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SnowCritter

(810 posts)
Sun Oct 13, 2013, 10:01 AM Oct 2013

My mother died this morning

She was 79.

She fell and broke her hip on Friday night. Once we got her to the hospital it seemed like things were stabilized, but on Saturday afternoon she suffered a heart attack. The surgeons installed a couple of stents in the affected artery, but the damage was done. She had two more heart attacks later and, near the end, it was only the drugs that were keeping her with us.

She had suffered from pulmonary fibrosis for years and was on oxygen (when she was first diagnosed the doctors gave her 6 months to a year - she beat that by about 10 years). She was also diagnosed with diabetes a couple of years back - which she was managing well.

We weren't very close for most of my life, but had become so over the last 12 or so.

I think what I'll miss the most is her off-beat sense of humor. She was the queen of god-awful puns.

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My mother died this morning (Original Post) SnowCritter Oct 2013 OP
So sorry. It's nice you were able to re-connect. And you'll remember the puns! CurtEastPoint Oct 2013 #1
I inherited her sense of humor SnowCritter Oct 2013 #6
I'm so sorry, SnowCritter. polly7 Oct 2013 #2
I'm so sorry. Autumn Oct 2013 #3
How terribly sad. I'm so sorry for your loss. auntAgonist Oct 2013 #4
much sympathy and warm thoughts sent your way orleans Oct 2013 #5
So sorry. applegrove Oct 2013 #7
I am so very sorry. GreenPartyVoter Oct 2013 #8
Sorry for your loss. 47of74 Oct 2013 #9

SnowCritter

(810 posts)
6. I inherited her sense of humor
Sun Oct 13, 2013, 08:50 PM
Oct 2013

I think it was one of the things that really brought us back together.

Thanks, everyone, for your thoughts and prayers.

auntAgonist

(17,252 posts)
4. How terribly sad. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sun Oct 13, 2013, 11:46 AM
Oct 2013

I'm glad you had 12 years of closeness and hopefully they've given you a lifetime of memories to call upon when you need them most.

So hard to lose a Mother.

My heart is with you and I sadly welcome you to our little group.

May you find some source of comfort today.


kesha.

orleans

(34,051 posts)
5. much sympathy and warm thoughts sent your way
Sun Oct 13, 2013, 02:07 PM
Oct 2013

how wonderful for both you and her that you were able to be close these last years. i'm sure that was a great comfort to her, and a great happiness. (for both of you)

take care.

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