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Moostache

(11,143 posts)
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 08:55 PM 21 hrs ago

In Memorium - my father passed lateTuesday PM

Daniel Edward Hruskoci
2/6/1943 - 3/10/2026
Father of three, grandfather of nine.
A man who lived everyday for his family and friends with great passion and empathy.

It has been almost 5 and 1/2 years since my mom passed at the height of the COVID-19 restrictions and nearly 5 years to the day that he survived a massive stroke with miraculous lack of loss of function or paralysis. He then survived bladder cancer, sepsis (twice), a series of falls that culminated in a broken hip and replacement surgery. In the end, he was afflicted with progresive dementia and kidney failure.

I was able to be with him as he passed and the last words he heard were "I love you dad." That will stay with me the rest of my life as much as his example in how to be a man, a husband, a father and a friend. I miss him already and always will, but in my mind (even if no where else) he reunited with my mother and that image brings a rueful smile to my face.

One last time, with feeling - I love you dad!

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In Memorium - my father passed lateTuesday PM (Original Post) Moostache 21 hrs ago OP
Condolences to you and your family. Nt spooky3 21 hrs ago #1
Condolences to you Mustache Irish_Dem 21 hrs ago #2
Hugs to you, Moostache UpInArms 20 hrs ago #3
💐🕯️ blm 20 hrs ago #4
Deepest condolences SheltieLover 20 hrs ago #5
My deepest condolences for your loss, Moostache. greatauntoftriplets 20 hrs ago #6
Best wishes to you and your Family in this difficult time marked50 20 hrs ago #7
🫂 mwmisses4289 20 hrs ago #8
What a lovely Memoriam. Bravo to You and Peace to Dad c-rational 20 hrs ago #9
... 2naSalit 20 hrs ago #10
Heartfelt obit. cachukis 20 hrs ago #11
My condolences. CentralMass 20 hrs ago #12
My sympathy to you and family on the loss of livetohike 20 hrs ago #13
Holding you in love and light. Such a beautiful tribute to a remarkable man. niyad 20 hrs ago #14
Your dad raised a good man. 3catwoman3 20 hrs ago #15
That was a beautiful, it made me cry MacKasey 20 hrs ago #16
Hugs and love to you, Moostache. ancianita 20 hrs ago #17
Thank you for this beautiful post Moostache, JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #18
I am so very sorry for loss of your father, Moostache Grim Chieftain 20 hrs ago #19
My deepest condolences, Moostache. HeartsCanHope 20 hrs ago #20
I'm so sorry Faux pas 20 hrs ago #21
My heart goes out to you gopiscrap 20 hrs ago #22
Thank-you for sharing your love. FrankTC 20 hrs ago #23
My deep condolences on the loss of your father. It sounds as if he was a wonderful person. LoisB 20 hrs ago #24
So sorry to hear about your loss. This one's a big one. calimary 19 hrs ago #25
Deepest sympathies. nt stage left 19 hrs ago #26
I'm so sorry, Moostache, but what a beautiful tribute to your dad. Condolences to you and your family. highplainsdem 19 hrs ago #27
My condolences on the loss of your father MustLoveBeagles 19 hrs ago #28
❤️ My wife was with her Father when he passed in Nov 2024 underpants 19 hrs ago #29
Wonderful tribute! Permanut 19 hrs ago #30
I'm very sorry for your loss. mzmolly 19 hrs ago #31
I know what you are feeling, its been just over 40 years ago last January my father passed away... Enter stage left 19 hrs ago #32
Condolences 🌹 Figarosmom 19 hrs ago #33
A beautiful tribute to your Dad, Moostache. democrank 19 hrs ago #34
Count yourself lucky, my friend. OAITW r.2.0 19 hrs ago #35
I am so sad for your loss Trueblue Texan 18 hrs ago #36
My deepest condolences... slightlv 18 hrs ago #37
Condolences to you and your Family Moostache. 🙏 SimplyHadEnough 18 hrs ago #38
A beautiful tribute. Dear_Prudence 18 hrs ago #39
I'm so sorry for your loss. 💔 live love laugh 18 hrs ago #40
I am very sad for your loss... Bayard 18 hrs ago #41
My sincere condolences 💐 Your heartfelt tribute is beautifully written and I'm sure we all can feel your loss Deuxcents 18 hrs ago #42
I'm sorry for your loss. area51 17 hrs ago #43
What a wonderful tribute to your dad! mgardener 10 hrs ago #44
It is hard when one loses a parent. I wish you peace with happy memories. NNadir 8 hrs ago #45

Irish_Dem

(80,940 posts)
2. Condolences to you Mustache
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 08:58 PM
21 hrs ago

Your dad sounds like a wonderful man.
He will always be with you.

livetohike

(24,217 posts)
13. My sympathy to you and family on the loss of
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:15 PM
20 hrs ago

your Father. May every good memory and the stories you’ll tell always comfort you .

niyad

(131,867 posts)
14. Holding you in love and light. Such a beautiful tribute to a remarkable man.
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:25 PM
20 hrs ago

Please know that your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as you need.

