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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 03:20 PM Sep 2018

In a show of contrition, Catholic dioceses begin long road of healing

From the article:

In the end, it didn’t matter much what the bishop said during the Mass of Reparation and Prayer for Healing for victims of the sex abuse scandal.
His gesture said it all.
Standing in front of the altar Tuesday (Sept. 25) in Raleigh’s Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral, Bishop Luis Rafael Zarama took his violet zucchetto from his head and fell to his knees.

“I’d like all you who have been abused, who have been victims of this horrible crime, in the name of the church, I ask for forgiveness,” he said.
For the next 20 minutes, as he delivered his homily without notes in his heavily accented English — he is Colombian — Zarama was on his knees.


To read more:

https://religionnews.com/2018/09/26/in-a-show-of-contrition-catholic-dioceses-begin-long-road-of-healing/

If it is to be more than just a public show, the RCC must do far more. This is a step, but it is just a first step on the long road to change.
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In a show of contrition, Catholic dioceses begin long road of healing (Original Post) guillaumeb Sep 2018 OP
BFD Cuthbert Allgood Sep 2018 #1
Actions speak loudly. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #2
He held a mass. Cuthbert Allgood Sep 2018 #3
Perhaps he is sorry, and sincere. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #4
Perhaps pigs will fly out of his ass, too, to coin a phrase. Cuthbert Allgood Sep 2018 #5
Let us revisit this in a year. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #6
A year? trotsky Sep 2018 #7
Simplistic. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #10
Is there a global organization that racists belong to? trotsky Sep 2018 #18
More simplicity. eom guillaumeb Sep 2018 #21
I guess you can't counter the facts that illustrate how your comparison fails. trotsky Oct 2018 #37
Now Trotsky, you know this takes time. Mariana Sep 2018 #12
It's always about the PR. trotsky Sep 2018 #19
"Sorry" doesn't un-rape the children. Act_of_Reparation Sep 2018 #20
This The Genealogist Sep 2018 #22
Go directly to jail. Voltaire2 Sep 2018 #8
"In Raleigh, the service was carefully scripted..." nt. Mariana Sep 2018 #9
Why did you not quote the full passage? guillaumeb Sep 2018 #11
I consider the details of the performance to be irrelevant. nt. Mariana Sep 2018 #13
So quick to judge? guillaumeb Sep 2018 #14
They wrote a script (carefully!) and put on a show. Mariana Sep 2018 #15
What is important, as I said in the post, is the actions taken. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #16
Yes. Agreed. Mariana Sep 2018 #17
What is more important, however, are the failures to act. MineralMan Sep 2018 #23
How insightful. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #24
Oh, thanks. MineralMan Sep 2018 #25
How uninsightful marylandblue Sep 2018 #27
Understanding requires thought, not simply reaction. MineralMan Sep 2018 #29
Another... Major Nikon Sep 2018 #26
And given that these are your best responses, guillaumeb Sep 2018 #28
Granted yours are far superior Major Nikon Sep 2018 #30
Oh no, yours are far superior. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #31
You really should work on your repertoire of canned responses Major Nikon Sep 2018 #32
But it applies so often... guillaumeb Sep 2018 #33
Good to know Major Nikon Sep 2018 #34
And you provided that predictable response. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #35
'I'm rubber, you're glue' Major Nikon Sep 2018 #36

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
1. BFD
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 03:23 PM
Sep 2018

This isn't even a fraction of a step. Priests have to say mass every day.

PAY THEM THE FUCKING MONEY YOU ASSHOLES. AND ACTUALLY FIRE SOME PEOPLE.

Until something real actually happens, it's just more smoke and mirrors. We know that historically.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
3. He held a mass.
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 03:43 PM
Sep 2018

Which he has to do everyday.

Yeah, yeah, he fell to his knees and said he was really sorry.

That and $3 will get you coffee at Starbucks.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
5. Perhaps pigs will fly out of his ass, too, to coin a phrase.
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 03:46 PM
Sep 2018

Based on the history of what the RCC has actually done when they have been "sorry," we will see fuck all from this.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
7. A year?
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 04:05 PM
Sep 2018

How many centuries has this been going on?

