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IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 10:41 PM Mar 2013

Brigid's Arrival

Oh my lord, I nearly fainted when I saw her. No wonder my friend didn't want to tell me too many details. My second reaction was almost to name this poor pup Maris instead, after Niles Crane's wife. How she survived this long, I don't know. Pure skin and bones. And hysterical at the separation from her little brother.

It was already about 30 degrees when she arrived, and I had to lead her around the yard for a potty break after that long trip. Molly Maguire just loves her, fortunately. Not an ounce of jealousy. But Molly was so hyped up that she wouldn't come in the house. I started feeding Brigid a little bit of venison at a time - too much too soon and she'd get sickER. She obviously wanted more, but for the next few days she only gets a little at a time. Had to put half a baby aspirin in her food; my friend had already treated her for an ear infection.

When I tried to put Brigid down for a few minutes to rig up some warm costume for her, she literally screamed in terror. It took awhile because my nerves were shot too, but eventually I wrapped her in a hand towel and pinned it in place so we could get back outside to Molly for another potty walk - which Brigid already needed again. The rest of the evening until about half an hour ago was spent out in the yard for half an hour, then back in for another little bite of venison, etc.

Of course I had to try Brigid in the baby bed but she was so freaked out she went back to screaming again. Even when I put MM in there with her. Finally I gave both of them a sedative, Molly because she was too hyper to come in the house the first 2 times (I had to trick her the 3rd) and it's too cold even for her to be out there. She can't wear warm clothes because she rips them to shreds and rolls in the mud - so for her it's worse than useless.

Now at 9:20 things have finally quieted down. Believe me, I took a sedative too! We'll have one more outdoor walk at 10 and then that's it for them for the night until 6 a.m. I'll give MM about 1/2 of a tiny benadryl and Brigid just a speck, but I bet then they'll sleep through the night. Me? I'm going to take a whole benadryl all for myself. So we'll all make it through a very stressful time and come out in good enough shape.

I can't close w/o again expressing my horror at that poor Brigid, just starved. Turns out the people who had her only got her a month ago, but I have to wonder how they treated her. Some people really don't know what the hell they're doing - she was being kept in a cage with her brother. But get this - my friend told me they insist on having pictures and reports sent to them! From anyone else I wouldn't mind, but I have to wonder if these people weren't just as negligent as Brigid's first owners. I don't even trust myself to email them directly; I think I'll just ask my friend to send some pictures and forward my emails to HER. That way I won't risk getting nasty the way I feel like doing.

The picture I'll enjoy having friend forward will be in a few weeks when Brigid will hardly be recognizable, she'll be already starting to fill out. I honestly have to wonder if she'd have survived another day w/o proper care. Certainly she'd have starved to death in less than another week. So for awhile it will be best to have an intermediary!

Oh, now I'm really going to hate having to wake her up again at 10; but I'm already starting to calm down too. Writing to DUers helps. I'll keep you folks posted. This situation is straight out of a Charles Dickens novel. If I knew the people who let Brigid starve like this, they'd have to run awfully fast to get away from me.

During this brief quiet spell, I've managed to rig Brigid another much warmer outfit. Looks crappy but at least she won't freeze.

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Brigid's Arrival (Original Post) IrishAyes Mar 2013 OP
Thank you for doing this, and we look forward to updates. NYC_SKP Mar 2013 #1
Those eyes IrishAyes Mar 2013 #8
She's VERY lucky to have you. elleng Mar 2013 #2
Thanks IrishAyes Mar 2013 #9
Her condition sounds heartbreaking Curmudgeoness Mar 2013 #3
I have great faith IrishAyes Mar 2013 #7
You ae truly an earth angel!!!! Auntie Bush Mar 2013 #4
I imagine he is IrishAyes Mar 2013 #6
Fatten her up! Phentex Mar 2013 #5
Thank you IrishAyes Mar 2013 #10
SERIOUS CORRECTION TO STATS IrishAyes Mar 2013 #11
I hope that you will post pictures of both of your babies soon! nt avebury Mar 2013 #12
Everyone IrishAyes Mar 2013 #13
 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
1. Thank you for doing this, and we look forward to updates.
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 10:47 PM
Mar 2013

And pics, even in her sad state I'm sure she has the eyes of an angel.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
8. Those eyes
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 02:03 PM
Mar 2013

