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randr

(12,412 posts)
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 12:21 PM Apr 2016

My wife is an ER nurse and had a Trump supporter to care for last night

A man came in with issues with his daughter. He started up a political rap about Trump and was taken aback when my wife stated her support for Bernie. The daughter had been nodding in agreement with dad until then. She came agreed with my wife and said she actually thought Bernie the best of all. At this point the man humbles himself enough to admit he feels the same and worries that Bernie would not be able to beat Trump. After further conversation with wife and daughter he left a reborn man in support of Bernie.

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My wife is an ER nurse and had a Trump supporter to care for last night (Original Post) randr Apr 2016 OP
I'm glad for everyone. your wife is an angel roguevalley Apr 2016 #1
I definitely agree with you--thanx randr Apr 2016 #2
yank out republicans' media feeding tubes, LOL!... nt 4ricksren Apr 2016 #3
Bernie is the only one who can beat Trump. The Clintons have a semi full of baggage. Skwmom Apr 2016 #4
You and your wife should share this video with everyone you know... ChisolmTrailDem Apr 2016 #5
that is worth all 27 minutes. thanks for posting it. Hiraeth Apr 2016 #6
Kind of puts it all together, doesn't it? Hillary is Empire. It's that simple. I thought we... ChisolmTrailDem Apr 2016 #7
I know I am against Evil Empires built from Greed and Amoral Ambition.eom Hiraeth Apr 2016 #9
Commitment to ideals, worthy goals, knowledge, all Hortensis Apr 2016 #8
I would want to be in agreement with my child's caretaker as well, if ecstatic Apr 2016 #10
This is EXACTLY what I was thinking, too. PeaceNikki Apr 2016 #11
"Go Trump" ---- beedle Apr 2016 #12
Really? That's your takeaway? SMH. nt ecstatic Apr 2016 #13
Well either that or you're just against people talking about Bernie beedle Apr 2016 #14
Personally, unless you are working for a campaign, getting into political discussions at work ever PeaceNikki Apr 2016 #15
Right ... that's for the great establishment advice beedle Apr 2016 #17
No, it's fucking stupid regardless of who your candidate is. PeaceNikki Apr 2016 #18
I get it ... elections are too important to waste them talking about the issues. beedle Apr 2016 #19
What's eye-rolling crazy is thinking that it's ok to engage with coworkers or customers. PeaceNikki Apr 2016 #20
Eye-rolling right back at you. beedle Apr 2016 #22
I don't know where you live but here in Western Colorado randr Apr 2016 #27
If I were in the ER with family and the election came up ecstatic Apr 2016 #23
Exactly. It's tacky. PeaceNikki Apr 2016 #26
My wife did not weigh in with an opposing opinion randr Apr 2016 #28
my father's close friend (until a week ago) ChairmanAgnostic Apr 2016 #16
cool story! snooper2 Apr 2016 #21
CSB nt Dreamer Tatum Apr 2016 #24
The nurse/doctor should be worried about taking care of a patient bigwillq Apr 2016 #25
I take it you aren't in caregiving hereforthevoting Apr 2016 #29
 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
7. Kind of puts it all together, doesn't it? Hillary is Empire. It's that simple. I thought we...
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 01:05 PM
Apr 2016

...were against empire.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
8. Commitment to ideals, worthy goals, knowledge, all
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 01:07 PM
Apr 2016

missing in one pathetic story. All I can say to people like this is, "Please don't vote."

ecstatic

(32,712 posts)
10. I would want to be in agreement with my child's caretaker as well, if
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 01:16 PM
Apr 2016

the topic were ever introduced in the ER, of all places. Why in the world was she discussing politics in the ER? If the patient brings it up, that's fine, but as a medical professional, there's no need to state your own views (unless you agree, but even then, still not the right place or time). That's extremely inappropriate. And it's wishful thinking to believe that that guy, an avid trump supporter, will be solidly in Bernie's corner going forward.

