's still a miracle boy, though. It's incredible that he sleeps on the bed and will jump all over me if I've got the feather wand, considering how old he is and how little interaction he's had with humans. I believe that if I put the time in, he'll end up a love bug like his brother.

alittlelark

(18,910 posts)
44. Silver - I had a feral named Silver that became domesticated
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 03:35 PM
Oct 7

Your baby looks very similar - I think Silver is a good name……

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
45. A good name indeed!
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 04:00 PM
Oct 7

Was your Silver an adult when he became domesticated?

We have a little drama here this afternoon: I let He Who Has Yet To Be Named out of the bathroom too early, and my oldest boy chased him into the bedroom, where he is currently hiding. My oldest accepted Boo so easily that I didn't anticipate this.

alittlelark

(18,910 posts)
46. He was about a year old in a feral colony I TnRed back in CA
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 04:07 PM
Oct 7

After I got him fixed and in the spare bathroom he stopped hiding and hissing. They were generally only in there for a few days - I kept him a week+ in the bathroom and he started coming to me. He was an amazingly smart and maternal male.

alittlelark

(18,910 posts)
53. My guess is he was a runaway behaving as a true feral
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 08:14 PM
Oct 7

He almost certainly had even around people at a younger time. Males that are intact often ‘go wild’ about 5-7 months old.

femmedem

(8,427 posts)
51. Two DUers with lynx point Siamese cats named Silver!
Mon Oct 7, 2024, 05:44 PM
Oct 7

The odds of that must be as small as the odds of this guy becoming so loving, so quickly, after his feral beginnings.

RandomNumbers

(18,111 posts)
58. What a sweetie! Thank you for saving him.
Sat Oct 12, 2024, 02:46 PM
Oct 12

He looks like a Myst to me. (Nothing to do with the old game, just that "Misty" would be for a female , and that coat makes me think of mist rolling off a lake in the morning. )

You have lots of great suggestions for names here. I'm sure you'll pick the purrfect one!

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