MacKasey

(1,516 posts)
16. That was a beautiful, it made me cry
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:35 PM
20 hrs ago

Your father and mother will be with you always !

I know my are!


JMCKUSICK

(5,878 posts)
18. Thank you for this beautiful post Moostache,
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:36 PM
20 hrs ago

Your reverence for this man is plain to see, How wonderful that must be. Thank you for celebrating him with us.
God Speed

Grim Chieftain

(1,616 posts)
19. I am so very sorry for loss of your father, Moostache
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:40 PM
20 hrs ago

I trust his memory will be a blessing.

You are in my thoughts, friend.

HeartsCanHope

(1,643 posts)
20. My deepest condolences, Moostache.
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:42 PM
20 hrs ago

Love and light to you and your family as you mourn your father. I will thinking of you all.

gopiscrap

(24,698 posts)
22. My heart goes out to you
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:49 PM
20 hrs ago

it is never easy to lose a loved. May you be granted peace in the assuredness of the bond you had with him! Peace Mike C

LoisB

(12,857 posts)
24. My deep condolences on the loss of your father. It sounds as if he was a wonderful person.
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:55 PM
20 hrs ago

calimary

(89,809 posts)
25. So sorry to hear about your loss. This one's a big one.
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 10:04 PM
19 hrs ago

Just always cherish those memories that will mean more and more as each day passes. And if you find some photos of those happier times, hang ‘em up so everybody can appreciate them.

As I age, there are more and more moments when I find myself thinking “that’ll be me, some day.”

highplainsdem

(61,631 posts)
27. I'm so sorry, Moostache, but what a beautiful tribute to your dad. Condolences to you and your family.
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 10:21 PM
19 hrs ago
I miss him already and always will, but in my mind (even if no where else) he reunited with my mother and that image brings a rueful smile to my face.


I don't doubt that they are reunited, and healthy and young again. And I believe that not because of any religion's teachings, but because of personal stories I've heard from people in grief support groups.

underpants

(196,145 posts)
29. ❤️ My wife was with her Father when he passed in Nov 2024
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 10:33 PM
19 hrs ago

I’m sorry for your loss. Sounds like his life’s work was completed and successful with you.

Enter stage left

(4,514 posts)
32. I know what you are feeling, its been just over 40 years ago last January my father passed away...
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 10:42 PM
19 hrs ago

I still miss him every day. He was only 63.

Your post really hit me hard, because, today, March 12th is his birthday. He'd have been 104 today

OAITW r.2.0

(32,035 posts)
35. Count yourself lucky, my friend.
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 10:58 PM
19 hrs ago

I worked on my Dad in 76, but had no last communication as he had a fatal MI.

Trueblue Texan

(4,395 posts)
36. I am so sad for your loss
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 11:04 PM
18 hrs ago

But I am joyful for the reunion in your mind and heart. Peace and healing, Moostache.

slightlv

(7,738 posts)
37. My deepest condolences...
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 11:05 PM
18 hrs ago

you gave us a wonderful image not only of your father, but of your relationship with him. I lost my Mom last year at New Years. The ache doesn't go away, it seems... but each day makes it a little easier to handle. So does late night "talks with Mom"... when I'm in bed, tossing and turning because of some body ache or pain she and I shared, or worries for the future... especially now. Mom absolutely detested trump. I still say she died when she did because she refused to live under his reign again. So, late at night, when I feel on the edge of despair or a nervous breakdown, I talk it out with Mom. I find being quiet and still after one of these "conversations" I can hear Mom talking back to me, instinctively. May the life and conversations you had with your father fill your days with happiness of those memories, and be the strength you may need at times.

Deuxcents

(26,546 posts)
42. My sincere condolences 💐 Your heartfelt tribute is beautifully written and I'm sure we all can feel your loss
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 11:53 PM
18 hrs ago
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