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joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
Mon Dec 31, 2012, 03:34 PM Dec 2012

My Father passed last night. He was 93, born on August 8, 1919

He had been ill for a while now, but until this past February, he was able to live at home with a minimal amount of assistance. Then he fell and was in and out of the hospital and nursing homes for a few months, developing infections, etc., and in May I moved in with him (with all my cats) until October when we moved him into assisted living as he needed more care than I could provide. He had congestive heart failure, multiple myeloma (a blood cancer like leukemia) and Alzheimer’s. At his new home he was pretty good for a couple months, but right after Thanksgiving he started having pain in his back, and with medication we could control it, but he was noticeably getting weaker daily. I believe he decided it was time to go this past Thursday, so he didn’t linger, and I’m grateful the end was peaceful.



The above is a photo of my parents when they were courting, back when you called it that. They were married for 57 years before she passed in 2004. My father had a very good outlook, and he eventually got a girlfriend about 3 years afterwards. He liked going out, dancing and traveling, and he was lucky he found someone to share his time with.

He was a life-long Democrat and union member, WWII veteran, loving father and husband. Whenever he was in the hospital the nurses would comment about how glad they had him as a patient because he was so pleasant and never complained. Below is a photo of my sister and I with him with what must be my first Easter…it was the earliest photo I could find of him with me. The second photo is him on his 90th birthday on our cruise to Alaska.



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My Father passed last night. He was 93, born on August 8, 1919 (Original Post) joeybee12 Dec 2012 OP
so sorry to hear that Joey... trumad Dec 2012 #1
... El Supremo Dec 2012 #2
RIP, Mr. joeybee12 Sr. Auggie Dec 2012 #3
I'm so sorry to hear that, joeybee12. bluedigger Dec 2012 #4
My condolences and thanks for some great pics. chelsea0011 Dec 2012 #5
So sorry to hear this Joey:( TZ Dec 2012 #6
I'm thrilled to have another awesome birthday twin - TBF Dec 2012 #7
And me! a la izquierda Dec 2012 #10
Yay! :) nt TBF Jan 2013 #19
RIP. Sorry to hear that joey. At least I know what you look like now! madinmaryland Dec 2012 #8
Sounds like a great guy 1gobluedem Dec 2012 #9
Hope you have some peace. a la izquierda Dec 2012 #11
I'm sorry to hear about that Joey Renew Deal Dec 2012 #12
Oh man... SoapBox Jan 2013 #13
Condolences Joey ProfessorGAC Jan 2013 #14
What a face. WilliamPitt Jan 2013 #15
My best wishes to your family ellisonz Jan 2013 #16
Best wishes, joey!! Condem Jan 2013 #17
Sorry joey.. Upton Jan 2013 #18
I'm sorry, Joey -- best thoughts to you and your family fishwax Jan 2013 #20
I'm sorry Joeybee Gemini Cat Jan 2013 #21
My condolences to you and your family. It sounds like he had a very good life. n/t hughee99 Jan 2013 #22
Condolences to you and your family, Joey Berlum Jan 2013 #23
Just checking on you joeybee - TBF Jan 2013 #24
Thanks...I'm back...I keep checking to see how Roger joeybee12 Jan 2013 #25
Have not been around for a while. era veteran Jan 2013 #26
 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
1. so sorry to hear that Joey...
Mon Dec 31, 2012, 03:42 PM
Dec 2012

Dude looked like an awesome guy.

This atheist will say a prayer for your family.

TBF

(32,062 posts)
7. I'm thrilled to have another awesome birthday twin -
Mon Dec 31, 2012, 05:42 PM
Dec 2012

sharing my birthday with your dad and Roger Federer rocks. Thank you for sharing these memories with us - and I'm glad his passing was peaceful. ((joeybee))

SoapBox

(18,791 posts)
13. Oh man...
Tue Jan 1, 2013, 02:21 AM
Jan 2013

joeybee12, I'm really sorry to hear of your dad...my deepest sympathies to you.

My Mom lives with us...she's going to be 92 next month. In her case, the brain is really good but the body is crap.

Again I'm sorry to hear about dad but 93 is a great life!

TBF

(32,062 posts)
24. Just checking on you joeybee -
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 02:18 PM
Jan 2013

hope you're doing ok. It's hard to lose a close family member.

I'm wondering how the tennis year is going to be with Rafael staging a comeback and Roger winding down. I guess we can just make fun of the younger players now.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
25. Thanks...I'm back...I keep checking to see how Roger
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 04:32 PM
Jan 2013

is doing in the warm-up tournaments, and now I see that he is skipping every single one before Australia!

era veteran

(4,069 posts)
26. Have not been around for a while.
Fri Jan 11, 2013, 08:00 AM
Jan 2013

Sorry for your loss joeybee, will send out some prayers for you and family.

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