How much slack does the RCC get?

CHANGE. NOW. Not in a fucking YEAR.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
18. Is there a global organization that racists belong to?
Fri Sep 28, 2018, 09:09 AM
Sep 2018

One that is headed by a single individual who can order changes to occur?

Nope. So your ridiculous false equivalence can be tossed right out.

The RCC *can* make instant changes to virtually eliminate their sex abuse problems. Why don't they?

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
12. Now Trotsky, you know this takes time.
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 07:26 PM
Sep 2018

It all has to be carefully scripted, you see.

In Raleigh, the service was carefully scripted, with clarion bells, a full choir and a long litany of supplications with the refrain: “Out of the depths, I cry to you, O Lord.” Zarama and his entourage of priests wore purple vestments, the color of penitence, typically worn during Lenten season.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
19. It's always about the PR.
Fri Sep 28, 2018, 09:10 AM
Sep 2018

The RCC has played that game for a long time. Hiring a former FOX News consultant as their PR guy has helped them ramp it up, definitely.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
20. "Sorry" doesn't un-rape the children.
Fri Sep 28, 2018, 09:54 AM
Sep 2018

And "perhaps" isn't good enough.

Words are wind. Shit or get off the pot.

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
22. This
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 12:09 AM
Sep 2018

Hail Marys and Novenas are not going to un-rape children. Clergymen can throw themselves down wailing before an altar with torn vestments or whatever, it is not enough. Real-world consequences for child rape need to apply.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
11. Why did you not quote the full passage?
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 07:24 PM
Sep 2018
In Raleigh, the service was carefully scripted, with clarion bells, a full choir and a long litany of supplications with the refrain: “Out of the depths, I cry to you, O Lord.”
Zarama and his entourage of priests wore purple vestments, the color of penitence, typically worn during Lenten season.


Why no mention of the purple vestments? Or the symbolism of the color?

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
15. They wrote a script (carefully!) and put on a show.
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 07:40 PM
Sep 2018

That's what the article says. Is it really important what costumes they wore?

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
17. Yes. Agreed.
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 07:42 PM
Sep 2018

Last edited Thu Sep 27, 2018, 08:20 PM - Edit history (1)

The actions taken consisted of writing a script (carefully!) and putting on a show.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
23. What is more important, however, are the failures to act.
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 09:46 AM
Sep 2018

They had a ceremony. That ceremony does nothing whatever to redress the harm done to victims over years, decades and centuries. Not a damned thing.

Future actions have not taken place. Come back and tell us about those at some later time.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
29. Understanding requires thought, not simply reaction.
Sat Sep 29, 2018, 08:17 PM
Sep 2018

That, I believe is the problem. If everything is simply derivative of the thoughts of others, you understand nothing, really. You are merely repeating what you have heard or read.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
30. Granted yours are far superior
Sun Sep 30, 2018, 01:54 AM
Sep 2018


Apologizing for the RCC seems to require a lot of effort, and is so noted.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
31. Oh no, yours are far superior.
Sun Sep 30, 2018, 11:35 AM
Sep 2018

As is your ability to mis-frame or misunderstand any argument that does not fit your preferred narrative.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
34. Good to know
Sun Sep 30, 2018, 10:03 PM
Sep 2018

Here I was thinking it was because you had nothing of substance to offer, yet still couldn't resist the burning desire to reply.

Either way it's still worth pulling the chain for the inevitable predictable response.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
35. And you provided that predictable response.
Sun Sep 30, 2018, 10:07 PM
Sep 2018

And further proof, as if it were needed, of the validity of my 11th Commandment observation. So many of the choir seem compelled to respond even when the responses are clearly whataboutism fallacies designed to divert and distract. And yet the same few keep responding in that way.

And then they complain that there is no dialogue.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
36. 'I'm rubber, you're glue'
Sun Sep 30, 2018, 10:17 PM
Sep 2018

Combined with, 'I know you are but what am I' and some 11th commandment argle bargle thrown in for good measure all in one post.

You are truly setting new standards for banality, so bravo on that one.

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