 

beedle

(1,235 posts)
14. Well either that or you're just against people talking about Bernie
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 02:29 PM
Apr 2016

When is it a good time to discuss politics? Which places are forbidden?

Jesus, if there's an issue of any importance in the election at all it's health care ... so let's not mention politics in a institution affected by political health care decisions.

Why are Hillary supports so damn keen on not talking about issues anywhere.

You always have some excuse .... too sexist, not the right place, too finger waggy, too much opposition, .... how do you people get out from under your bed in the morning?

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
15. Personally, unless you are working for a campaign, getting into political discussions at work ever
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 02:34 PM
Apr 2016

seems really fucking stupid.

It's stupid to start or engage in a conversation with your coworkers, bosses, customers, patients, whatever.

It's just fucking stupid.

 

beedle

(1,235 posts)
19. I get it ... elections are too important to waste them talking about the issues.
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 02:53 PM
Apr 2016

we all get it .... wise words from direct from Establishment headquarters.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
20. What's eye-rolling crazy is thinking that it's ok to engage with coworkers or customers.
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 03:05 PM
Apr 2016

Ever.

Politics and religion should be left out of the workplace - regardless of how passionate you are about your favorite.

randr

(12,412 posts)
27. I don't know where you live but here in Western Colorado
Tue Apr 19, 2016, 07:00 AM
Apr 2016

you can not avoid political discussions anywhere. People are engaged and want to know what other people are thinking. It is the topic in conversations at the grocery store, restaurants, bars, working places, and casual contacts on the street. Most people start with "can you believe what is going on?". I have dealing with people of all political persuasions everyday. I value friendship above someones political leaning and most people in our community fell the same.
My wife would never start a political conversation at work but when drawn in she is not one to withhold her opinion. Her working staff and employers values her and each others freedom to do so as well.
I am not a church attender but from what I am told politics are openly discussed there as well.
I would feel that without open discussion of our thoughts and concerns we would be living in some sort of Kafkaesque reality.

ecstatic

(32,712 posts)
23. If I were in the ER with family and the election came up
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 03:49 PM
Apr 2016

and we were all for either Clinton or Sanders, I would not want the nurse or doctor (who has my loved one's life in his/her hands) to interject and tell us that Ted Cruz is the superior choice. If that ever happened, we would probably smile, nod, and be as polite as possible because it would be stupid to argue with the person delivering care to our loved ones.

It's very unlikely that anyone in my family would bring the election up in the ER in the first place, but if it ever came up, due to the TV being on, etc., it would be a private conversation and we damn sure wouldn't expect the nurse or doctor to weigh in with an opposing opinion.

randr

(12,412 posts)
28. My wife did not weigh in with an opposing opinion
Tue Apr 19, 2016, 07:04 AM
Apr 2016

She was asked who she was supporting and politely responded without dissing the other person or telling anyone she had the superior opinion in the case.
There really is a way to have open polite political conversation without offending others.

ChairmanAgnostic

(28,017 posts)
16. my father's close friend (until a week ago)
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 02:42 PM
Apr 2016

is a huge Trump fan. At a gathering, I tried to find out why. I was sincerely questioning him, not attacking, until he erupted and screamed at all present.

Eventually, we got him calmed down, and he provided some telling answers.

To sum it up in one word - FEAR. They fear the scientific progress. They fear how Wall has destroyed us, and yet we bailed them out. THey fear the unknown. They fear global climate change, so are more willing to reject it than to take concrete, rational steps to solve it. They fear for their jobs, their retirement, their kids' financial futures.

You see other facets of this stoked fear, especially among the morons who make Conservative Christianity. The bullshit "religious freedom" statutes are a direct response to having fears stoked and tended to by a few disgusting asshole billionaires and their lackeys.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
25. The nurse/doctor should be worried about taking care of a patient
Mon Apr 18, 2016, 04:16 PM
Apr 2016

not discussing politics. I'm sure the dude was a pain in the butt, ignoring said dude probably would have been the best option.

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