... are already starting to sparkle. She's fond enough of Molly Maguire already that when they're both in the baby bed, she's stopped screaming. In fact, right now after lunch before I crash for a nap, they're both curled up together in one of the half-suitcase beds, snoring away. So I'd better finish up online and crash too before it's too late.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
9. Thanks
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 02:08 PM
Mar 2013

MM and I both are lucky to have Brigid. This morning I'm no longer seriously concerned about Brigid's surivival. I wound up with only about 4 hours sleep last night, but even though I'm old I'm also retired and can catch up easier than a career person. Last night Brigid woke up and hollered for another potty break, which I couldn't refuse. But with good nutrition and emotional reassurance, I'm sure she'll sleep through the night very soon. MM came from a very good home at the same age, so it was different for her. She never once got me up at night. No night terrors either.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
3. Her condition sounds heartbreaking
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 10:56 PM
Mar 2013

but I am sure she will be fine soon, and will be living up to her name----Brigid.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
7. I have great faith
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 02:00 PM
Mar 2013

... in the power of names, especially the ancient Celtic ones. I was a tree hugger even as a child before I understood very much directly.

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
4. You ae truly an earth angel!!!!
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 09:57 AM
Mar 2013

Hugs to you all. I hope things get less hectic soon.
I worry about Brigid's little brother. Is he just as emaciated as Brigid?

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
6. I imagine he is
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 01:54 PM
Mar 2013

... although Friend spared me the sight of him. She said he's bigger and takes after the boxer mom. When I first held Brigid, I could tell she doesn't weigh over 3 or 4 lbs. Since MM stands 20" tall at the shoulder, I'm guessing Brigid at maybe 14" or 12" at least. 3-4 lbs's not enough for her at 10 weeks old! After such a deprived start in life, she won't ever grow as tall as her particular genetics would've suggested. But she will fill out, I guarantee you that!

Since Brigid never puked or anything last night and her ear infection looked better this morning, I went ahead and fed her what I'd consider a half-day's ration for her weight instead of just a few bites. We all stayed outside for an hour afterwards and she seemed to be handling it okay. So this afternoon and evening each she'll get another half-day ration. I'll have scrambled eggs for dinner tonight and give them some too, along with the regular kibble and venison. Brigid was still too weak today to jump in my lap or even take the very low porch steps alone, but I bet in a few days she'll be doing both easily.

Molly Maguire's so happy to see Brigid that she runs circles around her and even leaps over her, trying to stir up a good game of chase. I'm letting Brigid off leash in the fenced yard now while I'm around, and I saw her try to stagger off and follow when Molly would run away.

In a couple weeks, weather permitting, I should be able to let them stay out for longer periods entirely w/o me. At some point I'll need a break! Gotta rest up for the spring gardening season, which keeps me outdoors a lot. By then I expect Brigid will be able to give Molly a real run for her money.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
10. Thank you
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 02:16 PM
Mar 2013

...one and all at DU for the encouragement, and mostly for the shining examples you set.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
11. SERIOUS CORRECTION TO STATS
Sat Mar 23, 2013, 06:23 PM
Mar 2013

My apologies. I hope everyone understands how groggy I still was when trying to describe both dogs' stats. Molly Maguire does indeed weigh a trim 20 lbs but she only stands 12" at the shoulder. My eyes were still crossed from exhaustion earlier. Now after another nap and a pot of coffee, I weighed and measured Brigid herself. Very carefully this time, no estimates! She's almost 9" at the shoulder and weighs all of 3 1/2 lbs. Her hipbones stand out like a scrawny bovine's.

But after lunch and a long break outdoors, she toddled around a lot better than before. She climbed the low porch steps herself. I think I'll measure her on Sundays and weigh her every day, maybe keep a written record until I consider her in good shape. Her ear's better all the time, too. The pinkness on her muzzle and right ear (both white) has faded by at least half. I put tea tree oil drops in the ear. Betadyne works well too, but nothing beats tea tree oil.

We also passed an important social milestone. I fed both dogs lunch outdoors and kept Brigid on a leash meanwhile so she couldn't crowd Molly. But I purposely gave Molly more than usual, knowing she'd leave some. When Molly finished all she wanted, I turned Brigid loose to run scarf up the scraps. Molly just wagged her tail fondly and let her finish it all off. So if they're not going to fight over food, they're not likely to fight over much else either. When Brigid wanted to climb back in my lap, I petted her but didn't pick her up. She whimpered a little but then turned back to playing with Molly. I don't want her to think of me as her only source of love. After all she went through the first 10 weeks of life, she could easily have lifelong deep-seated neuroses, and it's part of my job to lessen that by encouraging as much canine bonding as possible. Molly will be a better doctor for her than any human could.

