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Related: About this forumStudent’s home-schooling highlights debate over Va. religious exemption law
By the time he was 16, he had never written an essay. He didnt know South Africa was a country. He couldnt solve basic algebra problems.
There were all these things that are part of this common collective of knowledge that 99 percent of people have that I didnt have, Powell said.
Powell was taught at home, his parents using a religious exemption that allows families to entirely opt out of public education, a Virginia law that is unlike any other in the country. That means that not only are their children excused from attending school as those educated under the states home-school statute are but they also are exempt from all government oversight.
http://articles.washingtonpost.com/2013-07-28/local/40859230_1_josh-powell-virginia-law-education
JimboBillyBubbaBob
(1,389 posts)We have, from time to time, students enter the class who have been home-schooled. The social deprivation lags further behind than the academic deprivation. They are essentially unprepared to enter the work force when they grow older. This is frightening for its long term consequences.
YarnAddict
(1,850 posts)who home-schooled their children. Nearly all of them made it a point to get their kids involved in social activities, through their churches, with other home-schoolers, in various other ways. For the most part, the kids were happy, polite, well-educated, and much better able than most to relate to people of all different ages.
The only real exception was one friend who was a home-schooling tyrant who pretty much wanted her kids to stay away from the influences of others. Her older daughter has many problems, but the 2nd daughter is very well-adjusted, and has no problems in the work force.
I don't think you should generalize.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)over someone's second hand anecdotal evidence.
YarnAddict
(1,850 posts)doesn't exactly have an unbiased opinion.
Just. sayin'.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)And are under constant assault on all fronts and often ignored when they themselves are the professionals that should be consulted.
Home schoolers aren't impartial either, you know.
Also helps to not make sweeping generalizations when telling others to not make sweeping generalizations.
YarnAddict
(1,850 posts)And probably more than any teacher. Probably for every abusive homeschooling situation you can name, I could find links to at least one abusive teacher.
Humanist_Activist
(7,670 posts)hence the need for oversight, of both. After all, parents and teachers are human, make mistakes, can be selfish and abusive, even to kids in their care.
That's why exemptions shouldn't be in place. We wouldn't find it acceptable to have teachers run classrooms with absolutely no oversight, no supervision or checkups, and no means of doing any of those things, no higher ups to report to. Why should we treat parent's differently?
Homeschooling is fine, as long as some type of academic and social standards are put in place, with no exemptions.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)Parents mostly want their children taken care of, and think they know what's right for them, with no education required.
YarnAddict
(1,850 posts)is that the friend I mentioned in my first reply, the "home-schooling tyrant" is actually a certified teacher.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)as you said her first home schooled child is the typical messed up, unready for the world type.
YarnAddict
(1,850 posts)she's also one of those you said is "well-educated" on what children need.
2ndAmForComputers
(3,527 posts)cbayer
(146,218 posts)Some parents make great efforts to include their kids in social and sport activities, while some are clearly trying to guard their kids against the "evils" of the world.
Much of my exposure has been to kids raised in the cruising community. They get a lot of social exposure, including immersion into other cultures.
There are definitely upsides and downsides to this.
sinkingfeeling
(51,444 posts)The young woman was doing homemaking, sewing, learning to cook, and the boy was doing farming, able at 13 to raise and sell a bull calf, he said.
longship
(40,416 posts)I'll be here all week.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Of course the difference being that in 1913, that would have been enough education and training to have a self-supporting career in the United States.
Ain't so anymore!
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Homeschooling should be an option, imo, but it needs to meet some defined standards. And kids should have the option of going into the school system at some defined age.
I have met many families who are homeschooling their kids because they are cruising. None of these are doing it for religious reasons.
Whether the reasons are religious or not, the same issues are going to arise.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)So your notes about other kinds of homeschooling are irrelevant to this story, I'm afraid.
The exemption is a natural progression from the idea that religious beliefs are special and deserve different treatment than other opinions - a concept you yourself have confirmed previously, cbayer.
Neoma
(10,039 posts)Educationally I was affected by this kind of law in Tennessee. Though I'm straight inbetween what people talk about. Religious education and non-religious. Social butterfly, and then isolated to a certain degree... I've been introduced to both worlds as a kid. It really just depends on what year we talk about in my life.
I'm not going into what I'm behind in or what I'm ahead in, since I'm kind of cleaning all that up in college. My education was simply unique. Especially when you add the autodidact part in. I'm also kind of an outgoing introverted person. It depends on what kind of mood I'm in.
Although there's a lot of crap I wish I didn't go through because of this umbrella type law... I gained a lot from it nevertheless.
If you can become the type of person you want to be in the end, then nothing was truly lost. This kind of case though, I've never quite seen before.