So we all had a lovely couple hours outdoors this afternoon (storm due tonight) and when I brought them back in and put them in the baby bed, there was little fussing. They knew they had a chunk of venison coming as a treat, and now they're snuggled together in a tight little ball, sleeping it off w/o ANY sedatives. Molly's used to a lot more free time indoors, but that would be unwise with Brigid until she's thoroughly comfortable in there with company. Molly doesn't seem to object so far, either. In a few weeks it will be used strictly for one noon nap, bedtime, and when I'm gone - which is very rare. I walk around the corner to church, and I won't even be going this week.

On Tuesdays I have a lady who drives me around on errands for 2 hours. That's when I'll buy a few bags of puppy food to substitute for the adult kibble Brigid gets now. After she fills out and quits growing, back to adult food. The additives I use all year more than make up for puppy needs, but I want Brigid to gain weight as fast as reasonable considering where she's starting from.

Did you folks know that when some of the starving prisoners were liberated from WWII concentration camps, they died from the sudden abundance of food? That's why I wanted to take it slow at first with Brigid.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
13. Everyone
Sun Mar 24, 2013, 04:54 PM
Mar 2013

While I appreciate your compliments, I know I'm not doing anything you wouldn't do yourselves under similar circumstances and some of you could probably do more.

Pictures will have to wait at least awhile until my Friend returns from yet another trip out of town. She's the one with the camera. Mine gave up the electronic ghost awhile ago, and since my laptop's almost 7 years old, it may not have long to 'live' either. I can (because I must) do w/o pictures easier than I can go w/o internet access. Our local library has it, of course, but they don't allow most interactive sites unless governmental because they're so worried about hacking and malware. You also have to use your alloted hour all in one piece, which poses a problem for me since I tend to dabble in short spurts as my day allows.

Last but hardly least, in this small town the local library serves as a sort of casual town hall, and people think nothing of leaning over your shoulder to see what you're doing. I understand it's considered friendly interest in this flyspeck burg, but it makes me wanna go DI (drill instructor) on them. They'll comment freely too, as if we were all around their kitchen table. At times I've wondered if I didn't die and wake up in a bowling alley on championship night, the racket's that deafening. Had no choice when I first moved here and had to wait a week to get home internet installed. Before the week was up, it had begun to dawn on people that loud debates at my elbow were disconcerting, so they started to pipe down. But even so, the last time I logged onto the library computer, no less than 5 women tiptoed up and collected in a knot behind me, which turned out to bother me more than the usual tumult. So I stood up slowly, turned to face them, and with a too-polite smile and tone of voice asked if there was anything I could do for them.

It took several heartbeats for that to sink in, but when it did they all walked away a few feet and turned back to their own business - which happened to be discussing my bad manners at a volume that would carry to the moon. Now they won't speak to me at all anywhere, most give me the stinkeye in fact. Even at church. Culture clash for real. I'm normally a very friendly and outgoing person, but I don't offer all my business for public fodder everywhere I turn. Here online, we're inviting confidences and that's totally different.

Anyway, it amounts to my not having a camera at the moment and afraid to buy one until after I can replace the laptop. Sometimes it growls when I turn it on, and that can't be good. But the previous recipients of Brigid had the gall to make Friend promise to send pictures and I must report Brigid's progress to assure them she's got a good home. I'd cuss a little in Irish about that, considering the near-dead condition in which she arrived, except I'm scared someone might translate it for Skinner and then he'd rightfully be after MY skin! Molly Maguire and Brigid need momma too much for her to indulge herself that way, so she'll keep her mouth mostly shut.

We're having 2 snowstorms here back to back, and Brigid refuses indoor pottying, so out we still have to go every 2 hours except at night. The snow's so deep now that I started to shovel a path along the previously dog-approved potty trails so she can stand it. She goes out wrapped up so thoroughly that she hardly looks like a dog at all. And don't anyone worry - I tell her several times a day that she's a Democrat dog just like Molly, so she'll know which way to vote if we ever move to Chicago. Would you believe a lot of people here don't find that idea funny?

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